1. I hope you don’t change your name in your next life, so that I can find you easier.

2. I have always been sober and watched my own sinking soberly

3. If you think you have forgotten someone, then you will not be stupid enough to mention her by forgetting. .

4. Firmly believe that success is right in front of you.

5. The crisis of descendants in a moment of impulse!

6. According to my calculations, you can still take fifty steps back, but there are only five steps in life.

7. If you talk too much, you will become numb and develop immunity, and you will recover naturally.

8. Love has always been a matter of thousands of twists and turns. How can you know how to love someone who has never been abandoned or hurt?

9. A pure thought makes the heart bloom like a lotus

11. The weather is not as good as the right place, and the right place is not as good as the people. (Mencius Gongsun Chou)

12. I will give you what kind of face you are.

13. Guarding the long memory, chasing and running in the silent passage of time

14. When I was a child, I thought that if I swallowed bubble gum, I would die. When I was a child, I thought that if I ate watermelon seeds, a watermelon would grow.

15. Some people spend their whole lives lying to others, while some people spend their whole lives lying to one person.

16. When you love someone, you probably care about everything and can forgive everything

17. Give me all your sadness and I want you to be happy

18. The more familiar people are, the more they ignore the many touches that should be given

19. I once thought that parting meant leaving someone you don’t love. One day, when I grow up, I realize that there is a kind of parting, which is leaving the person you love. There is a kind of parting that involves wiping away tears and not daring to look back.

20. I love you, and I will do anything for you, so get out. The answers to 62 questions solve the problems that have puzzled us for a long time

1. I am about to graduate, but the grassroots The hardships, the poverty in the academic world, the intellectual struggles in the business world, and the political world made me not want to work anymore.

You must participate in work. If it goes well, you will be very happy; if it goes hard, you will become a philosopher; and if you avoid it, you will be nothing.

2. I was admitted to a major that was very unsatisfactory, and I felt very bad. It was really boring to advance and there was no way out.

The key to life is not to get a good deck of cards, but to play a good deck of bad cards.

3. I am very noble. When I see many people with vulgar tastes, I feel very angry and lonely.

If you ask a male toad what beauty is? He replies that beauty is his female toad. Do you want to argue with it?

4. I am very thoughtful and often think about many problems. Sometimes I even have trouble falling asleep. I'm very distressed, but I don't want to be full and have nothing to worry about all day long.

A person who thinks too little may lose his dignity as a human being; a person who thinks too much may lose the joy of being a human being.

5. I have many dreams that are difficult to let go of, and life is very painful for them. Can we be freed?

Indeed, where there are dreams, pain is inevitable. But, the place without dreams is the grave.

6. I am very strong. Some people say that I am very vain. I admit it in my heart, but I can’t change it because I don’t want others to look down on me.

False boasting is a piece of clothing that is beautiful but does not cover the body. Wearing it, apart from increasing one’s own burden, what else does it do?

7. I have always achieved excellent results and ranked among the best. But I did very badly in the exam last semester and failed. I was afraid of losing my dominant position and felt very stressed.

Competition is lifelong, winning or losing is temporary.

8. I really want to be a pure and upright person, but if others are not like this, shouldn’t I suffer?

A pure conscience is a gentle pillow that can make people sleep. Sweeter and more stable.

9. I am very dissatisfied with many things in social reality, but why are so many people saying good things?

Emperor Qin and Han Wu were in their prime.

But there are also sentences like this in Yuan songs: The Qin and Han Dynasties were sad, the people were in ruins, and the scholars let out a long sigh.

10. Ambitious, but have a sense of ambition but little talent.

Zhuangzi said: If the accumulation of water is not thick, it will be unable to carry a large boat; if the accumulation of wind is not thick, then it will be unable to carry a large wing.

11. How do you survive poverty, hard life, and great pressure?

A hammer can shatter glass and can also forge a sharp sword. Imagine that one day in the future, I will read Jia Dao's poem "The Swordsman" with great enthusiasm: It takes ten years to sharpen a sword, but the frost blade has never been tested. Who am I going to complain about today?

12. Seeing the hustle and bustle in the society, I wonder where is the pure land that can make me peaceful?

If a person cannot find peace in his heart Finding peace, I'm afraid, will not help anywhere.

13. I consider myself a pessimist. I often feel sad and see many smiling faces that are shallow. However, after all, I have heard many people and read many books saying that you should face life with a smile. To laugh or not to laugh?

