Brothers have the same thoughts as me, mature and long-lasting thoughts. Her parents said that she was used to living outside and rarely cared about her family. I don’t know what her parents think, but her family is relatively rich and doesn’t have a plan for spending money. Your salary is quite high, but it’s not enough. I guess after you get married, your girlfriend will use yours at home or find some money herself. If you still play around all day, then you will be very tired, and you can’t tell her, and you have to go back even if you say it. My mother-in-law, when the time comes, your mother-in-law will ask you something, and you won’t be able to ask. It's just my personal opinion, not to break up the two of you. As a mature person, you can easily find someone who looks good to you and live your life easily. You should be able to find one.