My husband is also of this type, but perhaps his self-discipline has something to do with my "help", so far so good.

He is a family-oriented man. Although he is inferior to me in work and salary, he is indeed more patient and careful than me in housework and children.

This may be that a pair is always mutual and complement each other.

I first met him because he was cautious and took care of me. He is also the kind of person who doesn't want to make progress, doesn't make public his personality and is content with the status quo.

Work for two years, get a promotion and raise. He has worked for two years and is still a little white. I got a promotion and salary increase after five years of work, and he got a promotion for five years, and his salary was only half of mine.

I have also considered whether it is right or wrong to marry such a man ... He also plays games and reads online novels ... He likes to immerse himself in his own world ... He is frugal and should speak better than me ... but I always feel that this kind of life is not what I want. I want a deceitful, passionate, romantic, enterprising and meticulous person who does housework ... too far. Imagine that. How many men can resist the temptation of colorful outside?

For him, it is better to play games and read novels at home than to work overtime every day, go out to socialize and have fun. At least I can see him after work every day. Although he doesn't look at you but at the computer ... I hope you can change it for him ... let him play some stand-alone games (not online) ... As for novels, you can change his money values. If you have time to read novels, can you study some stock futures that can create wealth for your family?

I enrolled my husband in an MBA class, and the tuition is very expensive, because I know he is very economical (of course, he is not stingy), so he is also working hard now, trying not to waste nearly 50 thousand tuition. ...

I often "educate" him, of course, don't even yell and scold ... Look at the company, people who are much younger than you earn more jobs than you, and their positions are similar to yours. If you don't work hard, can you still do this in three to five years? In fact, more encouragement every day is better than scolding every day.

In fact, there is really no effective specific medicine to treat such people. ...

Such a man is always thinking, I just have a bad chance, and the time has not yet arrived. As long as the opportunity comes, at that time, I am better than anyone. Or maybe they are waiting for a million dollars to fall from the sky ... Let's just say that men mature slowly.

You want him to work hard ... how to work hard ... Tell him clearly that you should pay more attention to your work, children and family ... Computer game novels can only bring you unrealistic dreams ... If you don't work hard, the boss will be sad.

Your strength and perseverance will give him pressure ... The way he escapes from pressure is to escape from reality and immerse himself in unreality ... Let him know that you care about him, that your happiness is for you, and that he is the pillar of the family ... A woman needs the care and help of her lover, no matter how strong she is. ...

I don't know if you have seen a set of acacia. Can you say that "Kang Kai" is not a good person just because he is not motivated? The definition of a good man is too broad, depending on what kind of life you want ... Men have money, 10 Nine of them are not good at school, which is not unreasonable.

In that case, suit the remedy to the case ... as long as he loves you.