Xiao Ke left part of her dowry to her parents, and the other part was used to supplement herself when she was unable to go to work after getting pregnant and having a baby.

Xiao Ke thinks that many girls are like this. Many times, parents don’t actually want any gift, and they don’t want to keep their daughter’s gift. Parents also know that if they keep the gift themselves, At this time, the daughter will not have any dowry, and she may not have a good time in her husband's family. She often gets angry with her husband because of the money, so most parents will give the money intact to their daughter, and then add some as a dowry to the girl. Take it to your in-laws’ house.

As for girls who have this kind of money, their parents’ original intention is not to let their daughter tell her husband and her husband’s family. They want their daughter to keep it for self-defense or emergency use, but the girl feels that she and the boy are part of the same family. , so she will tell her husband, and then the husband will tell his parents-in-law, and at this time the whole family will know that the girl has a lot of money.

However, the parents-in-law may start to ask for money for various reasons, or propose to buy furniture, or other things. If there are two brothers, they may also want to use the money to buy a house for the brother and marry a wife. use. If the girl's husband is not very sensible, he may also think of asking for the girl's money, either to give it to her parents, or to use it for family purposes.

Girls rarely spend their dowries themselves, but are squeezed away bit by bit by people from their in-laws’ families. Many married girls should feel this.

So I just thought, if parents put these dowries into a card and don't tell them the password, then their children's money will not be squeezed out by the husband's family. Women are all fools, especially women in love. They always think that they give everything they have to the other person. As a result, sometimes others say sweet words, but in fact they just want something from you.