Men are accustomed to cheating for these reasons

01. Emotional expert Guy once said: "Men are born to lie, and women are born to believe lies." Love cheating As a man, his life is naturally filled with lies one after another. And after being discovered, there are always a lot of reasons to make oneself excusable. In fact, men always flirt with women outside for the following reasons.

1. Lack of sense of responsibility

“Marriage means that both parties use their own resources to run a business and sign a contract. What they run is a family business, and what they sign is a lifetime wholesale futures contract. Contract." Although this is a bit unkind, it makes sense. In the eyes of men who lack a sense of responsibility, marriage is by no means a "lifelong wholesale" futures contract. Getting married may be a spur of the moment, or it may be a matter of scraping by, but in short, your own happiness must be the most important thing.

02. In the movie "The First Incense", the male protagonist Qiao Qi is a typical "lack of responsibility" person. Before the marriage, he perused Ge Weilong and said typical words of a scumbag such as "I can't give you marriage, but I can give you happiness." After marriage, he did not earn money to support his family. Instead, he used his wife's money to spend his time outside.

As everyone knows, marriage itself is a constraint. The contract has been signed, how can there be any reason to regret it easily? Therefore, women must keep their eyes open before marriage and never touch such irresponsible men.

2. Dissatisfaction with the status quo

There is another kind of infidelity, which is caused by the mentality of "not knowing the blessings when you are in the midst of blessings". There is a kind of man who obviously has a beautiful and virtuous wife, filial and lovely children, a good career, and a harmonious family, but he is not satisfied with the status quo and instead goes out to have an affair.

03. The most typical one is Xu Huanshan in "Thirty Only". Although he has an almost perfect wife Gu Jia by his side, he is still not satisfied with the status quo and finds a young mistress outside. Lin Youyou. During this process, Xu Huanshan complained to Lin Youyou: Gu Jia restricted his diet and prevented him from producing blue fireworks.

In fact, the reason for the restricted diet was because he had a moderate fatty liver, and the reason for stopping production was because of safety risks. All the things that were good for him turned into constraints and shackles in his eyes, typically not distinguishing between good and bad. Sometimes, "desire" is an endless abyss. Once you fall into it, you will be doomed.

Men whose desires are not easily filled often have perfect requirements for relationships, but there is no perfect partner in the world. Once you are not satisfied and dissatisfied with the status quo, you will engage in deviant behavior. I hope these people can understand that marriage requires tolerance and patience. The more good the other person is in your eyes, the more real happiness will be in your life.

04.3. Extremely vain

There is a saying: "Scumbag men are for sex, scumbags are for wealth." Many men who are easy to have relationships with others are extremely vain. There are countless beautiful women around him, not only to satisfy his own selfish desires, but also to prove to his brothers that he is attractive and rich. Bringing a young and beautiful female companion to the party seems to be showing off one's strength and status.

As everyone knows, this kind of concept is most ignorant and shallow. When watching "The Awakening Age", the love between Hu Shi and Jiang Dongxiu, Li Dazhao and Zhao Renlan was the most enviable. No matter what achievements Hu Shi and Li Dazhao have achieved and how much fame they have gained outside, they will never be secretive when it comes to their wives, let alone feel that they cannot take their wives with them. Even though their married wives were illiterate, they still gave each other 100% respect.

05. Rao Xueman once wrote: "Don't easily use the past to measure the happiness and misfortune of life. Everyone's life can bloom with beauty, as long as you cherish it." You must have eyes that are good at discovering beauty. , be good at discovering the good things in your partner, respect her, love her, and protect her, then life will be better.

Lin Yutang said: "If you live a wedding with love, there will be no failure. You should eat your wedding as food and love as a snack." All marriages cannot always be full of passion. Fullness and plainness are the essence of life.