The key is to be optimistic and optimistic, not to laugh. If your hair is already gray, dyeing it black will not change your age. If you don't feel happy, why force a smile.

14. I feel that failure is terrible and I feel a lot of pressure.

Who can always be successful? The shame of life does not lie in losing, but in being unable to lose; the glory of life does not lie in never falling, but in being able to rise again and again.

15. My family suffered a series of misfortunes, and I felt depressed, depressed, and very doomed. How to change an unfortunate fate?

It is unlikely that a person can change his fate until he changes his attitude towards fate.

16. We often work hard, but it is inevitable that we will make mistakes. The results are not always satisfactory. We are really disappointed and sometimes even despair. Why are all efforts in vain?

Barnyard grass may grow in the fields every year. Which farmer complained that pulling out barnyard grass last year was in vain?

17. How to get rid of the feeling of abandonment?

Read Tao Qian's poems several times: Relatives or lingering sorrows, others have also sung; What's the way to die? It's the same mountain as your body.

18. The college class I long for is full of wisdom and shocking to the soul, just like a wonderful speech. But now I'm disappointed, what can I learn?

We've had some sumptuous meals and a lot of everyday food, which was certainly bland. What makes us grow into a strong body?

19. I have just entered my third year in college. I am worried that I will not be able to find a good job after graduation. The more I think about it, the more I don’t know what to do.

Most fruits taste bitter before they are ripe. Why bother to taste it so quickly?

20. I am always indecisive, worried about gains and losses, and seem to be unable to pick up or let go of anything, which is very annoying.

The key is not about gains and losses. If you can gain without guilt and lose without regrets, then let it be the consequences of gains and losses.

21. I have suffered a series of misfortunes and am heartbroken. Why are you so unlucky?

Unfortunately, it is a university that no one applies to, but it recruits students every year. Those who can graduate are strong.

22. How to face the pain of life?

It is difficult for a heart that does not experience pain to be deeply kind. On the stage of life, you must learn to experience pain like an actor; in addition, you must also smile at your pain like a bystander.

23. It would be great if people never grow up. I miss the relaxation and joy of childhood very much.

Yes, it would be great if the seedlings did not grow up. We could eat the charming green grass instead of cooking.

24. Some people say that women are cute only when they are pure, and reliable when they are mature. I am very confused, should I stay cute or pursue reliability?

The two are not contradictory, right? If it is unreliable, how long can it be cute? If it is not cute, what about being reliable?

25. Failed in studies, life is difficult, and the future is bleak. I was always in a melancholy mood and often secretly shed tears. How to survive?

First find a place where no one is, look in the mirror, try to smile, then try to smile again, and then remind yourself: the days are long, crying is also life, smiling is also life, and There is more hope in laughing than crying.

26. I was cheated and suffered heavy losses. I was once innocent and now I am disappointed with everything. Do I still want to live? How to live?

First think about the upbringing of my parents, and then remind myself: Now fate forces me to become a hero, I want to Have the courage to survive: 1. There is only one true heroism in the world, which is to still love life after knowing the truth of life. 2. No matter how many difficulties and ups and downs we have experienced, no matter how much despair and disillusionment we have experienced, a person's life must be a hymn to life.

27. The expectations of your loved ones and your own beliefs are that you can only succeed and not fail. I feel very competitive pressure, very tired from life, and very nervous almost every day.

By a certain standard, mediocre people make up the vast majority, including most of our parents. Are they considered losers? Why do possession of resources, wealth, status and fame count as success, while kindness A perfect soul, a beautiful personality, and family happiness are not considered success?

28. Many people around me are full of admiration for practical knowledge and skills. I am confused, are skills everything in this world?

Someone once commented that the French politician Talleyrand could do anything, even do good. What do you think of this evaluation?

29. My parents care about me very much and are always afraid that I will suffer and suffer, so they have arranged a good life and future for me. I feel a little uncomfortable, but I am content to sit back and enjoy the benefits.

What others arrange for you can be called enjoyment; what you get through your own hard work is called happiness.

30. After I went to college, I found that I was unknown and had a complex mentality of being both proud and humble. I desperately wanted to stand out and be famous in the future. But now, I can't see any hope and feel very boring, just dawdling around all day long.

According to historians, the crown cannot cure headaches.

31. The world is changing too fast, e-mail, e-business, e-love. I come from a rural area and my computer skills are very low. I am very scared. Will I not be able to keep up with society in the future and be e-love? Lost?

