If you overdraw your physical strength, you will recover after taking a rest!
If you overdraw your money, you will always have a surplus if you increase your income and reduce expenditures!
But if you overdraw your credit, you will not spend any more money. With great physical strength, no matter how much money you spend, you can't buy others' trust in you!
It's like crumpled paper, no matter how hard you try, you can't smooth it out again!
In the world There are as many secrets as there are people.
When someone confides their secrets to you, it means that they trust you and recognize your personality.
The most important thing when facing a confider is to keep it secret, even if it is unbearable privacy, we just need to listen, understand, comfort, and then forget - forget what he said about keeping things private.
Always believe that listening to secrets and then eliminating them is the most basic requirement and criterion for being a human being.
Being able to trust you and tell you the truth confidently means recognizing your character. Don't treat other people's trust as a tool that can be used.
People who can believe in you are people who have cultivated their emotions for many years. Don’t let your friends who have spoken to you sincerely leave heartbroken one by one! Don’t let fewer and fewer people believe in you!
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Trust is like a knife. If you give it to others, they will have two choices: stab you or protect you.
So always remind yourself: be cautious in your words and deeds, keep a low profile, and control your mouth:
1. Don’t talk about things before they are fully confirmed, just like the money has not arrived in your account. It's not yours, and you will be embarrassed if something goes wrong;
2. Digest any secrets on the spot until you are done;
3. Don't exaggerate, for the sake of the momentary effect, You have to pay the price of being unreliable;
4. People who speak freely only care about what they say and don’t care about the feelings of others;
5. Don’t know the rights and wrongs of others behind their backs. , do not draw conclusions for others through superficial guesses, because the guesses are not true;
6. You always think that others will not know what you say, but in fact they will.
People’s trust is the same as a credit card. If you continue to spend and repay regularly, the limit given to you by the bank will continue to increase. This is the accumulation of trust. If you use your credit card and fail to repay the money on the stipulated date, often delaying or even not repaying it, the bank will leave you with a bad record, and of course it will have to pursue repayment from you through the courts. At the same time, after you have left a stain on the bank, you will not be able to repay it in the future. All loans may not go through.
Be a good person first and respect your own reputation as a person, so that you can enhance the trust of people around you.