We all have this similar experience. Parents often say, "It's all for your own good." Having said that, things are often not really good for you. Of course I can understand my parents. I understand that their starting point is good, but the way is wrong.

But the question is, do parents really know what their children want to do and like?

In fact, parents' so-called "good for you" is only what they think is "good" and may not really be suitable for children. Often this "for your own good" is still compulsive, and gradually it becomes "if you don't do it, it won't be good." Children are helpless and often give in to their parents' opinions.

Parents are happy, but children are uncomfortable. In the face of choices you don't like, you won't do it willingly. After a long time, no matter how good things are, if you don't like them, you won't do them well.

When the result did not reach the "good" expected by parents, all kinds of nagging began to continue. At this time, if the child chooses to refute, the parents will definitely give a sentence: "You don't like it. Why do you have to choose this? We're just expressing our opinions. You are so old that you don't even know what you think. Now I know I can't. What did I do at first? I will blame my parents! "

Of course, I know that my parents really want to be good for me, but I really hope that I can make some decisions within my ability.