When I see questions like this, my first feeling is usually annoyance. Why do people always ask such irritating questions?

You are 25 years old and have a monthly income of 6,000. If you still feel like a failure, then I think you did not graduate from one of the top ten prestigious schools in the country. That is, your family has a mine, or there are almost no people around you. They are all successful people, and each of them has already achieved a salary of over 10,000 yuan before the age of 20.

Apart from the above possibilities, I can't think of any other reason for you to think that you are 25 years old and earning a salary of 6,000 is still a failure.

Let me give you an example that I know. I have graduated several years ago, but now my salary is less than 6,000, and I am now in my twenties. Do you think I have failed? , according to your standards, I will definitely fail than you, but according to my horizontal comparison, I am just the kind of person who is neither better nor worse. Even if I am unsuccessful, I will not succeed. Said it was a failure.

At present, many people of the same age as me earn four or five thousand a month, and there are also many who earn seven or eight thousand a month. But one thing we need to clear up is that many people How do you get your monthly salary of 7,000 to 8,000 yuan? In fact, many of them rely on overtime work.

I am an ordinary office worker who goes to and from get off work on time every day. However, many people who earn seven or eight thousand a month often work overtime. Do you think it is they who fail or I fail?

In fact, I have the ability to earn a salary of seven to eight thousand or even tens of thousands per month, but I don’t have the capital to waste my physical functions or even abandon my original life to earn it. That's thousands of dollars in overtime wages.

Therefore, it is recommended not to envy others or belittle yourself based on the level of salary, because behind the high salary, you may not know what they are paying and what kind of pressure they are under.

At the age of 25, I had nothing; at the age of 26, my monthly income was over 10,000. Let me answer this question by talking about my changes in one year.

I vaguely remember that it was one night in 2016. The results of the postgraduate entrance examination came out. My friends were all preparing for the re-examination to choose a school. I was the only one tossing and turning in bed - should I choose to adjust or choose to go out of society? Finally, I chose to go out of society. I think that since society is so big, I don’t believe that I can’t carve out my own world!

Being bookish, young and frivolous, belittling oneself, and having a higher ambition than the sky were my very impetuous mental activities when I was 25 years old. The final result was that I accomplished nothing and lived a life of a walking zombie every day, which was even worse. I was in debt from JD.com and Alipay. Jack Ma’s father even shut down Huabei for a long time because I couldn’t pay it back. It has not been opened until now. That year, I was working alone on what I thought was a promising self-media business. Gradually, just one year later, the heroic words he had when leaving campus were crushed by the cruel reality.

Seeing that I was done with all the hard work at the age of 25, I vaguely remember that every time I called my family, the most common thing they said on the other end of the phone was, "If it doesn't work, just come back!" The first time, I said perfunctorily , got it! The second time, I said impatiently, I know! Too many times...I don't want to hear it, hang up! The last time, I almost shed tears on the other end of the phone and said, "Mom and Dad, I'll be back tomorrow!"

When I got home, my parents gave me their bank card. I always thought that my family had at least 100,000 yuan in savings. But until the moment I withdraw the money, I was stunned - it was only more than 30,000 yuan! And I spent 1,000 yuan a week to pay off my debt. This is my 25-year-old, an "old man" who doesn't understand the world!

At the age of 25 and with nothing, I have seen too much cold-blooded right and wrong, and I also understand the tears of my parents. At the age of 26, I packed my bags and went to Shanghai again. In order to make up for the 25 years I was in debt, I treated every minute as someone else's 60-second job, and finally became the head of the company's department in less than a year, and lived like a human being.

I went home during the Chinese New Year and spent thousands of dollars on new clothes for my parents for the first time!

At 25 years old, there is no shame in taking 6K! 25 years old, I have nothing, you are better than me. I wish those of you who are struggling for life all the best!

If you don’t fail, you will be more successful than me.

You can get 6,000 at the age of 25. That’s okay. When I was 25 years old, I only had a salary of 3,000 yuan. Your salary is twice as much as mine. I don’t have social security or provident fund, so it’s just 3,000 yuan.

Now I am 27 years old, and my salary is only about 3,500, but you are still more successful than me. How could it fail? Brother

If you fail with a monthly income of 6,000, then wouldn’t I fail even more with a monthly income of 3,500?

You are only 25 years old this year. If you graduate from college, you have only worked for 3 years. And 25 is still very young. In fact, if you get a salary of 6,000 yuan at this age, it is already better than many people. Many people, even in Guangzhou, do not have a monthly salary of 6,000, and many earn around 3,000-4,000. Therefore, a salary of 6,000 yuan is not a failure for a 25-year-old you.

Let me tell you my true story. I lost my mother in high school when I was 19 years old. This incident was a big blow to my life. Although my relatives and friends helped me, my personality has changed drastically since then. changes. The following major events happened:

First: The university came into contact with the lottery and entered several lottery tickets. Something I never dared to tell my family.

