How does a woman punish her deviant husband? What are some quick and good tricks that your wife can use to prevent her from doing it again? First, end the extramarital affair by going to war
When faced with extramarital affairs, many wives use instinctive reactions to solve the problem. For example, she was like a big white goose, fighting and fussing in front of her husband. The two of them pecked each other, causing her to cry, fuss and hang herself. Some people think that her husband's extramarital affair is because she is not good enough, so she learns to improve herself, please her husband, and wants to separate Xiaolu by competing with him in the market.
There are also some people who are afraid of divorce, fear of exposure, or fear that after exposure, their husband will choose Xiaolu and then divorce them. She cannot bear this burden, so she can only hide and be an ostrich. Some wives "seem" to have a more suitable fortune. They may have left on their own, or the husband and her husband have not had a relationship with each other since then. Of course, the extramarital affair ended when both parties did not experience great pain. Why does it “look” better? Because it appears that an affair in marriage has ended, but it has encouraged her husband's greed and luck to engage in extramarital affairs, there will definitely be another Xiaolu in the future.
In fact, none of the above methods will allow the husband to see his wife's ability and strength, or the pain and harm of extramarital affairs. Instead, they will make the man feel that his wife is weak, cowardly, and easy to control. In addition to not being able to achieve a real separation, it actually makes the husband become more and more crazy. To truly implement punishment, you must use the means of war to fight with your husband step by step. During the war, let the husband see his wife's courage, fearlessness, style, and intelligence. Only then can the husband really get rid of the knot and truly throw the enemy away. During the war, the husband can realize what it means to be "full of difficulties and pressure." What is "self-defeating" is a good punishment in itself. Second, sign the marital property agreement
In the process of fighting with her husband and Xiaolu, the wife should try her best to promote the signing of the marital property agreement. Put most of the property accumulated after marriage, for example 95%, into the wife's own household, and tell her husband: This is a restriction, a compensation, and a punishment. Let him know to make amends, to accept punishment, to be responsible, and to pay for the negative effects. Third, to rebuild the marriage, it is necessary for men to bear the responsibilities of healing and rebuilding trust.
After an extramarital affair is broken up, it is necessary to clearly require the man to face the trauma and heal with him, and let the man watch during the process. To see and experience this trauma. The two of them walked through every step of the reconstruction process safely together, allowing him to truly experience the inconvenience and pain, instead of breaking up the affair as if nothing had happened.
It is the best punishment to let men bear the responsibility for the hot potato they have stabbed, to let men suffer from work pressure, and to let men experience difficulty and pain. To sum up, having an extramarital affair has a punishment effect in itself. After the extramarital affair is over, instead of letting the man go, he is led to heal and rebuild together. It is not only a punishment but also a personal investment for him. This method can effectively prevent the recurrence of extramarital affairs in the future.