Before the party, you can think about who will come to the party. If you prepare a short story, will it be suitable for everyone?
Sister Ma thinks that gatherings are a time for exchanging feelings. It’s great to share your own stories with friends and listen to their friends’ stories.
Telling stories deliberately can make you embarrassed. If it’s a bad joke and no one laughs, it will be embarrassing. If it’s a dirty joke and there are some shy girls around, that’s not good either.
(Hey, there is Jay in the picture...)
You can find an appropriate topic, for example, what are the best roommates in college? Let’s talk about the roommates respectively. Some funny stories can not only stimulate the atmosphere, but also create the same topic so that everyone can continue chatting.
If it is a group of old classmates, just recall who chased whom in those days, who often came last in exams and later became the boss, who was the most pursued person in the class, and who was it? Who is the class beauty, and so on.
If it is a group of new mothers, there is no need to start a topic, everyone will talk about their babies, parenting, etc.
If you are a group of big guys, you can talk about the game and tell them any stories about how they deceived your teammates.
If it is a group of newly married sisters, you can complain about the situation of getting along with the new parents-in-law, what things are unacceptable, etc.
In short, Sister Ma feels that the purpose of the party is not stories. Once a story is told, it is gone. Will everyone stare at each other for the rest of the time? The main thing is a topic. With a topic, everyone can participate, open up a chat box, and share their own stories to let everyone know about themselves. This will not only shorten the distance between you and your friends, but also make the party more enjoyable. The atmosphere became warm.
Just purple.