Second: I started working at the age of 25 when I graduated from a junior college to a bachelor's degree. At the beginning, I encountered various scam companies and was defrauded of 2,650 yuan by an intermediary scammer. Later, I went to work as a construction dog at a construction site in Shanghai. At that time, the salary was only 3,500, and later it gradually became 4,500 and 6,000.

Thirdly, my grandfather passed away at the end of the year when I was 25 years old, which made me feel that my family was separated and I had no money. At the worst time, I only had more than 700 yuan. When I came back to handle the funeral arrangements, I gave my father 500 yuan. I don’t know how I managed to survive with 200 yuan.

Fourth, I made a desperate move, getting up at around 5 o'clock in the morning to study, and going to bed at nearly 12 o'clock in the evening. After studying at the construction site for three months, I finally got admitted to a public institution near my home last year. Excluding five insurances and one housing fund, the current income at the age of 27 is about 120,000. It is a turning point in life, and it will get better and better in the future.

Finally: I hope everyone will not abandon or give up on themselves! Hard work will eventually pay off

It depends on the place, major, and education level.

1. Place

If you live in first-tier cities such as Beijing, Shanghai, Guangzhou and Shenzhen, a salary of 6,000 yuan is not enough. After deducting five insurances and one housing fund, excluding food and accommodation, you will probably be left empty-handed throughout the year. Go home.

If you are in a second- or third-tier city, you should be able to live very comfortably with a salary of 6,000. For example, in Nanchang, you can live very well with a salary of 6,000, and you can even travel to neighboring provinces during holidays.

2. Major

Some majors depend on qualifications. For example, a doctor is 25 years old and has just graduated. The salary of a newly graduated doctor is 6,000, which is very good. , no matter where it is, the money is completely enough, because when you are a doctor, you don’t have time to spend money. You stay in the hospital every day and are too busy to spend money. I am a hardworking little doctor myself.

There are other similar majors that require some certificates before their salary increases. At the age of 25, I actively studied for certification. You still have a bright future. You have to know that according to statistics from the National Bureau of Statistics in 2018, the average salary of undergraduate graduates nationwide was just over 3,000. You are already excellent.

3. Educational qualifications

In today’s society, academic qualifications are everywhere, especially in our medical major. It is almost impossible to find a satisfactory job with a bachelor’s degree. Larger hospitals all require postgraduate. Even recruiting a social worker requires a college or bachelor's degree.

Today’s wages are directly linked to academic qualifications. A salary of 6,000 yuan is enough.

You are only 25 years old. What a wonderful age. Work hard, young man. The future is bright.

Is it a failure to be 25 years old and earn 6,000?

This should come from your own judgment. Failure is not only measured by income. Furthermore, an income of 6,000 may be a bit low in first-tier cities, but it is enough to survive in other cities. The city I live in is Zhengzhou. If there are family burdens, 6,000 yuan is only enough to feed and clothe the whole family. Once health problems arise, we will face huge financial pressure.

1.What kind of income should we achieve at the age of 25?

I am 22 years old and still in school. In Zhengzhou, it is extremely difficult to achieve an income of 6,000 yuan after graduation unless the business is successful.

As far as Zhengzhou is concerned, the income of 4,000 yuan for a 25-year-old is considered an average level. If we continue to work hard on this basis, it will not be considered a failure.

2. Losers are the same people.

I personally think that I am not a failure, because every day I am full of energy and I am moving towards the set goals every day.

This morning I decided to go for a run on the playground, so I challenged myself to get up on time at six o'clock, go out at 6:20, stretch, warm up, and run 2.3 kilometers. It took 40 minutes to finish at seven o'clock. Had a breakfast on time.

Because my own goal is that during my time in self-media, if I want to succeed, I need to change from the inside out, be self-disciplined, and manage my body well. Everything is what I want to accomplish. The real failure is the person who cannot recognize himself, or who knows his shortcomings and still does not take action to change himself.

3. Young people, don’t think about making too much money.

A reader said something: If you get a high income at the age of 20, most of the results will not be good, but will lead to failure due to temporary success or material conditions beyond the ability to bear. .

Therefore, more money is good, but our goal should not be to make more money, and success should be measured by multiple factors. For example, friend relationships, cultural level, family relationships, etc. Our goal, besides making money, should be to be a better version of ourselves.

As a 25-year-old who just graduated from college, how do you define failure?

The biggest advantage of youth is age. Try different industries and experience more when you are young, and you will find a good foundation for your future direction.

When you are young and have just graduated, if you join a startup company or start your own business, with the support of family and friends, it is normal to have no income for a year or two. As long as the startup is successful, the company gets financing, and the IPO goes smoothly for a few years, what does it matter if you live in an underground garage during the startup time?

Going back to the salary itself, if you just graduated from a third- or fourth-tier city, your salary of 6,000 yuan is still above the average level. If you have a house at home, you don’t have to support your parents, and you don’t have large expenses. Project, this is much better than living a tight life with a monthly salary of 20,000 to 30,000 yuan in a big city.

If a monthly salary of 6,000 in a big city is a bit low for a college graduate who has just entered society. But this is only temporary. Because I have just graduated and have little social qualifications and no work experience, this salary level is considered reasonable.

