So when we are young, happiness is always so simple. Even without money, we can be poor and happy.
However, if people are penniless in middle age, many people may fall into extreme anxiety. Because middle-aged life without money is really too difficult, and it can even be said that it is difficult to move.
So in middle age, if you are poor, what troubles will you face?
Parents really can't help when they are in pain.
When we were young, even if we were frustrated and fell into poverty and helplessness, our parents were still our strong backing, and they could always help us solve our immediate troubles in time.
Therefore, our hearts are always full of security, and we will not panic at all because we have no money.
However, after middle age, our parents' health is getting worse and worse, and they even have to be hospitalized at intervals. However, once they are admitted to the hospital, they need a lot of money.
But by this time, they have basically lost their ability to work, and they have no way or physical strength to get a higher income.
So at this time, middle-aged people will shoulder the burden of life and become the backbone of their parents.
However, if they are penniless, facing their elderly parents and watching them endure illness and lie in bed, there is nothing they can do. This will always make people insomnia, and they will fall into self-blame and depression.
It is said that our parents raised us young and our adoptive parents were old. However, when we can't do anything about our parents' old age, we are really ashamed.
Can't keep my wife's heart
But unlike those who have been poor together, even if two people fall in love again when they get married, if they still face a broken family in middle age, few women can carry this relationship to the end.
In fact, it is not because women love money and value material things, but because every woman wants to live a better life, and every woman wants to see hope from men around her.
They can marry a young man who has nothing because of love, but they can't stand the fact that this man has been degraded and poor.
So when their dreams and hopes are gone, all that remains is resentment, and they can't afford to love this man.
It is said that the best way to keep love is to keep an attitude that men envy women. How can a man win his wife's admiration when he needs to reach out to his wife for food, clothing, housing and transportation?
Dare not get sick
When people reach middle age, if they are still empty-handed, they are not even qualified to get sick.
Because once they fall, their parents can't get good support; Their wives will suffer more; Their children may lose the opportunity to go to school.
Therefore, as middle-aged people with a heavy physical burden, they dare not get sick, nor can they get sick.
However, when people reach middle age, they will always encounter sudden misfortune, and the collapse of the body is always at that moment. The fall of middle-aged people often means the collapse of a family.
The life of middle-aged people is too difficult, and every step requires great efforts and sweat.
Especially in middle age, people don't have enough property, so they are on tenterhooks every step of the way.
As the saying goes, a penny is worth a penny, and people who have no money. If he talks about ideals, persistence and responsibility again, it will be ridiculous, because a man's most important responsibility is to take on a family life.
Therefore, when you are young, you must keep a fighting attitude and stick to a firm attitude, because you never know which will come first, the accident or tomorrow. If you waste time or money as a teenager, one day, life will make you pay a heavy price.