In film and television dramas, whether it is Fan Shengmei or An Jing, when faced with the coercion of their relatives, they always want to resist, but in the end they have to compromise for their lives. In real life, many parents force their elder sisters to give up their lives for the sake of their younger brothers. The mother kidnapped her daughter because of her morals, and the man scolded her loudly

In order to buy a house for her son, the mother asked her daughter for a down payment of 200,000. "You are the elder sister! It is unreasonable for an elder sister to care about her younger brother!" The daughter said that she could not afford the money, but the mother did not give in. Instead, she threatened her morally, "We are so good to you, isn't it right for you to help the family? "

Just when the mother pressed her daughter step by step, and even started to look through the cards in her daughter's bag, a man around her couldn't stand it anymore, "Which rule says that if you train her to go to college, she will Want to give you 200,000?" The man also warned her that if her daughter took out a loan, it would be difficult to pay it back with her current ability, and her future life would be ruined. A girl who is also a sister also said: "I only have the responsibility to support my parents! And my parents will not make such unreasonable demands!" The daughter was forced by her mother to take money, and passers-by warned of the dire consequences

Seeing his mother using affection to force her daughter to take money, the young man used his own experience to warn her. "My ex-girlfriend was forced by her family to give her parents a credit card for the New Year, and she owed more than 40,000 yuan." In the young man's opinion, if it hadn't been for this incident, they would have lived happily together. Therefore, he hopes that his mother will not force her daughter to lose the good life that should belong to her.

"This 200,000 down payment is just the tip of the iceberg. If you can't even pay the down payment now, your son will be under even greater pressure in the future!" The man at the next table who also witnessed this scene directly told his mother. When the financial accounts came up, "Your son must at least find a job with a salary of more than 5,000 yuan to afford a house worth 1 million yuan." After hearing these words, both mother and daughter fell into silence.

The mother loudly scolded her daughter because she couldn't come up with money to help her brother, which made the man beside her have red eyes: "It's not easy for her to be a girl outside. You have to understand her." Being a mother When he said that if you had a sister, he would definitely help you, the man's friend responded directly: "I have four sisters in my family, and I have never asked them for help."

While squeezing his daughter, he also In affecting the son's life, such love will only be a burden. As Mr. Hu Shi said: "I will never control your life in the name of love." Although family love is valuable, don't let it become a heavy shackles. Her parents divorced, leaving three children to be raised by her sister

The girl’s experience is different from that of “An Jing” played by Zhang Zifeng in “My Sister”. An Jing’s parents passed away, even though she did not give birth to her son. An Jing agreed, but her parents have left this world, and it is impossible for their daughter to live an easier life.

But this girl who committed suicide many times at the age of 20 was different. Her parents were still there, but they chose to escape. When the policeman who rescued her saw the numerous scars on her wrists, her heart was filled with worry. It hurts. In fact, the hearts of netizens also hurt. Can you imagine that you are still a child who has not grown up, but you have to shoulder the heavy responsibility of taking care of three younger brothers and sisters? How much mental strength is needed to bear this?

Perhaps it can be said that from a legal perspective, the parents still have the talent to work, and it is not the elder sister’s turn to raise three underage children alone. The girl has really endured too much that she should not have. to the pressure she was under. Obviously, the girl is kind. She knows that if she throws it away, her brothers and sisters will have no relatives and no support, so she can only grit her teeth and insist on protecting her siblings as much as possible.

Faced with such a thing, what can we, as bystanders, say? Unable to comment or help, parents who should have taken responsibility chose to escape. Do they want others to fulfill their parental responsibilities for them? Their lives could have been much easier without having to rack their brains so much. They could have had the opportunity to plan their lives wonderfully.

But just because of the word "sister", she was firmly tied by family affection. Even if she was unwilling to do so, she still tried her best to carry the heavy burden, just to have a clear conscience.

If a child can do this, why can’t parents? The truth is a kind of sorrow!