You can enter school without an admission notice. The admission notice is only a symbol of students' admission to colleges and universities, not the only certificate. All colleges and universities have written and electronic files of students' admission.

so if you find that the admission notice is missing, you can contact the school, inform the teacher in advance that the admission notice is missing, and ask the teacher how to handle it. Generally speaking, the enrollment data of freshmen have already been in the freshman system of the school. As long as you can prove your identity, such as ID card and household registration book, you can report to the school smoothly.

Like this girl in the news, not only did she not have an admission notice, but even her mother took away her ID card and household registration book. This situation is a little more complicated. You can contact the admissions office of the school as soon as possible to explain the situation, and the school will give you a "green light" if necessary.

As far as I know, Jia Jia, the girl in the news, has contacted the school, and the school also said that Jia Jia can report directly and promised to reprint the admission notice to facilitate her to complete the admission procedures.

Although the loss of the admission notice will not affect students' reporting to the school, it will be very troublesome to handle household registration transfer procedures, file registration, student bank accounts, credit cards, meal cards and other specific matters, and the commemorative significance of the admission notice is far higher than the actual significance, so it is still necessary to keep it well!

I paid attention to the follow-up of this news:

My daughter responded that the admission notice was stolen by her mother and blocked her admission: she has reissued the admission materials, but she is not sure whether she can enter the school.

On the 22nd, Jia Jia told reporters that the admission materials had been reissued, but on the 21st, her mother suddenly appeared and was not allowed to go out at the door of her room. Now she is not sure whether she can go to school.

The people watching this news are suffocating. From this incident, it is not difficult to see that the mother has a very strong sense of control over her daughter, so strong that she wants to control all of her daughter.

Wu Zhihong, a psychologist, once had a very classic saying: "The more you control, the more out of control."

This sentence profoundly reveals a phenomenon in interpersonal relationships: when a person tries to control others excessively, he will lose control of the other person.

In interpersonal relationships, immature individuals often have no real love, but turn their needs into demands from others. The love they show is actually an act of control, aiming at satisfying their own needs and depriving others of their freedom. When they can't control others, they often respond with anger and revenge.

From this perspective, dependence is also an act of deprivation of freedom. True love needs to flow in a free and relatively independent space. It should not be based on dependence and control of others.

"Love out of necessity" and "Love out of want" both satisfy their own needs by relying on others. This kind of love seems to have a love component, but it is actually a means to control and force others to obey. This kind of love will only push people farther and farther.

I hope this mother can realize that every child is an independent individual, not an accessory. In the face of children's growth and departure, parents are reluctant and uneasy, and it is very normal to worry that they will make mistakes and encounter setbacks in major life choices. However, this should not be the reason for "doing everything".