Breaking up is really hard to say, but the person who will leave you when you are in trouble is probably not a good bird. I sincerely hope that you can find a better girl to marry in the future. As for the spot loss, have you ever thought that you can recover the loss through litigation? According to my understanding and research, the so-called spot investment, with the same trading mode and characteristics as futures, basically belongs to illegal futures trading, and can be used as a cause of action to ask for a judgment to confirm that the contract is invalid. However, the litigation process is more complicated, and the other party is a big company, so it is inevitable to hire a lawyer to respond to the lawsuit, so it is better to hire a professional lawyer to handle it.

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