No matter what e is, e is just an attributive, and the subject is still mail, business, love

32. Far away from home and relatives, feeling very lonely, how to make friends?

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The first way to make friends is to have enough friends yourself.

33. At the beginning, the relationship between our dormitory classmates was very good, and I was very happy. Now it has gradually faded away, everyone is busy with their own things, and there is no longer that kind of family atmosphere. I am very disappointed.

When they are newly hatched, chicks and ducklings look almost the same, and they all grow up together as partners. Later, the old duck is about to go into the water. Please comfort the sad big chicken.

34. I’m afraid of arguing with others, afraid of people’s unpredictability, and dare not open my heart to interact with others, but I feel lonely, what should I do?

Water tastes without beauty, but it’s all about drifting. Ripples; stones have no fire, but they strike each other and emit spiritual light.

35. My boyfriend and I have been in love for two years, and we are committed to each other. But recently he no longer cares about me, but often excuses himself from being with me because of something else. I am very worried, what should I do if he is tired of me?

If I can say to him in my heart: I look forward to being with you, but I can live well without you. You will definitely be more attractive.

36. I recently broke up with my girlfriend. The relationship with another good friend was also difficult to sustain. Although the man shed tears easily, I felt very lonely inside.

Birds of the same kind cannot fly together. Let everyone have a piece of sky, and then give yourself a belief: Virtue is not alone, there must be neighbors.

37. I am introverted. I have a roommate who is very dominating and always makes fun of me. I don't want to openly quarrel with him, but I don't want to endure it forever, what should I do?

Find an appropriate opportunity and write a note to remind him: Joking can't hurt enemies, but it can hurt friends, including roommates.

38. I originally wanted to run for a position in the student union, but when I saw some people trying to build connections and cliques, I felt a little chilled. Should I advance or retreat?

To Beside the Pearl River, think about the Tang poet Ercao, both body and name will be destroyed, and the eternal flow of the river will not be wasted before making a decision.

39. Seeing that some competitors are unscrupulous, I feel embarrassed to advance and reluctant to retreat.

What can I win that is more precious and better than a pure heart and a pair of clean hands?

40. I love face and I hope everyone treats me with respect. Good impression, live cautiously for this reason. However, there are still people who disapprove of me, and I am very unwilling to do so.

How can it not be as satisfying as everyone wants, but I just want it to be worthy of my heart.

41. In college, although I worked conscientiously, I was still very ordinary. I was not outstanding in any aspect. I was envious of those classmates who were astonishing. Quite disappointed with myself.

Gorgeous flowers may not necessarily bear sweet fruits, such as peonies and peonies; flowers bearing sweet fruits may not necessarily be beautiful and dazzling, such as jujube flowers.

42. I firmly believe that those who make mistakes should be severely punished and sanctioned. But sometimes, reality makes me angry. Why not?

Don’t be too harsh when attacking people’s faults, and think about what they can tolerate; don’t be too lofty when teaching people good deeds, but make sure they can follow them.

43. I pursue perfection and like the best, but I find it difficult to get along with others. Why?

There is a limit to everything, and going too far is never enough. "A Dream of Red Mansions" says that if the jade is too high, the more jealous it becomes, and the same thing will happen if the world is clean, which can be used as a lesson.

44. I had a quarrel with a friend who I talked to about almost everything. She knows a lot of my secrets and I am very worried. What should I do?

It can be regarded as a lesson. The ancients said: When you are happy, you should express your true feelings, but when you are unhappy, you must guard against venting; when you are angry, you should express your sadness, and when you are in good times, you should feel ashamed. Westerners say that it is best to keep a porcupine's distance when getting along with others. It is said that porcupines are covered with thorns. When the weather is cold, they want to get close to each other to use their body heat to keep out the cold, but they cannot get too close, so the porcupines get as close as possible without being able to prick the other.

45. A dear and respectable friend did something very bad recently. I was shocked, heartbroken, and suspicious of both him and myself.

Where the light is strong, the shadows are darker.

46. I don’t know how to express myself well. Be boastful, others will think you are crazy; be humble, and be afraid of being seen as just so so.

Don’t say how good you are, others will generally not believe it; don’t say how bad you are, others will generally believe it. More profoundly, parrots can speak and are inseparable from animals; peaches and plums cannot speak, and they are in trouble.

47. I am immersed in reading, have few friends, and am not familiar with the world. Some people say that I am a nerd, but I am not convinced. I consider myself not a nerd, but I am also very contradictory: I really don’t want to be worldly, but I seem to have to be worldly?

