People always learn less from flatness and more from hardships; The lessons learned from flatness are shallow, and the lessons learned from hardships are deep. A person who experiences hardships when he is young is a person worthy of admiration if he can see them correctly and rush out of the darkness. The most important thing is to practice internal skills first. The five years after graduation is the best time to practice internal skills. Only by practicing internal skills can we climb higher in the future.
where is the way out? The way out lies in thinking! !
In fact, no money, no experience, no experience and no social relations are not terrible. If you have no money, you can earn it through hard work; If you have no experience, you can summarize it through practical operation; Without experience, you can accumulate step by step; Without social relations, you can knit bit by bit. However, having no dreams and no ideas is the most terrible thing, which makes people feel scared and want to escape!
people must have a correct direction, no matter how high-spirited you are, no matter how resourceful you are, no matter how much effort you spend, if you don't have a clear direction, you will be at a loss, gradually lose your fighting spirit, forget your original dream, and take a detour or even never return, wasting your intelligence and missing your youth.
There is a wise saying in Homer's epic Odyssey: "Nothing is more unbearable than wandering aimlessly." Confusion in the first five years after graduating from college will cause panic 1 years later, struggle 2 years later, and even mediocrity for a lifetime. If we can't get out of the confusion and fog as soon as possible in the five years after graduation, we really have no face to face ourselves 1 or 2 years later.
In the five years since graduation, we have both many uncertainties and many possibilities.
In the five years since graduation, we have a lot to be determined and a lot of decisions.
Everyone will experience confusion and confusion, and everyone has experienced fear and escape, but don't take confusion and confusion as an excuse to give up on yourself and be content with mediocrity, let alone become a bitter wine of self-pity and mourning for disappointment. Life needs to be borne by yourself, and fate needs to be grasped by yourself. In the five years since graduation, the sooner you find your way and get out of your confusion, the easier it will be to achieve success and create wonderful things on the road of life. Headless flies will hit the wall when they can't find the direction; If a person can't find a way out, he will be confused and afraid.
In life, when faced with difficulties, we often feel cornered. Don't be discouraged, stick to it, and believe that there is no dead end in young life, with difficulties ahead and hope at the corner. As long as we have the right ideas, we will certainly be able to take fewer detours and find a way out!
successful people don't win at the starting point, but at the turning point. Many young people who have just graduated always expect to find their ideal job right away. However, many good jobs can't wait. You must choose a job as experience. The first job in the career journey is undoubtedly the starting point of entering the university of society. Maybe you have found a unsatisfactory job, so start from here, settle yourself well, and learn valuable nutrition from this job. A journey of a thousand miles begins with a single step. As long as you set out, there is hope to reach the end.
the starting point can be the same, but if you choose different inflection points, the ending point will be very different!
In the past few years after graduation, there are many uncertain factors in our life, feelings and careers, and the future is full of possibilities. At this time, we must learn to choose, know how to give up, give ourselves a clear position and stabilize ourselves. If you don't take the initiative to position yourself, you will be "stereotyped" by others and society!
It can be said that a person's behavior habits cultivated in the five years after graduation will determine the height of his life. Whether we can succeed or not depends on our evaluation of ourselves to some extent, which is positioning. You are what you define yourself to be. Positioning can determine life, and positioning can change fate. The ugly duckling turns into a white swan, just a pair of wings; Cinderella becomes a beautiful princess, just a pair of water crystal shoes.
people's fate is determined in three minutes, and seven minutes depends on hard work. If you dream, you will be "red", and if you love to fight, you will win. As long as you don't bind yourself in the cage of your heart, no one can bind you to fly high.
the reality is far from what they think. Therefore, when the sense of superiority gradually turns into a sense of loss or even frustration, when you firmly believe that you are a piece of "gold" to doubt that you are a grain of "sand", anger, confusion and inferiority begin to increase day by day.
Actually, you should weigh yourself carefully. Are you really gold? It's real gold. You have to have unique skills in your hands to be outstanding in the world. Bottom line: Real gold depends on strength to prove it. Only when you have cultivated your skills first can you be qualified to consider Bole.
every pearl is originally a grain of sand, but not every grain of sand can become a pearl.
if you want to stand out from the crowd, you must have the capital to stand out from the crowd. Can't stand blows and setbacks, can't stand neglect and dullness, and it's hard to achieve brilliance. If young people want to be reused and succeed, they must turn themselves from a grain of sand into a priceless pearl.
The weather has rain and sunrise, and life has peaks and valleys. Don't cover your eyes with floating clouds, you should keep an eye on the scenery. As long as the haze is brushed away, the clear sky will shine. If you are not satisfied with your work, you should believe that you will not be at the bottom of your life all the time, and you will be able to break through the clouds one day. Tell yourself: I have not failed, but I have not succeeded for the time being! As long as you light a lamp of hope in your heart, you will surely dispel the haze in the darkness and usher in the light.
Indeed, as far as qualifications are concerned, they are out-and-out novices in the workplace. Their business is not deep, their contacts are poor, and they often run into a wall at work. Their pressure is not necessarily like a fateful stone, but like the sky before the heavy rain. It is dark and gray, and there is room, but every gap is filled with gray, and they can only wait for the clear sky after the heavy rain.
"Get up earlier than chickens, go to bed later than dogs, do more than donkeys and eat worse than pigs." This is what many recent graduates like to use to tease their living conditions. Although it is a bit exaggerated, many of them have always been shrouded in a gray mood-their hearts are always cloudy and cloudy. I remember a philosopher once said, "Our pain is not caused by the problems themselves, but by our views on these problems." Looking at life from another angle, life is a kind of breakthrough, a kind of liberation, a kind of transcendence, a kind of high-level indifference and tranquility, so as to obtain free happiness.
A philosopher said, "Life is a series of choices. Everyone's future and destiny are entirely in their own hands. As long as they work hard, they will eventually succeed." Whether it's getting a job, choosing a job or starting a business, as long as you work hard, you will succeed. Are you going to give all the promises of your life to others?
The five years after graduation are the golden age to change your destiny. When you can best decide your own destiny, if you are not sure, when will you wait? I am in charge of my life, and my fate is beyond my control.
One should not live in other people's mouths or eyes, but hold one's destiny in one's own hands.
don't say you have no background, you are the biggest background. Jack Kerouac, an American writer, once said, "I am still young, and I am eager to get on the road." In the journey of life, we will always be young people and should be full of longing every day. Everyone's potential is unlimited. The key is to discover their potential and correctly understand their talents, and find a stage where they can give full play to their potential, instead of just being unhappy about the inappropriateness of the stage. We should treat our abilities objectively and fairly, choose calmly according to our actual situation and hobbies, and go to the place that needs us most and suits us best as far as possible.
In the field of human resources management, there is a particularly popular saying, that is, the theory of "riding a horse, pulling cattle, driving pigs and beating dogs": the one with good character and strong ability is a swift horse, and we should ride him; The person with good character but ordinary ability is an ox, and we should hold him; The "pig", whose character and ability are ordinary, should be driven away. Those with poor character and strong ability are "dogs", and we should crack down on them.
I think, just a few years after graduation, you are equally ambitious and want to be a swift horse that is appreciated and galloped on the battlefield. Then, let it settle down. Being low is not equal to being inferior. Today's condescension is for tomorrow's job. The value of life means that our existence is valuable to others. It's a good thing to be used, but it's really sad that nobody cares!