Okay. First borrow money with a credit card and then pay it back after getting married. It is normal for the bride to take the gift money back to her mother-in-law's house and then repay the loan. This is also a good way. But you have to check whether the woman's family is playing common sense. If the woman's family has a brother-in-law who is not married, you may have fallen into a trap. Bless you!