Wu Congxian in the Ming Dynasty lamented: When the world is familiar, the world will be familiar. It is easy to flow; if the world is sparse, it is easy to hinder communication. What's more, life is difficult! Knowing this dilemma may make your conflicted mind calmer.

48. I once believed that good will be rewarded with good and evil will be punished with evil, but reality tells me that virtuous people may not be blessed, and unjust people may not suffer disaster. I really raised my head and asked the sky, but the sky was pale.

Feeling sad, angry and helpless is human nature. But we might as well think about it calmly. Since we admit that fame and fortune cannot buy virtue, why should we ask for rewards such as fame and fortune from virtue?

49. I am about to graduate and enter the society. During my internship, I learned that no matter in politics, business, or journalism, there are many times when you can't help yourself, and some of them are even ugly. Is it possible for me, who is so strong-blooded, to be alone? Is being complicit in the evil deeds the same as helping others to do evil?

If you go to a place where there are many wolves, you might as well remember this sentence: in order to avoid being eaten by wolves, you have to howl with the wolves. If you go to a crowded place, remember another sentence: Virtue may not make your face beautiful, but evil will definitely make your face ugly.

50. Since I went to college, I have more classmates, but I seem to be more lonely.

It is not necessarily a good thing for a person to feel lonely as a minor, or not to feel lonely as an adult.

51. I can talk to people very well online, how can I do it so freely and freely in reality?

There are two methods for reference: First, don’t Treat the other person in reality as a living person; secondly, do not use the Internet as a refuge.

52. The classmates in the same dormitory are undisciplined, mean and selfish, and difficult to get along with.

I feel very uncomfortable. Can I change my dormitory?

Life is like taking a bus. After buying a ticket and getting on the bus, it’s hard to know what kind of traveling companions you will meet. Should I change a car?

53 , The boys in our class are very bad. During a class outing to climb mountains, the girls were carrying things on the way. During the lunch picnic, they occupied the shady area and we were very exposed to the sun! Are the boys still children?

Cows eat straw and ducks eat grain. , each has his own blessing. Why worry about him? Just don't play with him next time.

54. I have always been independent in personality, but I often feel lonely and desolate. Are you destined to have no companions in this life?

When you sit alone, there is still heaven to deal with, and when you go wild, there is still the moon to accompany you. How can you say that you have no companions?

55. I am a very grateful person. I often think about repayment, and I always keep it in my heart when I owe others a favor. Some acquaintances say that I am too outsider and I don’t know what to do.

Repaying kindness is the glory of human nature, but the method and object of repayment may not be so rigid. You have eaten a lot of eggs laid by chickens and drank a lot of milk produced by cows. How have you repaid them?

56. In some organizational activities, I heard a lot of obvious lies and clichés. Those people It seems to be quite enjoyable, why don't you tell the truth?

You don't have to tell the truth, but what you say should be the truth. If you accidentally attract people's attention, stay away from places where lies are common. The earth is abundant and the world is not lonely.

57. It is said that beautiful faces are most popular when looking for a job or falling in love. I just hate my parents for not giving me a pretty face.

A beautiful face is just a recommendation letter, and a beautiful heart is a credit card.

58. I believe that the greatest happiness and highest goal in life lies in perfect love. But I’m not sure about it. Many people of the opposite sex in this era are unreliable.

Life with love is happy, but life for love is dangerous.

59. I yearn for the romantic adventure of love at first sight, and do not want to accept the mediocrity of following the rules. Some people say that my idea is dangerous, right?

Then there are two questions to consider: First, how much nutrition can instant noodles that can be soaked in three minutes have? Second, by winning the lottery There are only a few people in the world who make a living.

60. I have a deep affection for him, but he seems to be distant from me. I am very unwilling, and there is no reward for my efforts?

First of all, love may not be the reason for being loved; secondly, you don’t want to force yourself on him, right?

61. I don’t I love him again, but I can't say goodbye. I couldn't bear to make him sad, but I was very tired and helpless.

When you no longer love, it is no longer true love. When you can't give him happiness, please give him freedom.

62. After breaking up with my lover, I felt that my life was gloomy and I had no interest in doing anything.

Despite the pain, you should also think of it: the sun shines brightly and brilliantly because of its own great inner passion, rather than reflecting external light. 9 major problems in growing flowers, let’s see how talented people solve them!

Novices will always encounter various problems when growing flowers, such as yellow leaves, rotten roots, wilting, diseases and insect pests. Do you know how to deal with these problems?

