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20 18 summary
Keywords: 1: the power of time
I spent almost 1 month thinking about the word "time" over and over again this year. There are several problems behind thinking:
Question 1: Why do I always feel anxious, and how can I overcome this anxiety?
Search on Zhihu can find many similar questions and answers. 20 18 I've been asking myself. When I focused on the problem itself, I found that my mind was caught in the aggravation of "anxiety", and I even became more anxious in the aggravation of anxiety, which even led to serious delay and boredom in my work.
When you see people who are 5 or 6 years younger than yourself doing the same job and are more energetic, you will panic;
When you see that your peers have a successful career and an annual salary of 7 figures, you will also panic;
What you see is that you are abandoned by time and gradually become an ordinary person in the quiet flow of years, but you can't accept it in your heart.
It was not until I read a few books by Li Xiaolai, seven years is a lifetime, and I took time as my friend, that I found that behind my anxiety was my incomprehension of "time" and my fear of insufficient self-growth due to the passage of time. And these books are the answers and analysis of time.
The answer I found is: time is ruthless, it will not stay for me, nor will it bring me any additional benefits because of my anxiety; Time is fair, and "others" in your eyes enjoy the gift of time just like you.
Question 2: How can I build barriers and what kind of person will I be in the next three years?
Are you content to be so indifferent?
Is it sad to see that people of the same age have made achievements in their own fields and still boast about "white-collar workers" on a table?
This question is a reflection on "future time, future life". What I asked was: What is the possibility of my life and what will give me this possibility? The so-called barriers are just that on the one hand, you spend more time, think more, acquire more skills and output more opinions than others. Are these things simple? In fact, as long as you do it, it is very simple; Are these things difficult? You need to really put your heart into it, whether it's work or extracurricular self-growth, time will give you the answer.
The answer I found is: As long as we make good use of time, the future is infinite.
Question 3: Why do "hurry" and "take your time" bother me so much? What happened to the people who said these things now?
These two words are the mantra of our family Ceng Laoshi, who always comforts me when I feel stressed at work and my grades are not good, when I lose money, and when I feel that I haven't grown up yet.
My college tutor said the same thing to me: Don't worry, take your time, 10 We will do different things together.
When I was angry and dissatisfied with myself, in a few years, my university tutor achieved hundreds of millions of businesses and gradually completed the all-round construction of the business system. In nine months, Ceng Laoshi has completed a set of quantitative systems for futures and electronic money, including data collection, trading system, operation interface, fund statistics, operation strategy construction and firm offer.
The answer I found is: slow is fast, and less is more.
Keyword 2: continuous action
In the process of thinking about time, fortunately, I also met a pioneer Scalers. He almost built his own community system and growth framework with his actions that lasted for several years, and inspired thousands of people to change together.
At the end of June 10, I picked up my official WeChat account, which had been neglected for a long time, and began to write. When writing, I set myself a basic goal: to explore my heart and analyze my inner cognition and core concepts through 100 articles. In my opinion, only by understanding the basic principles (such as the "time" mentioned above) can we get support in the process of action and know what we have done wrong, so that we can adjust quickly.
"Continuous action" is the discussion of the second basic principle besides time. Action is the only variable, this sentence is said by S. Only when you take action will time play the role of an indicator. Without action, your y value will always be 0.
In these 60 days of continuous writing, I have a new understanding and analysis of myself. When you can't write it, you will feel the lack of your own thoughts, and you will find that working for several years is so insufficient for the precipitation of your field. Action forces me to input constantly, and the most direct force is reading.
The following picture shows the books that I have driven myself to read every day during this period, during my lunch break and after work, and asked me to make a case analysis of each book, internalize the output based on the article, feel enriched and growing, and be certain about the future.
Keyword 3: Thinking is broken
In the workplace and life, I always belong to the kind of person who is more direct and despises "skills".
After a period of continuous action, I found that my thinking began to change. Begin to examine some of your own solidified cognition, such as:
Is the WeChat business really low? ?
Are people who pay for knowledge really harvesting IQ tax?
Are opportunistic people really useless in the workplace?
Chicken soup for the soul is full of poison
When I abandoned some prejudices and opinions to really observe these things and think about the logic behind them, I found that my eyes were blinded by wrong thinking. If I can't break through these thoughts, I can't see the bigger world, the principles of society, the complexity and helplessness of the world.
The word wechat service is an old concept in 20 14 and 20 15. Now everyone is talking about "community e-commerce" and "social e-commerce". It contains links to "people" and emotionalization. Do these forms appear out of thin air? When you analyze it, you will find that many social e-commerce companies are actually transformed from WeChat business. If you look at the WeChat business blindly with prejudice, you will find that you have actually missed a new wave of e-commerce dividends.
