Nowadays, society is becoming more and more open and free. Individual wishes are respected when men and women marry, but it also makes it difficult for many people to find a partner. After all, it is not like before.
In addition, there is an imbalance in the ratio of men to women. In today’s society, there are more men than women. It is still more difficult for men to find a partner than for women. This is also because this society is very realistic. If a man does not have certain financial strength, who is willing to marry? In the past.
This is the case for Xiao Li. The family situation is not particularly good. He works in a factory and earns an average salary. He can live a decent life alone and has enough money to save. However, he is still far away from buying a house. Most people, who are about to turn 3 when they are twenty-six or seventeen years old, say that men stand up in their thirties, but now he doesn't even have a partner, so how can he start a family.
He himself was worried, but there was nothing he could do. He had no house, no car, and no financial strength. Which girl would like him.
My family is also worried. The family situation is not good, and finding a wife is really a problem. After all, although I can't afford to buy a house, it is still possible to use my savings and borrow money to make up for the down payment to buy a car. At least Having a car is also a symbol of financial strength, at least some girls are willing to do so. I just did what I said, and things really changed after I bought the car.
Later, a relative introduced a partner, and the two fell in love as soon as they met on a blind date. The woman was from a single-parent family, and the conditions were not particularly good, but it didn’t matter. Xiao Li found the girl to be quite quiet and honest. Yes, their personalities are compatible and they are suitable for living together. The girl will look at Xiao Li and make do with it.
After being in contact for a while, they felt good about each other, and the two got married. Although the life after marriage was dull, it was still passable. Until one day, Xiao Li's father was talking to Xiao Li about the car and the girl heard it. Suddenly his expression changed. After returning to the room at night, he had a big fight with Xiao Li.
It turns out that the girl married Xiao Li because she saw that Xiao Li had a car and thought his family was financially sound. However, it turned out that he bought it with a loan and it cost thousands to repay the car loan every month. And it will take a long time.
The girl’s family was originally a single-parent family. Later, her mother remarried a man and gave birth to a younger brother. Later, in order to support the younger brother’s education, the family owed a lot of money and credit cards that needed to be repaid. In addition, the girl herself Lack of security.
So she always wanted to find someone to marry who was financially sound. She didn’t have to be too rich, but at least he was much better off than her own family, and could help her family pay off their debts. In the end, she found out that the person she married into was from her husband’s family and her own family. They are all similar, they all need to repay their debts, and they suddenly become angry and make trouble, feeling very cheated.
And Xiao Li was also very hurt. He originally thought that the girl he was looking for was sincere and could live a good life, but he didn't expect that he would marry for such a reason.
Now that it has evolved into this ending, he doesn’t know how to live his life anymore!
How do you think they should proceed?