Personality is formed and developed in the process of human activities and the interaction between subject and object. Various influences of objective things are preserved and fixed in the individual's reflection mechanism through the subject's cognitive, emotional and will activities, forming a certain attitude system, which is expressed in the individual's behavior in a certain form, forming an individual's unique behavior pattern. A person's character is not formed overnight, but once it is formed, it is relatively stable and runs through all his actions. Therefore, an individual's occasional performance can not be regarded as his personality characteristics, but only his regular and habitual performance can be regarded as his personality characteristics. Personality is stable, but it is not immutable. It is formed in the process of interaction between subject and object, and changes slowly in the process of interaction between subject and object. It can also be said that the environment affects personality.
Personality is a core psychological feature of personality, which can best express a person's personality differences. Personality in daily life mainly refers to a person's personality. Writers always capture a person's most essential personality characteristics as a typical description, and show very vivid and vivid characters to readers. Readers feel that this is a vivid, vivid and lifelike figure. For example, Liu Bei, Guan Yu and Zhang Fei in Luo Guanzhong's works, Hamlet in Robinho's works and Jia Baoyu in Cao Xueqin's works are all typical figures created by the author through grasping and visualizing their personality characteristics. Personality is always associated with personal consciousness tendency and personal world outlook, which embodies a person's essential attributes. People's personality is related to people's moral evaluation, which has social historicity and class color in class society.
Psychologists have found that bad personality combination is an important reason for failure in life, but personality is not only a natural and genetic factor, but also can be carved by the acquired environment, so personality itself can grow. Just as a good temper can be cultivated slowly, a habit needs unremitting cultivation. People with personality defects will encounter all kinds of obstacles in their career, such as self-confidence, impatience, overconfidence, paranoia, like not being good at summarizing and always making the same mistakes, or easily denying that they can't find their own coordinates, and so on. As far as the author is concerned, I inadvertently developed a very casual, sometimes stubborn, sometimes indecisive character, which made me pay a lot of tuition fees in my ten-year futures investment career. Character can indeed be cultivated. Using discipline to regulate behavior can form habits and reshape personality. Over the years, the author has constantly standardized his trading behavior and occasionally made some mistakes caused by his personality. After a profound summary and reflection, I found myself one step closer to success after ten years.
□ Personality characteristics
Personality is a very complex composition, which includes all aspects and has various characteristics. The characteristics of personality refer to the characteristics of different aspects of personality, which are generally analyzed according to the following four components.
△ Attitude characteristics of personality
The characteristics of people's attitude system towards reality are an important part of personality characteristics.
People's attitudes towards objective reality are varied. The personality characteristics in this respect are mainly the personality characteristics in psychological and social relations, that is, the relationship between individuals and society, the relationship between individuals and collectives, the relationship between individuals and their attitudes towards themselves.
(1) Personality characteristics of attitude towards society, the collective and others.
Personality characteristics belonging to this aspect mainly include: forgetting public interests or pretending to serve private interests; Loyalty or half-heartedness; Good at communication or withdrawn; Love the collective or selfish; Polite or rude; Integrity or hypocrisy, sympathy or ruthlessness, etc.
⑵ Personality characteristics of attitude towards work and study.
Personality characteristics belonging to this aspect mainly include: diligence or laziness; Seriously or carelessly; Careful or careless; Innovation is still a rut; Thrift or waste, etc.
(3) Personality characteristics of attitude towards oneself.
Personality characteristics belonging to this aspect are: self-esteem or inferiority; Modesty or pride; Either be strict with yourself or keep yourself waiting.
△ Will characteristics of personality
A person's behavior often reflects the will characteristics of personality. Will is another important part of personality. The will of personality refers to the personality characteristics of people in the way and level of consciously regulating their own behavior.
(1) The characteristic of clear purpose.
The characteristics of this aspect mainly include: certainty or blindness; Independent or susceptible; A disciplined or lax wait.
⑵ Characteristics of control level of behavior consciousness
The characteristics of this aspect mainly include: active or passive; Self-control or lack of self-control and impulse to wait.
(3) the characteristics of long-term work.
The characteristics of this aspect mainly include: persistence or changing ideas; Tough or anticlimactic waiting.
(4) the characteristics shown in an emergency or difficult situation.
The characteristics of this aspect mainly include: courage or cowardice; Calm or flustered; Decisively waiting or hesitating.
△ Emotional characteristics of personality
The characteristic of a person's stable and frequent performance is the emotional characteristics of his personality. The emotional characteristics of personality include the intensity, stability, persistence and dominant emotion of emotional activities.