In 20 18, knowledge payment was in a blowout state, and almost every official WeChat account was promoting courses, with prices ranging from 9.9 to several thousand yuan. If we simply regard knowledge payment as IQ tax, it is a simple double thinking. And if you can find what you need in these contents, really go deeper and invest time in learning and thinking, it will bring you much more growth than being a critic.
Opportunists in the workplace are not like this in their own eyes. And you have to believe that you will become such a person in the future. Because everyone has different levels, the scope and breadth of thinking are also different. So there are different paths and methods at the landing level. If you sneer at such people, it will only bring your own limitations. On the contrary, we should see the advantages, ways of doing things and ways of thinking of these people, so as to promote self-growth.
I began to take the initiative to see what all kinds of people are doing, how they survive, and what kind of people are building these things behind all kinds of anecdotes, new inventions and new applications. I found some new worlds, different from my own two-square-meter cubicle and some so-called tall ones in my industry.
The Power of Time, Continuous Action and Broken Thinking are the summary of 20 18. These keywords have given me greater inner strength, so I have found new directions and ideas.
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20 19 prospect
Keywords: 1: hard core growth
I remember my hardest time was in senior three. At that time, there was no air conditioning in the classroom, and there were more than 70 students in a class, studying like a steamer every day. Even so, I can persist in studying late every day. Looking back now, I still remember the feeling that sweat soaked the book drop by drop along my cheeks. That kind of time is the most fulfilling and unforgettable.
In the "National Southwest Associated University", people in their 90 s recall the past and what they worked hard at that time. War can't hinder the thirst for knowledge, and lack is no reason for laziness.
Therefore, everyone has his own "hard core" side, and neither the external environment nor the material itself can hinder a person who really wants to grow up. In the practice of growing up, the hard-core mentality of not giving yourself reasons can really bring you changes. Keep reading, keep writing, keep doing your best, and live every day well.
Keyword 2: Dare to be seen.
Zhang Xiaolong was a little excited when she changed WeChat to "see".
I've been thinking about this word for a long time. It reflects my thinking about the world and the people behind it. Whether it is social, business, media or action. Everyone is anxious about the traffic bonus, and everyone is saying that their growth has reached a bottleneck. But the world is so big, your customers and influence still have enough room to expand. You must find ways to make more people see and understand.
Returning to the individual, you may feel that you are a group of swift horses, but you often lament that Bole is not here and can't see this talent. In fact, first of all, you are not a swift horse at all, and secondly, you are submerged in the crowd, and there is no way to enter other people's sight.
When I am writing an article, I am often afraid to post it. I am afraid that people in my circle of friends will laugh at my poor writing, and I am afraid that my boss and colleagues will see me and say that I am not doing my duty. At this time, you need to think differently and tell yourself that this is not the case. I believe I need to be seen. Write it out, whether it's good or bad, and show it to my friends to see my thinking and growth. Work hard at work, and work harder to enrich yourself after work. Feedback will bring about the improvement of work.
And this courage to be seen may also bring new life opportunities.
Keywords: knowledge internalization
After reading so many books, I still have a hard time. This sentence can be said to be a portrayal of myself at this stage. Although I am reading and summarizing a lot, what is the use of this knowledge? Now I am very confused.
One question I have been thinking about is: Why do some people seize the opportunity, while others miss it all their lives? "Bonus" and "trend" are talked about every day, but there is no change in action? Finally, I found that what you understand is only a superficial and well-known concept. How to turn this knowledge and experience into a booster for your own growth and influence your choice and judgment is what needs to be considered.
Therefore, we should exercise our ability to internalize knowledge this year. Take the initiative to practice what you have learned and seen as much as possible and translate it into your own language and output.
Keywords: 4: community practice
"Socialization" and "personal IP" are common judgments about the future (in fact, these two points have existed since ancient times). Combining the knowledge internalization and active output mentioned above, I am also looking for a carrier for growth and progress, and the best carrier is to find a group of partners and build a community with the same ideas and values.
In this community, I hope to form a "hard-core growth" cognition, land some specific problems, and read some books systematically, such as: kevin kelly series, trout series, sociology, psychology, etc.
Hard core learning skills, data analysis, product methodology, operational thinking, etc. ;
Use solid actions and spiritual strength to influence the growth of club members. The most important thing is to meet better yourself and better partners on the road of growth.
Hard core growth, dare to be seen, knowledge internalization and community practice are the prospects of 20 19. God is a magician, creating the present society with a chain reaction caused by one small change after another. And I am also a magician of life, creating my present self with one concrete action after another, and then constantly achieving my life with my present integral.