Someone walks over and bumps into you. This is love. A car comes and you hit it, it's a car accident. However, cars always collide with each other, and people always give way. Perhaps out of inner shyness, many people always have a love buried in their hearts that they dare not express. Fear of rejection, fear of being hurt, fear of no future... We always miss the beginning because we are worried about the ending.

"Do you know what the best state of marriage is?" "I don't know." "Then let me tell you!" That is to live every day full of love, you must remember , Relatives are always just parents and children, your wife will always be your lover, because you are together because of love, your wife has no blood relationship with you, and you cannot ask your wife according to the standards of the person you love. ”

People often say that love without marriage is a rogue. This is of course a very responsible attitude. But it also easily leads to a problem: your love is for marriage. Once you get to marriage Even if this step is "achieved", what will happen next?

Many people fall in love to get married. When you are in love, you are naturally serious and try your best to be good to your girlfriend. So once you get married. , your mentality will change. They will think: They all think that you should live a good life after marriage. You cannot always think about love. This is unrealistic. The change in attitude brings about emotional indifference. So the feelings of others are getting deeper and deeper, and they may even break up.

Marriage is certainly different from falling in love. Love only needs to be handled by the two of you. It is not a bad thing to handle the relationship between you well. Marriage involves more issues. You not only have to play the relationship between lovers, but we also have to handle the relationship between father and son, father and daughter, mother and daughter, mother-in-law and daughter-in-law. , daughter-in-law... countless identities are complicated, and conflicts and dissatisfaction will inevitably accumulate slowly. The best way to face this kind of problem is of course to adjust your mentality and face various relationships correctly.

There is also a way to "surround Wei and save Zhao", which is to treat your lover as your lover - your lover may not do well enough in other aspects of marriage and will have some negative emotions, but her lover will give her more positivity It can help offset the negative effects of negative emotions.

Marriage should not be the end of a relationship, but a sublimation! If you want to run a good marriage, the following points are essential. :

1. Respect

Give each other a good relationship as a couple. You can see it in daily life. How many families are unhappy because of trivial things, even. Divorce and marriage are actually about giving face to each other and establishing a good relationship between husband and wife. If a man gives a woman enough face in front of her friends, the woman will also give the man face in front of her friends, so the conflicts in the marriage will be reduced a lot.

2. Trust

I dare to lend you money only when I unconditionally believe that your partner is in need of money; only then do I dare to help you when something happens to you. This is trust in the other party. Affirmation is trust in each other. Whether it is friendship or love, trust between husband and wife is the spiritual support of each other and the sustenance of emotions. How many times have you betrayed your lover? How many times have you been hurt. Times? Trust is like a credit card. The more you borrow, the more punctual you will pay. If you don't pay back on time, the bank card you trust will be frozen. Do you trust your lover enough? When the two of you are in reality. When you are getting along, there will always be some conflicts that prevent you from moving towards each other's happiness.

3. Care

What is love? When you are thirsty, your lover will give you a cup of warm tea; When you are tired, a warm word from your lover; when you encounter setbacks, it is your lover’s patient listening, encouragement and help. . . . Husband and wife should pay more attention and concern in daily interactions. A considerate lover can make your relationship last longer. Long. When the wife is doing housework, the husband should also join in and share the housework with his wife.

4. Tolerance

A philosopher once said that liking is trust and love is restraint.

If in marriage we can tolerate each other's shortcomings and cultivate ourselves, the marriage model will only become stronger. Therefore, it is very important to tolerate each other in marriage, and this is a lesson that every married person must learn. I believe that every girl will encounter different emotional confusions in love. Under the guidance of teachers, 100 girls have gained something. Some people have regained love, some have encountered sweet love, and some have entered the palace of marriage. All difficult and complicated problems in love can be solved skillfully by teachers. After paying attention, you can privately leave a message to the teacher to consult about your emotional problems.