(1) the intensity characteristics of emotional activities
The intensity of emotional activities is manifested in the degree to which individuals are influenced by emotions and the degree to which emotions are controlled by will. For example, some people have weak emotional experience and are easy to control with will, while others have strong emotional experience and are difficult to control with will.
⑵ Stability characteristics of emotional activities
The stability of emotional activities is manifested in the degree of emotional ups and downs and fluctuations. For example, some people are calmer and easier to control their emotions; Some people are impulsive and it is difficult to control their emotions.
(3) The persistent characteristics of emotional activities
The persistence of emotional activities refers to the persistence of individual emotions. For example, some people's emotional activities last for a long time, which has a far-reaching impact on work and study; Some people's emotional activities last for a short time, which has little effect on work and study.
⑷ Dominant emotional characteristics
The characteristics of dominant emotions refer to the degree to which different dominant emotions are expressed in a person.
For example, the dominant emotions are expressed in various forms, some people are often happy, and some people are often sad; Some people are dominated by dominant emotions for a long time (the stability of dominant emotions is great); Some people are dominated by dominant emotions for a short time (the stability of dominant emotions is small).
△ Rational characteristics of personality
The rational sacrifice of personality refers to the personality characteristics of people in the process of cognition, the difference of people's cognitive level is called the ability characteristics, and the characteristics and styles of people's cognitive activities are called the rational characteristics of personality.
(1) Personality characteristics in perception.
Individual differences in human perception can be divided into: active observation type (not easily disturbed by environmental stimuli) and passive perception type (easily disturbed by environmental stimuli); Luo Ji type (paying attention to details) and generalization type (paying more attention to the generality and outline of things); Record type and interpretation type; Fast and accurate, and so on.
⑵ Personality characteristics in memory.
Individual differences in human memory can be divided into: active memory type and passive memory type; Intuitive image memory type and Luo Ji thinking memory type; There are fast and slow memorization; There are differences in retention and so on.
(3) Personality differences in imagination.
Individual differences in imagination can be divided into: active imagination and passive imagination; Fantasy and reality; Dare to imagine, imagine being blocked, imagine being broad, and so on. Research shows that the number of creative and re-creative factors in the process of imagination is often the characteristic of "independence" or "dependence" that reflects a person's personality.
(4) Personality differences in thinking.
People's personality differences in thinking can be divided into: independent type and dependent type; Analytical and comprehensive, and so on. The above characteristics of personality are not isolated, but interrelated and combined into a unique unity in individuals, thus forming a personality different from others. Among the above four aspects of personality characteristics, attitude characteristics and will characteristics of personality are the most important two aspects. Among them, the attitude of personality is more important, which directly reflects a person's unique and stable tendency to things, and also reflects a person's essential attributes and world outlook.
Personality is not only good and bad, but also changeable.
-Cultivating a good character is of great significance to oneself and the collective. A person with self-control, initiative, determination and perseverance can arrange his life and work well, face up to reality, overcome difficulties and succeed in his career. On the contrary, if you lack a good personality, it will affect your work, study and life.
Introverts are not good at interpersonal communication. If you are not enthusiastic about others, others will be indifferent to you, and will alienate you over time, which will often affect their work, life and study, and even their mental health.
Extroverts are not. They generally like communication, communication and enthusiasm, and others also like to deal with extroverts. Of course, this is not to say that introverted personality is not good, but extroverted personality is good. We think they have their own advantages and disadvantages and should be treated correctly.
The law of success and the motto of life in the second quarter
○ Personality will directly affect a person's success.
○ Character is fate.
○ A momentary mistake won't ruin a person with a strong character. (Chernyshevski)
○ Perseverance can open the stone. (Xun Kuang)
○ Introverts are just appearances, and the essence behind them is that they lack self-confidence, courage, poor communication and thin skin, etc., while introverts are just externalized forms of these problems, and their core is inferiority. Therefore, only introverts who lack self-confidence will hold a negative attitude towards their introversion. In other words, their denial of their introversion is essentially a denial of themselves.
Section 3 Methods and Countermeasures
First, how to change bad personality
● Correct cognitive bias. Due to the influence of bad environment or the education and influence of people with bad personality, people have wrong cognition, such as thinking that there are many bad people and few good people in this world; When dealing with people, we must guard against people's three points; Suspicious; Treat the belly of a gentleman with the heart of a villain. Such people are generally narrow-minded, jealous, suspicious, eccentric, indifferent and lacking in sense of responsibility. Therefore, if you want to change these, you must change your incorrect cognition. You can take part in more meaningful group activities, fully experience life, read more progressive books and biographies of great men and philosophers, and see their successful history and ways of dealing with people, which will help to change your personality.
● Don't always look at others with black eyes. A person who is deceived or frustrated.