Some people say that the happiest woman is to be pampered by her parents at home, by her husband when she gets married, and by her children when she is old!

However, such a mother was actually "disliked" by her own children!

(1) The "giant baby mother" who does not do housework, does not take care of the children, does not care about her husband or grandchildren

"The mother who does not do housework"

Chunping was an educated young woman. At that time, her family was considered to be well off, and her parents were both children of high-ranking cadres! When Chunping was a child, she was naturally pampered like a "princess" by her parents! Later, when I grew up, I met my current husband. My husband’s family conditions were relatively poor and he was considered a high-ranking person. Therefore, he always followed Chunping’s orders at home and never dared to let Chunping do any housework! Later, she had a child. Apart from the pain of giving birth, Chunping barely had to take care of her child for a day! Almost all of them are taken care of by his husband!

Later, the children grew up and got married! After leaving home, Chunping also retired at home. She still looks like a "princess" and does nothing except going to the gym and doing aerobics!

“A mother who doesn’t care about her husband”

However, something unexpected happened and her husband fell ill!

This disease will bring bad luck to my daughter!

Her daughter said, since my father fell ill, I have to go to the hospital every day to take care of my father and take care of the children. Most importantly, I have to go home. When it comes to cooking for my mother, her ability to take care of herself is really poor and she can’t do anything! My father used to do everything, but now he is fine. My father is ill, and all the pressure is on me! Even if I have the cloning technique, I can’t keep busy! Let my mother go to the hospital to take care of my father. She said she couldn't and going would only cause trouble! Let her cook and eat at home. She said how could she do it? Your father used to do it. I couldn’t even find the bowl. Besides, I wouldn’t know how to cook it even if I found it!

Her daughter said that once she went to the hospital and was stuck in traffic when she came back. She didn’t have time to go home and cook for her. She couldn’t even buy instant noodles to eat. , living there waiting for me to go back and cook for her! To be honest, I really "dislike" my mother! How does she look like a mother! She is here to be the "Queen Mother"! Our whole family is like her slaves!

When I was a child, my father often told me that both men and women must be independent! However, my mother’s character was completely spoiled by my father! My dad always said that his own daughter-in-law should be pampered by herself! There's nothing you can do about it, just pamper him! As a result, what kind of pampering has become? In the end, it became a "drag" to the family!

“A mother who doesn’t care about her grandchildren”

I didn’t feel much at first! Later, I gave birth to my own child. I originally thought that other mothers could help take care of the child, but my mother said that she still needs someone to take care of her, so I shouldn’t think of her taking care of my child!

Later, my father became ill, and then, my father passed away! My mother was the only one left, and I felt really tired! I have to take care of a little baby every day, and I also have to take care of a "giant baby"! My mother-in-law's family ran on both sides! Please hire a nanny, but she won’t do it and insists that as a child, I have to take care of her myself! Let her live with us, but she doesn't want to. It's simply a problem. I really don't know how to evaluate her! But she is my biological mother. There is nothing I can do about it. If I don’t care about her, no one will care about her!

Chunping’s daughter feels very angry every time she talks about these things! She said that other mothers can help take care of their children and do housework at home.

, cook, and clean! Look at my family, having such a "mom" is really hard for me!

She never touched me when she was a child, forget it if she doesn’t take me with her! It brought me so much trouble when I grew up! I feel like I can’t serve even the Thousand-Armed Guanyin! All I do is dress up and play around all day long, never thinking about others! When cooking for her, she still thinks that my cooking is not delicious. She doesn’t have the cooking skills that my father used to do, and she wants me to learn more! I'll let her learn to cook on her own! She said that since she was so old, it was time for her children to be filial to her! Ask her to learn to help take care of the children. She said that she has never taken care of her own children, so how can she have time to help us take care of the children!

If she continues talking, she will say that it is because she is lucky! It’s good to be born as a child and have parents who love you, and it’s good to have a husband after you get married! Now the children have grown up and become sensible, and they still have children to love! Then I have nothing to say!

After all, she is her own mother, and she has to take care of her. But, to be honest, I am really tired.

(2) But, is a mother with a "giant baby" like this really good?

Nowadays, many people claim that raising a girl requires wealth! When marrying a girl, she said: The girl I spent so much money and energy raising requires others to raise her as a "princess"! However, if every girl is "spoiled" like this, not doing housework, not taking care of children, and not taking care of other people, then, is it good or bad?

A friend got married before, and when he was getting married, he also met a "giant baby mother-in-law"!

She said that her mother-in-law usually does nothing and only goes out to square dance.

The broom at home has fallen over and I can’t help it! After finishing the meal, as soon as it was placed on the table, we went out! When the child cries, she not only refuses to take care of him, but also scolds him for crying all day long, which makes him so noisy! Then let them move out as soon as possible!

She said that she would be unlucky for eight lifetimes to have such a mother-in-law! I really don’t know how their family can tolerate her!

In fact, everyone is equal! However, there are always some people who, under the banner of "giant babies", evade their responsibilities and pass the blame to others!

Marriage, no matter how hard it is, is still a cooperation! Encountering a "giant baby" is a "catastrophe"!

Any man or woman who admits frankly before marriage that they will “not touch the beauty” after marriage is, to put it bluntly, “selfish”! Don’t know how to make sacrifices and contributions to your family!

(3) Why is the divorce rate so high now?

Isn’t it related to the existence of the “giant baby”? Too many women dream of "princess dreams" every day and want to marry a "rich man", but they never look at themselves and ask, "Why?" Because of your stupidity, because of your stupidity, because of your stupidity? It’s still because you “can’t do anything”! Do you have a stupid face?

A girl once said that men today are much "smarter" than men in the past! I bought my own house, my own car, and I saved the rest of the money! Make your own little life a success by digging and searching!

Unlike many women, whose monthly salary is 3,000, but they have to buy 4,000 skin care products, and still ask stupidly why men don’t want her! I tell you why! Because you don’t even know basic “financial management”! Marrying someone back is a "loss-making" business!

There is also a woman whose monthly salary is 20,000, but she has to buy 30,000 for a piece of clothing! To put it bluntly, if this kind of woman is not stupid, who is? As long as you have some basic "financial intelligence" knowledge, can you spend it like this?

It is true that life is about materials, rice, oil and salt, but life also needs to be "managed"! Even if I swipe my credit card, I have to go for "plastic surgery". Even if my face is transformed into a flower, I still look "stupid"!

As a "smart" financial man, how can he fall in love with a "silly" silly girl? Did they have water in their heads?

Therefore, I advise all "silly white sweets" to stop daydreaming! If you don’t do housework, don’t know how to manage finances, don’t take care of your children, and just want to do beauty treatments or drive luxury cars all day long, and you still hope to catch a “golden husband” when you have money every month or are in debt every month, I’m afraid it’s not possible. Only in the "Turtle Pond"!

Of course, there are also many men with "giant babies"! Just like those men who clearly don't have a penny in their pockets and still want to buy a car with 0 down payment loan, they are no less stupid than others!

And the world of "Giant Baby" will one day completely collapse!

Those comforts that you covet when you are young will definitely be "repaid double" when you are old!