Topic: female

Question: Hello, Teacher Leng Ai. I can't see any hope for marriage now. My husband is a person who borrows money to speculate in futures, and is also violent and often self-mutilated.

last year, he agreed to divorce. At that time, I met a divorced man. His wife cheated on him. He had a son. At first, he was very kind to me and said that he would marry me when I got divorced. At that time, I said we should start with lovers.

I am very kind to him. I and my children are reluctant to spend money, so I saved it to buy clothes for him. He is also very kind to me. As soon as I get angry, he runs back from other places to see me.

cold love reply:

first of all, I want to popularize science: I want to do a non-invasive paternity test in the early fetus, and the result is unreliable. Because so far there is no mature way to identify the blood relationship in the early fetus. This is what I want to say to all readers. Don't be fooled by online advertisements.

Secondly, in this case, you said yourself that the lover doesn't care about the child. Even if you have a paternity test, what can you do? If you just want to tie this man up by giving birth, you can only say that your child is very sad, and it is impossible to have any good results.

Let me help you sort out the current situation. You need to understand the relationship in three aspects:

First, the relationship between you and your husband. Anyway, you and your husband are still legally married at present. I suggest that you don't consider other relationships until you reach an agreement with your husband. Otherwise, you will put yourself in a very passive situation.