In this case, of course it’s time to break up! Even the betrothal gift has to be taken from the girl's credit card. Do you hate getting married that much? What is it about him that deserves unlimited support?

This is what Xiaoyu, a fan from Guangxi, said about her personal experience. She had been in a free relationship with her boyfriend for four years, and it was time to talk about marriage. However, when it came time to agree on the bride price, the man took no initiative. Later, when the girl's parents met her boyfriend, they said that the bride price was only 8,000 yuan. If it was suitable, the parents of both parties would meet and let the two children settle down as soon as possible.

I believe that when everyone sees a betrothal gift of 8,000 yuan, they will think that this is almost no gift. For tens of thousands or hundreds of thousands in other areas, such an amount of betrothal gift will not cause any harm to the man’s family. pressure.

However, the more sensible a girl is, the easier it is for her to encounter weird things. After agreeing on the matter, the fan's boyfriend told Xiaoyu when he was alone with her that his money had been given to his parents, so he wanted the money for the bride price to be taken out of the fan's credit card first. , the two of them returned it together later.

When the fan heard this statement, she was stunned. She had always thought that the dowry was just a formality in the relationship between the two for more than four years. Anyway, her parents had also prepared a dowry, and she herself She also saved some money from her part-time job, but her boyfriend didn't know her financial situation. Since the two of them had sex every month, her boyfriend had his mind set on Xiaoyu's credit card. Of course Xiaoyu didn't agree, and they broke up unhappy later.

Comments:

One thing is certain: you cannot have such a man. It is not a question of whether you are poor or not. You can work hard and struggle if you are poor. But deep down, such people want nothing but nothing. They do not want to contribute to marriage, and they do not respect girls. When they are in love, they are prone to sweet words and verbal care. Confused, if you enter into marriage, marrying this kind of man will be a disaster.

In today’s society, 8,000 yuan is not too high a betrothal gift. Even if you don’t know anything, you can still save it by working in a factory and hammering screws for two or three months. If you want to marry a wife, if you don't even have this bit of sincerity, you'd better be a bachelor. Girls deserve better.