It must be sparkling free youth! Doing what you like, having three or five friends around you, and having certain financial ability, you can take your sword to take care of your parents and travel around the world.
When I grow up, I find that most people are confused and flustered in their twenties. Return the credit card when you get paid. There is not much left, and the work is repetitive and cumbersome. There is no small single room of 20 square meters in the distance. ...
What is your age of 20?
We found some young people who may be like you. Some of them have just graduated, some have been wandering in the society for three or five years, and some are about to enter the 30-year-old mark ... Let's listen to what they say.
By. I'm wet
Finally, I waited for the updated episode of One Piece. As soon as the OP rang, someone in the barrage said:
"I have actually watched this group of people shouting' One Piece's Man' for 20 years."
In fact, it has not only been called for for 20 years, but it has not been realized for 20 years.
7300 days have passed, and I pretended to do my homework while watching TV on the day Luffy went to sea, and I also came to the end of my youth.
I don't seem to be the teenager who can run all day and is not afraid of falling and failure. In your twenties, don't shout "I want one piece", even "I don't want to work overtime today".
My dream still has no time, buried in the corner, slowly dim. Life didn't give me any head-on blows, it just reminded me when I should pay the rent.
Plain days, not even a thorn. I won't let you lose or make you cry. Don't give us the opportunity to "start the rise of BGM and complete the anti-killing with big moves".
Instead, I washed away my passion with the water in the sewer, trying to turn me into a "boring middle-aged" bit by bit.
Gao said in the program:
Don't panic, live clearly, and your youth will be gone. But it is definitely not to say that this is a portrayal of youth that used to be in a hurry.
For example, the word "mourning" often appears this year. Most people obviously enjoy the cure brought by "small loss", instead of cooking chicken blood for themselves and doing their best for their lives. Even the shopping mall next door has opened "mourning tea".
"Mourning" is good, and it is the refuge of life. But we all know that "mourning" can't bring happiness to you and me.
Instead of lying on the sofa and whining, why not think about running in the sunset, thinking about the years of burning passion, thinking about BGM or lines that make your whole body boil when you hear the prelude.
Chief Justice Roberts of the United States said this at his son's junior high school graduation ceremony:
The reason why he said such seemingly "vicious" words is because he clearly knows that no matter whether we are willing to accept it or not, those unpleasant, unsatisfactory and unsatisfactory things will come to us at the age of 20.
If you don't want to "die" at the age of 20 and become a mediocre middle-aged person at the age of 40 ahead of schedule, you must endure these painful and difficult moments and not be affected by injuries and lost things.
I'm Mia
I was 265,438+0 years old when I decided to come to Shenzhen. I have no connections, no background, no resources and no relatives. I can say that I have no friends, only a suitcase with daily clothes and a box of books I read in college.
That year, my internship salary was only 1875 yuan, in order to survive in this city:
This is the most difficult year I have experienced in my present life. This year, I was confused, questioned my decision, and cried in the middle of the night, but I always believed that I would bite the bullet and get through it, and a good day was waiting for me.
However, this year:
Jonathan Lee has a saying: There is no road in life in vain, and every step is very important. Not very good, even a little bad, 2 1 year-old, let me find my place in the workplace and my love in the gap of survival.
Being confused, incompetent and temporarily backward in our twenties means that we constantly strive to correct our direction and find ourselves in confusion.
The biggest failure in life is not that I can't, but that you could have.
By. I am Xiao Su.
Last week, I met a college friend who told me that she felt almost depressed. Seeing that her friends around her are either developing in their careers or having a colorful love life, she still has nothing after two years of graduation.
"Not to say that three years after graduation can see the gap between people? I am afraid that I am the one left behind. "
I told her that everything would be all right, but what I didn't say was that I was depressed for a while.
For 1 month, I couldn't sleep at night, didn't want to go to work, couldn't do anything, and was surrounded by great anxiety and meaningless feelings.
How did I get better later? I think maybe it's just because I'm poor and I don't have the time and financial conditions to stop and have a good rest. So I changed my job and entered a new environment, and everything really got better slowly.
But at that time, I realized that if I didn't have enough money and strength, I wasn't even qualified to stop.
Haruki Murakami didn't decide to write a novel until he was 29. Before that, he was just a grocer who could not make ends meet, burdened with debts and trivial daily affairs.
Van Gogh only sketched before the age of 27, and JK Rowling was only a school teacher before the age of 23. When Fu Cong first came to Poland to study at the age of 20, he didn't know that he would be named "the greatest musician in China today" by Time magazine in the 1960s. ...
These people who have made achievements in their respective fields are in their twenties. Like us, they know nothing about the future and have the same confusion and uncertainty.
Then, why is life so long, but we always think that the decade from 20 to 30 can determine our future life?
Must we be in such a hurry?
Find your true love and fight for it all your life. When you are in a hurry, you might as well tell yourself: although what I am doing now seems hopeless, it doesn't matter. I intend to do it all my life.
In the future, we may all have families and children, but our twenties are our own battlefields, and we have to fight for our lives and dreams alone.
The final result is not important, but you must put on the most handsome clothes and use the coolest weapon to pick the most beautiful sunset-stepping on the south and breaking the sky without regrets.
Not so good, more than 20 years old, who has not? But at least, we are all on the way to find it.
Dedicated to you in your twenties.
* Thanks to the guests interviewed in this issue: Zhang Kun, CeCe, Tall Man, Mia, Li Jiangyan, Sullivan, Zhang Jian and An An (in no particular order).