Chinese people pay attention to Feng Shui, especially the Feng Shui of a family. Being together in harmony is the greatest blessing, but there are still many people who are not aware of this.

Since ancient times, the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law has been the most difficult one in human relationships. After all, it is difficult for an upright official to deal with household affairs. Some things are not one-sided. In addition, the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law has always been sensitive. Become the most troubled in most families.

In the eyes of many mothers-in-law, their daughter-in-law seems to be a natural enemy, coming to compete with them for their son, but they forget that the daughter-in-law is actually the one who has been with her son for the longest time.

There are also some daughters-in-law who feel that their mother-in-law has to intervene in everything and wants to have a hand in everything, leaving no room for the young couple to have freedom. Therefore, they feel that such a mother-in-law is really strong and treats her son like a "mother." "Baonan", in the end it was himself who was tricked.

But in fact, no matter what kind of relationship, including the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, if you want to get along well, both parties need to work hard to understand each other, so that they can deepen their understanding and understand each other better. starting point.

Wang Mei has always been a beauty with high emotional intelligence in everyone's eyes. The so-called lucky person who has both beauty and IQ is probably Wang Mei, whether it is the interpersonal relationship in the company or the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law in the family. Relationship, when you come to Wang Mei, no matter how difficult the hand-winding thread is, it can be easily solved.

Wang Mei and her husband were college classmates. Four years after they fell in love, they got married successfully after graduation. Wang Mei felt especially lucky that her parents-in-law were very kind to her, so she didn’t feel uncomfortable at all. I feel what my friends say is that it is very difficult to get along with my mother-in-law.

Because it was convenient to take care of the elderly, when she first bought her wedding house, Wang Mei discussed with her husband and decided to buy it in a community closer to her mother-in-law's house, so that the elderly could get there as soon as possible if they got sick or had any accidents. In the past, and my husband and I were busy, we could stop by for a meal.

However, even though the two families are close to each other, her mother-in-law will never go to her son’s and daughter-in-law’s home without saying hello, let alone ask for the keys to her son’s home. This makes many of Wang Mei’s female colleagues very envious. , lamenting that she met an enlightened mother-in-law.

Five years have passed in the blink of an eye. Wang Mei has a son. Her mother-in-law takes care of the child and respects her own opinions. Even when they have differences, the two of them can communicate calmly and never because of the child. They went to war over the matter.

Since the beginning of last year, my father-in-law’s heart has not been very comfortable and he has been admitted to the hospital several times. However, as he is getting older, various treatments can only relieve the old man’s uncomfortable symptoms, but cannot cure it.

In the second half of the year, her father-in-law suddenly passed away due to a heart attack, which dealt a huge blow to Wang Mei's mother-in-law and made her very depressed for a time.

Wang Mei and her husband were very anxious when they saw this. They often asked their son to accompany their grandma to relieve their boredom, or take her mother-in-law to go shopping to relax, but it was difficult to see a smile on her mother-in-law's face.

After a year, my mother-in-law seemed to have suddenly changed a lot in less than a month. She changed from her usual open-minded and tolerant attitude, and started clamoring to live in her son's home and call her son. My daughter-in-law doesn't care about herself at all.

Wang Mei thought to herself that maybe her mother-in-law was feeling aggrieved without her wife and it was understandable that she wanted to vent, so she enthusiastically took her mother-in-law over and told her to stay as long as she wanted.

But the mother-in-law did not calm down after she came here. Although Wang Meili provided her with delicious food and drinks, and often bought gifts for her mother-in-law, her mother-in-law always found fault with Wang Meili.

No, my mother-in-law recently took away my husband’s salary card and credit card, saying that he had never enjoyed happiness in his life, and that his son should respect him when he made money.

Even Wang Mei’s husband felt that her biological mother was a little too much, but the considerate Wang Mei stopped her husband and advised her husband to be more considerate of her mother-in-law. After this period, she thought about it. alright.

After work that day, her husband came into the room with an angry face and threw his bag on the ground. Wang Mei quickly asked her husband what happened, and her husband threw the phone to Wang Mei.

Wang Mei took a look and saw that it was a text message notifying her husband of credit card consumption. The text message said that her husband's credit card had been maxed out. Since the credit card had been at her mother-in-law's place recently, there was no need to ask who had maxed it out.

Seeing that her husband was about to go out to argue with her mother-in-law, Wang Mei quickly stopped her husband. Not only was she not angry, but she also reassured her husband that she would definitely be able to solve the matter.

A few days later, while Wang Mei was looking at the computer, she casually said to her mother-in-law, "Mom, do you like the snow or the sea?"

The mother-in-law tilted her head at Wang Mei. He glanced at her and said, "What do you want to do again?"

Wang Mei said, "I see that you are a little bored at home recently. How about we go out for a walk with you? If you like to watch the snow, we will go to the snow." "Xiang, if you like the sea, we will go to Sanya, you come and choose a place."

My mother-in-law walked to the computer with doubts, and soon she was attracted by the beautiful scenery pictures. The trip planned by Mei also started smoothly.

During the trip, Wang Mei and her husband took good care of her mother-in-law and made her happy in every way. Wang Mei even took her mother-in-law to a winery where Internet celebrities vented their pressure and smashed wine jars.

On the way back, my mother-in-law held Wang Mei's hand and cried, saying, "Mei, Mom has been so confused recently. Your dad just left like this and left me alone. I felt really sad." It's uncomfortable. Mom knows that you are a good girl and I have never cared about it. I have wronged you."

After hearing what her mother-in-law said, Wang Mei hugged her mother-in-law gently and said only: "Let it out." That’ll be fine.”

Afterwards, my mother-in-law returned to normal, and she was still the open-minded and good mother-in-law.

One night, her husband asked Wang Mei why she was so generous. Wang Mei smiled and said, "Because she is the mother of the man I love most!"

Read this story , have you gained a new understanding of the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law? Mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, only mother-in-law and daughter-in-law set out towards the same goal, then the atmosphere of the family must be harmonious and healthy, and this common goal is for the good of the whole family.

If Wang Mei fails to put herself in her mother-in-law's shoes and understand her abnormality, it will only intensify the conflict, and the pain in her mother-in-law's heart will never be resolved, and the entire family may even face disintegration.

In a good mother-in-law and daughter-in-law relationship, whether it is the mother-in-law or the daughter-in-law, most of them are sensible people who know how to consider everything from the perspective of others, so as to minimize conflicts as much as possible.

Of course, a harmonious relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law also "rescues" the man caught in the middle. Seeing his son happy and his husband relaxed and stress-free is probably what every mother-in-law and daughter-in-law would rather see. Bar!