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"Dear Beloved" is a highly sweet TV series sweeping all major platforms. It is a hot search on Weibo every day and the "current boyfriend" in the circle of friends every day. Check in...

This magical style of painting is unfolding around us. Fans who follow the drama every day are on the verge of collapse. They eagerly wait for the update of the plot every day. While waiting for the update, they also Keep watching various trailers.

While watching, she smiled like an aunt. Once the protagonist quarreled, she would sigh and feel uncomfortable. Once the protagonist hugged and kissed, she immediately had starry eyes again.

It can be said that the whole heart is fluctuating with the plot.

Yes, this drama shows us the sweetness and bitterness of love, but it also teaches us step by step what is the best way to open love

I don’t know how to pursue love. Have you noticed that since Han Shangyan and Tong Nian got together, what Han Shangyan was most willing to do was spend money on Tong Nian.

When Tong Nian was drunk and saw Han Shangyan’s stepmother’s necklace and said he liked it, even though Han Shangyan couldn’t afford the price of the necklace with his own savings, he still gave the necklace to Tong Nian and told him My cousin Xiaobai borrowed money to pay for the necklace as compensation for her stepmother.

On Tong Nian’s birthday, he did not hesitate to borrow money from Xiaobai for the second time to buy Tong Nian a birthday gift.

After breaking up with Tong Nian, he also gave Tong Nian the remaining 2,000 yuan in his account as a "breakup fee."

Have you ever discovered that this kind of love that does not care about gains and losses, although it is not packaged in a flashy way, is the most real and is also what people often say, "How deep love is, only with money." Come and give it a try and you’ll get an idea right away.”

This situation just confirms what Tu Lei said: Money is not the only criterion for testing true love, but money can measure the depth of emotion.

Yes, money is not the standard to measure a man, but the willingness to spend money is the standard to measure a man's treatment of this relationship.

Han Shangyan loves Tong Nian. Even when he may have difficulty eating, he is still willing to spend money for Tong Nian. Even if Tong Nian says that he lacks nothing, he will still take Tong Nian there. The mall bought her a game console as a birthday gift.

Some people may say that "talking about money hurts feelings", but have you realized that the so-called thoughtfulness or sincerity, no matter which form it is expressed in, will eventually be linked to the word "money" Related to each other.

This society is realistic, and there is really nothing in life that does not involve talking about money.

From a certain point of view, a man who is unwilling to spend money for you and is unwilling to talk about money in front of you is only willing to express his love with eachother's vow of "willing to go through swords and fires for you". This is How much is the weight of love?

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In one episode of the reality show "With You Along the Road", Julian Cheung and Anita Yuen were invited as guests.

At the end of the program, a video was released, which contained the "last words" recorded by Julian Cheung in advance: Suppose you only have 24 hours left in your life, what would you do and what would you say to Anita Yuen? What?

The first sentence of Zhang Zhilin’s answer set off tears and hit the tear duct.

"Anita Yuan, do you have enough money? If you say enough, then I will feel at ease."

As we all know, Anita Yuen is famous for her love of buying bags. The total number of Hermès, LV and other big-name bags she has carried could circle the earth.

Although Zhang Zhilin would shout "My wife, please don't buy any more bags" and once complained about his wife buying bags as if she was robbing them on the show, he would still take out his own money every time he went shopping to check out. credit card to pay for it.

It is not difficult to see that Julian Cheung is unblinkingly opposed to Anita Yuen's love of buying bags.

Early on, Anita Yuen was caught in a scandal of being kept under wraps, and everyone was waiting to see the joke. However, Zhang Zhilin only said one sentence: "It's a pity that I didn't get to know her earlier and protect her earlier."

With such a simple sentence, all the previous rumors were shattered into dust.

You will find that the man who spoiled Anita Yuen as a child will always be the man named Julian Cheung.

You also know that leaving the best food to the important people is a principle that all kindergarten children understand; when you are young, some people will save money in order to buy you the things you like. use.

This kind of love is so deep that being willing to spend money for you is a natural instinct and the essence of true love.

Some people say that love after marriage will start to become boring after a long time. At this time, romantic surprise gifts will become very important. Married couples need these little romances to embellish their ordinary life.

The marriage of Julian Cheung and Anita Yuan also shows us the importance of this statement. The two of them run it carefully and take good care of it. Anita Yuen likes bags, and Julian Cheung has no objection, but we also know that these bags are not blown by the wind, but need money to buy them.

It is true that material things are indispensable for love and an important factor in love. What women want is not superficial material things, but the true feelings of a man who is willing to care about her material life.

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I heard a love story about a couple born in the 1990s. The two protagonists in the story started selling seafood from scratch after graduation.

Out of instinct for beauty, the girl whispered to her husband that she really liked that Chanel bag. But she knew that they were currently unable to support her financially, so she told her husband that what she said was just to express her true feelings to her husband as a friend, and she was not forcing him to buy her the bag. After all, she knew it herself. Starting a business is not easy.

After hearing this, the boy happily said that I will buy it for you if you like it, but you may have to wait for a while. I will buy it back when I save enough money next month.

I think these words from the boy can warm the hearts of many girls.

A simple sentence is worth thousands of words, "I will buy it for you when I have money." Such words sound like a promise, but when the promise is fulfilled, it actually looks like a hooligan. After all, the word promise is Sometimes it is as light as a feather, sometimes it is like a bubble.

As for this boy born in the 90s, he understands that loving someone cannot be delayed. Even if the other person has to wait, a deadline must be given.

If a person really loves you, it can be seen from his eyes, movements and subtle expressions, but the most direct way is to be willing to spend money for you.

Emotions are deep, eager to give, and willing to please the other person's wants and desires. Just like a mountain stream, the water level rises over time, and eventually it flows into the sea, out of control.

So, in love, you must spend money, and the so-called spending money does not mean spending a lot of money, but spending money for the other person sincerely and wholeheartedly.

In other words, whether you spend more or less depends on the individual, and where you spend your money depends on your heart.

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Zhang Ailing once said: When you spend his money, you feel happy in your heart. Spending his money is not because of a woman’s greed. Because a woman doesn't just spend any man's money, it is also a careful choice made by Qianfan, and the man tests her love by whether she is willing to spend his money. So a man wants the woman he loves to spend his money.

I saw a story on Zhihu: A girl fell in love with a young man. The young man was considerate and gentle to the girl, which made people envious. The girl couldn't help but fall into the tenderness of the young man, but there was one thing about this young man that made the girl feel awkward, that is, he was unwilling to spend money for the girl, and he would always pay extra attention every time he bought something for the girl.

But the girl will still defend him, saying that this is called "frugality" and is a virtue.

Later, due to various reasons, the two broke up. When they met again, they saw a ring on the hand of the girl next to the young man. This ring was when the two were still together. At that time, the young man thought it was too expensive, so he didn’t buy the one in the end.

It turns out that it’s not that the young man is frugal or that he upholds traditional virtues, he just doesn’t want to spend money on the girl.

To put it bluntly, I just don’t like or love you enough.

To truly love someone is to give her the best things, do your best to satisfy her what she wants, and realize every little wish she has.

After all, how can someone who truly loves you be willing to let you covet everything but turn around and say no?

Because of true love, you are willing to see the other person happy. Even if money is important to you, you are more important than money.

Perhaps for many people, this kind of love is very material and a complete luxury.

But I understand more and more and believe more and more that love is ultimately about business, and being willing to spend money for you is one of the ways to open up business.

END. Today’s topic: Do you think a man who truly loves you is willing to spend money on you?