Leaf Drops

Reasons for Leaf Drops:

1. If you find that the green leaves have fallen off, most of the reasons are because the plant has been suddenly damaged. , such as sudden temperature rise and fall, being hit by strong cold wind, etc.;

2. Excessive soil moisture or excessive drought can also cause plant defoliation;

3. No ventilation, or the soil is acidic Alkaline discomfort can also cause leaf drop.

Not blooming

If the plant does not bloom when it is time to bloom, then you need to pay attention to the following points:

1. Look at the light. Light affects the growth of flower buds. Differentiation, so if you want to bloom, it is best to maintain sufficient light;

2. Look at the condition. If you find that the plant is very lush but has no signs of flowering, it is generally because the vegetative growth is too strong, which will affect the growth of the plant. Reproductive growth is mainly caused by too much nitrogen fertilizer, so don’t apply too much nitrogen fertilizer when growing flowers;

3. Influence of diseases and insect pests. When plants are affected by diseases and insect pests, they will also cause failure to bloom, so do Early detection leads to early treatment.

The leaf tips and leaf edges turn brown

1. If only the leaf tips turn brown, it is likely that the air is too dry or it was accidentally bruised. Serious problem;

2. If the edges of the main leaves turn brown, then you should check whether there is too much water, insufficient light, no ventilation, too much fertilizer, and air Causes such as excessive moisture.

Leaf curling

Leaf curling is mainly caused by low temperature, water spraying from the top or cold wind. Be careful not to water the flowers with too cold water or let the plants suffer frost damage.

Leaf yellowing

1. Yellowing of old leaves is generally a normal sign of withering, but if new leaves turn yellow, you need to pay attention;

2. The causes of yellowing of leaves are mostly water yellowing caused by excessive watering, or dry yellowing caused by long-term water shortage. Everyone needs to treat them differently and observe them carefully.

The leaves are hairy and lifeless

1. The most likely reason is that the soil is dry, or the watering is too much, or the drainage holes at the bottom of the pot are blocked, which may cause the root system to rot, so novice farmers You must pay attention to the watering problem of flowers, see dry and wet.

2. For novices, it may be caused by watering when the sun is too strong, the air is dry, and the temperature is too high; a small number of cases are caused by the root system overflowing the pot or insect damage.

Flower buds fall off

The most common reasons for flower buds falling off are dry air, lack of water, lack of light, changes in the position of the pot before flowering, or insect damage. Therefore, during the flowering period of the plant, it is best to move the flower pot as little as possible to ensure sufficient light and water and enhance ventilation.

Stem and leaf rot

The growing environment of plants is not suitable, mostly caused by diseases. Or it may be caused by excessive watering in winter or water accumulation on the leaves at night. If you encounter stem and leaf rot, you should cut off the diseased leaves and slowly move them to a place suitable for plant growth.

Small leaves and slender stems

If it occurs in winter or early spring, it is because the temperature is too high, the light is too weak and the substrate is too moist. If this occurs during the growing season, it may be caused by a lack of fertilizer, overwatering, or insufficient light. I'm a weirdo who can't even get into my own heart

1. Those we forget are often the happiest.

2. Be a queen and have your own beliefs and love yourself so that you can have the hope of being loved

3. Is blind tolerance cowardly? But in exchange for being more careless...

4. I have been in love with WSX for a long time, is it time to let go? 5. Slowly tell the story of our life, we hooked our fingers, I put it Love and care

6. Those who are used to smiling faces are all sick.

7. No matter how you package it, you are still the same in your heart

8. I am A weirdo who can't even get into his own heart.

9. I can feel your presence even when you are not with me!

10. You obviously have so many of them. Examples of people who don’t love you but still hope that they can be the exception

11. What I have been pursuing is existence like Yano-san, Yoshida-san, and Kazehaya-san.

12. Even your aunt will leave you when you are old, let alone a man.

13. Life is so short, don’t waste your time on people who are not worthy of love.

14. The most difficult choice in the world is to choose one of the two.

15. I don’t know what your relationship is. I only know that it has nothing to do with me.

16. Teacher, don’t call students stupid. If we all know how to do it, what do we need you to do? --

17. I will work hard to be my own king

18. I am not an invincible wall and I do not have a heart that is invulnerable to all poisons.

19. Some things will be forgotten sooner or later, so why remember them so clearly? In the end, it will hurt and suffocate.

20. "We have seen the world wrong, and instead say it has deceived us."