Brother, can we be more ambitious? Even I am not as good as a lesbian. I am 33 years old, female, with a debt of 3W W. What are you afraid of? It's no big deal. Let's start all over again. Let go of the lofty attitude, start from scratch, solve the problem of survival first, and work hard step by step, as long as you don't die, you will eventually get ahead.
Dude, I'm confused, too. I want to go or do what I can now. Let's talk about the rest.
I can understand your mood and situation very well, because there are two real cases around me where you can't repay after being in debt.
One of my primary school classmates came to work in the city with a monthly income of 4, yuan after graduating from college. His salary is not high, but he will be able to afford a house and a car one day after accumulation. After all, the house prices here are not very expensive, ranging from 3, to 4, yuan/square, which is a lot.
However, primary school students are in a hurry. Seeing that the money is too slow, they want to make some investments outside of work in order to increase their income quickly.
after searching, after more than a year, the appearance of a person brought him "dawn", which later proved to be a big pit.
This person is his high school classmate. They haven't seen each other for a long time and happened to meet in the city. As soon as the two sides meet, they will go to a restaurant to drink and talk about heaven and earth.
When talking and talking, you can't help complaining, or expressing your dissatisfaction with the status quo. Primary school students said, "I have the idea of investing, but I can't find a good project."
that's right. The high school classmate came to the fun and expressed his long-buried idea that he wanted to grow sugar oranges in his hometown of Baoshan, but he didn't have enough money. He couldn't do it alone and wanted to find someone to partner.
you have feelings, I am interested, and they hit it off. Primary school students don't know where they got the courage, so they promised to invest in each other and grow sugar oranges in partnership.
Just do it, and the high school classmate went back to his hometown to get up and really contracted the mountain. The next steps are soil preparation, digging holes, buying fruit seedlings and planting ... < P > But this series of operations can't be done without money. So, this high school classmate went to his primary school classmate to invest, and the primary school classmate was unambiguous. He swiped the credit card directly and took out 6, yuan and turned it over.
This is the first money invested by primary school students, but it is not the last one.
The growth of fruit trees requires maintenance, weeding, fertilization, watering, pesticide application, etc., which links do not cost money. The 6, yuan invested by primary school students will be finished in less than one year.
The high school classmate urged money again, but the primary school classmate was still unambiguous. He swiped another credit card for 8, yuan and turned it over.
in the third year, sugar oranges began to bear fruit, and it's time to pay back. Primary school students borrowed money from others, invested another 3 thousand, and then waited for the harvest and made money.
unfortunately, the ripe fruit can't be sold, and no boss comes to collect the fruit, and it coincides with the downturn of the sugar orange market, and the price falls below the cost price.
It's over, the fruit can't be sold, so we have to rot in the ground, and the money invested has hit Shui Piao.
This is terrible. The money invested by primary school students is either credit cards or loans from friends. I was hoping to sell the fruit and make money. After paying back the credit cards and friends, I can still make some money. Can do as you wish, fruit can't be sold, no money, what should I do?
As a result, primary school students have changed from ordinary employees with stable income three years ago to a person with a debt of 17, three years later. 17, yuan, for people who earn only 4, yuan a month, is a huge debt, how can they afford it!
One of my colleagues got into a bad habit and gambled online. It is said that it was quite powerful at first, and it won more than 2 million.
But as we all know, once this person falls into the abyss of gambling, he can't extricate himself, regardless of winning or losing. If you lose, you want to turn over your losses. If you win, you want to win more. So, in order to win more, this colleague confiscated his hand and continued to play, and the more he played, the bigger he became.
It's over. Is it God's will or greed? Colleagues began to lose money, and the more they lost, the more they won, and the more than 2 million they lost.
unwilling, he borrowed usury to turn over his capital, which was 2, yuan at a time. In a few days, 2, yuan was thrown online, and all of them were lost.
2, loan sharks have been lost, but they can't pay back, and the interest has rolled up to more than 1 million (it's terrible, how can this be counted).
Finally, my colleagues lived such a miserable life that someone called every day and someone came to find them, so that my wife couldn't stand it and ran away.
a primary school classmate and a colleague are all in debt, whether it is 17, yuan or more than 1 million yuan, they can't afford it, and they can't pay it back even if they sell themselves.
Today, their situation is similar to that of the subject, and their age is almost the same. They are all in their thirties, and they are in their prime of life, which is deplorable.
salary alone, including the subject, can't be paid back for a lifetime. After all, there are a lot of interest. It's enough to pay back the interest every month, so you can pay back the principal in a monkey year!
what should I do?
first, communication. Crush the scalp to communicate, whether it is owed to banks or loan sharks, find them in charge and negotiate a repayment plan that they can afford. It would be great if you could stop paying the bill, but if you can't, you can postpone it. In short, be sure to negotiate a result that is beneficial to you, at least it will not be overwhelmed.
second, start a business or do business. This is your only way out. You can't pay off your debts just by monthly salary. You can only get high returns in a short time by starting a business or doing business, so as to relieve the debt pressure or get rid of the debt completely. Of course, you should not blindly start a business or do business. You should look for it slowly, understand it, grasp it, and try again if you are 9% sure.
Of course, you can also work part-time, go to work during the day and set up stalls at night ...
Finally, I sincerely wish all those who are in debt to go ashore as soon as possible, get rid of the pain and start a new life.
Only when people are under pressure can they have motivation. 7, yuan is nothing. As long as they can find a good investment project, 7, yuan is sometimes a month or two.
Debt is the product of the development of the society in the past ten years, which has produced countless deadbeats and debtors everywhere, so they have to face it at the wrong time. Adjust your mentality and adapt to the identity of Lao Lai. Don't rush for success. Find a small job to make a living first. When you have the opportunity to do a small project, start slowly. In five, ten or twenty years, there will always be a day when you can't get out of this darkness.
If you can't start a business, then go to work. Working doesn't mean you just have to work. It means you have to pay off your debts to make a living, while doing physical work, reducing your thoughts and keeping your mind calm. I figured it out ...
When you are upset, you shouldn't start any projects. You should hide and wait on the defensive ...
Life has ups and downs, and it is inevitable that there will be ups and downs. In ancient times, kings fought in territory, and there were gains and losses ...
The allusions are not listed ...
Heroes don't ask about the source, but are more persevering at the bottom!
Don't sigh that your luck is bad and your life is full of troubles ...
May you live every day now, and don't waste your life!
do you have any skills? What will it be? As long as you don't die, you will eventually get ahead. Now the society owes a lot of money. You don't have much money. You can earn seven or eight thousand yuan if you work hard for a month. You can save tens of thousands after a year, and you can pay it back in a few years. With a certain amount of principal, you can do some small businesses, such as selling fruits, selling cooked food and frying goods, which are all small businesses with small profits. As long as you are not lazy and not afraid of hardship, you can earn money!
Being in debt is not owing your life, but changing the status quo is the main thing. Don't blindly want to make a windfall. It is really hard to make money now, especially in the past two years. Many people are like you. I have sold two houses in recent years, and now I rent a house with a few mouths. Friends around me also borrowed a lot from them. Slow down, there is no hurdle, there are ups and downs, and mentality is very important!
hey, me, too. I don't know how to go in the future. There are old people and small ones.