There is no failure for young people. As long as you maintain a desire to make progress, success is ahead of you.

This question makes people feel extremely uncomfortable.

First of all, the two words "failure" are too absolute. Is earning 6K a month also called failure? Are those with less than 6K even more failed? Besides, what does failure mean? Life at the age of 25 has just begun, and it is too early to talk about failure.

Secondly, I am 25 years old. I haven’t graduated long ago. I have just left school and have a job with a monthly salary of 6K. Why are I not satisfied? Money is something that sometimes depends on luck, and sometimes it also depends on ability.

Moreover, since when did money become the criterion for measuring a person's success and failure?

Can you say that those who earn 100,000 yuan a month are very successful? Can you say that someone with a monthly income of 0 must be a failure and a loser?

My cousin is 30 this year, and her monthly income is less than 5K. I am 24, and my monthly income is over 10,000. By this measure, does it mean that my cousin is a loser and I am a winner? So am I happier than her?

However, the reality is that her life is full of food and drink, and she is extremely happy living in a second-tier city. And I live in a first-tier city, squeezing the subway every morning and staying up late at night to work overtime and code. Burdened with expensive rent and lost entertainment time.

As for life, there is more than one way to live. To measure a person's life, money and age are not the criteria. Money can only represent one of our abilities.

The antonym of failure is success.

I believe that as long as a person lives the life he wants, this is a successful life.

Finally, I would like to give you a sentence that I particularly like:

It is too easy to live an ordinary and boring life. You don’t have to study, take risks, exercise or do anything. Write, don’t go out, don’t mess around. But the thing I regret most in life is: I could have.

So, as long as life is exciting enough and happy enough, living this life is not in vain.

The above *** rings!

I don’t think earning 6,000 yuan at the age of 25 is a failure. But if you are dissatisfied with the status quo and don't have the courage to change, this state of neither getting better nor getting worse is a bit of a failure. Because the amount of information given by the questioner is too little, to be honest, it is difficult to judge whether this age and this income match.

For example, if the subject of the question started working after graduating from high school and worked for 7-8 years before reaching 6,000 yuan a month, then 6,000 yuan is indeed a bit small. The person asking the question may need to consider whether the industry you are in is really developing, and whether its salary level will rise at a rate that will give you the life you want in 5-8 years?

However, if the subject has just graduated one or two years ago, the salary in the industry will rise relatively well with the increase of working years, and as you work hard in the position, the skills you have mastered will increase. There will be more and more, thus greatly enhancing its core competitiveness. Under this circumstance, even in big cities like Beijing, Shanghai, Guangzhou and Shenzhen, I don’t think it is shameful to get a salary of 6,000 yuan at the age of 25.

Since working in new media, I have discovered that there are many dark horse talents in the Internet industry.

Let’s not talk about it, let’s talk about my roommate. She just started working in credit card collection. At that time, she felt that having such a job was a failure. Everyone The average monthly salary is 6,000-7,000. He eats three meals a day in the canteen, lives in a company apartment, and is shuttled to and from get off work.

But she felt very tortured because she had to do the same thing every day, which was the most common screw in the bank. Under the same conditions of effort, the salary level will not be much different within three to five years. To put it simply, this position has a ceiling, and there are many things that will limit your personal development.

(Note: I respect the hard-working people in every position, but everyone has their own preferences, and sometimes the work content of some positions is really unpleasant.)

Constantly denying herself and doubting herself consumed a lot of her energy. Her performance was originally good, but she was at the bottom for two months in a row. After learning from the experience, she decided to save her life and take a fancy to the development prospects of big data. I spent more than 10,000 yuan on my credit card, signed up for a big data course, came back from get off work every day to study, and changed careers in less than half a year.

When she was 24 or 25 years old, she had a monthly salary of 6,000 yuan, and she was in a first-tier city like Guangzhou. She also had to pay off her credit card every month, and she was basically a paycheck to paycheck at the end of the month. But this year her salary increased by 2,000, to a monthly income of 8,000. What’s even more exciting is that big data is very popular now, and the annual salary increase is considerable.

RMB 6,000 like hers is like a cornerstone of life, helping her move to a higher level step by step.

As the saying goes, there is no harm without comparison. I am a senior who is three years older than me and has been working for five years. I count on my fingers and I should be 27 or 28 now. Some time ago, I heard him complain that his monthly salary this year was only 6,000 yuan, and he felt very panicked and anxious.

I have long been immune to what he said. Because of similar words, he told me many times. When he just graduated, he said that he only had 4,000. He felt very unwilling to live with such a salary. He vowed to think of a way to break through.

As a result, after a few years, the price increased by several hundred yuan every year, and I complained once a year, but it remained the same every year. There is a rhythm of being intermittently complacent and constantly eating and waiting to die. (The seniors probably won’t give me a slap in the face when they see me, and they will tremble!) Living in this ambiguous state makes life really tiring, and it consumes people’s will too much.

In short, I feel that either you can be honest and grit your teeth and work hard while you are young, or you can happily accept the salary and live an ordinary life. This is not a bad thing. . What do you think?