I think that if the credit card is used for some relatively large appliances, such as refrigerators, washing machines, etc., these can be repaid together after separation, but if it is for ordering takeout or watching Movies and the like shouldn’t be.
Because things like home appliances usually cost several thousand, so if you want to buy them at once, some couples who are under great financial pressure may really need to use a credit card to solve the problem. But when you need to use a credit card to eat, sometimes you really should think about it, are such financial conditions still suitable for falling in love? And if even the meal has to be calculated at half the price per person, does that mean that when eating, the food should be cut in half and one person should eat half, so that the other party will not feel unfair in the future.
So I think that if it is a relatively large expense, the two people should pay it back together. Even after breaking up, they should share some pressure for each other. Otherwise, it will actually be a bit like bullying the other person. One party, but if you have to make clear arrangements with each other even for eating, drinking and having fun, then in fact, the boundaries of this relationship have been drawn before the beginning. These are no longer two people in a close relationship, but like a person who just lives together. They are just two tenants together, so after separation, they need to be accounted for one by one to prevent the other party from taking advantage of them.
In my opinion, the reason why couples can be called lovers actually sometimes includes the factor of being taken advantage of by the other party, so after breaking up, some people will make a list , asking the other party to repay one's own expenses, this behavior is considered very ridiculous by many people, and swiping a credit card to solve daily expenses, and then repaying it together after the breakup, is actually nothing like this behavior Both, in my opinion, this kind of careless thing should not exist in an intimate relationship.