People must learn to be self-reliant

Mr. Ibsen once said: "The strongest people in the world are the strongest people." Yes, because only independent individuals can make a difference. , only a self-reliant country will not be bullied and achieve prosperity. Mr. Tao Xingzhi also said: "Weeping one's own sweat, eating one's own food, relying on others, relying on heaven and ancestors, is not a true man." These undoubtedly illustrate that people must learn to be self-reliant, and more importantly, know how to be self-reliant. Because one day we will grow up and many things will have to be solved and faced by ourselves. We cannot rely on others for everything, because those who do not know how to be independent will be eliminated by society. According to reports: A mother in Jinan, Shandong Province, once lost her son on the street. The mother searched for a long time before finding him. She looked at her son and said, "Mom won't let you go out even if you are here." From then on, her son could not go to school. He could only eat and wash his face in bed. He was not allowed to do anything. Now her son is in his 30s, but his intelligence is still that of a 7-year-old child and he cannot stand on his own. This report undoubtedly illustrates a problem: people must learn to be self-reliant.

Zhang Wentian is a senior cadre of the party, but he is very strict with his son's education and does not want his son to develop vanity and dependence because of his father's status. Even after his death, he handed over the 40,000 yuan in his will to the party organization as party dues, without giving any cent to his son. Because he understands that letting children learn to be independent is the best legacy. Self-reliance also puts the country on the path to prosperity and strength. The war broke out in 2000, and China fell into a semi-colonial and semi-feudal society. Due to the incompetence of the Qing Dynasty, a series of treaties were signed that robbed the country of power and humiliated the country. However, these did not defeat the independent China. It was finally completed on October 1, 2015. The chairman said in the square: "China Stands Get up!" From now on, China can proudly stand on its own as a member of the world's nations.

From an individual to a country, self-reliance is a strong backing. Young people, come out of your greenhouse, because you will never grow up in a greenhouse. Only when you learn to be self-reliant and understand self-reliance can you become a country. The pillar of talent!

Self-reliance is the meaning

My parents are going to Heyuan for a business trip these days, so they have to stay at my grandma’s house for two nights. ah! Two nights? This is not easy to endure! But if I don’t go to grandma’s house but go to another house, alas! It’s better to listen to the “imperial edict”!

On the way to my grandma’s house, I was filled with doubts. What if I can't sleep at night? Who will do my laundry? Only grandma and I are left, how do we spend the day? At this time, I couldn't stop shouting "Wow" and threw myself into the arms of my parents and cried. My parents kept comforting me and said a lot of truths.

Soon I arrived at grandma’s house. I hugged my parents, picked up the salute and ran to the door of grandma’s house. When I entered, I said hello to my grandma and went up to the second floor to take a shower. In order to go to sleep quickly, I read and did homework, but I still didn't feel sleepy. I ran from the second floor to the fourth floor, and from the fourth floor to the second floor, but not only did I not feel sleepy at all, but the more I ran, the more sleepy I felt. The more energetic. What to do? What to do? Ah yes! Why didn't I think of that? I threw myself to the side, expertly at home. ah! Got it. "Hello?" A sweet voice came out. "Mom! I miss you so much! Why can't I sleep? Please teach me how to sleep!" I cried. "Little fool! Why can't you fall asleep? As long as you think about your parents and your happiest scene, you'll fall asleep," said my mother. "Okay, I just have to give it a try. Good night, mom!" I hung up, brushed my teeth, washed my face, walked into my second brother's room, turned off the light, lay on the bed, closed my eyes, and slowly I fell asleep, thinking about the scene when my classmates celebrated my birthday during the third-year report meeting. How happy I was at that time! Also when traveling, when we went to play with skyscrapers together, everyone was very scared, haha! How timid they are... Suddenly, the light came on. It turned out to be the eldest aunt. Was she sleeping too? What if I can't sleep? I became anxious and became energetic, driving away all the drowsiness I had just felt. My eldest aunt said to me, "Yin, I turned off the light." I said with tears, "Oh!" The corners of my eyes slid down and the pillow was wet. Later, I remembered that my second brother would be back tomorrow, and I said "hee" and laughed. Finally, after my "hard work" I finally entered a sweet dream.

In the morning, a ray of sunshine came through the window. I wiped my eyes and got up. When I recall what happened last night when I cried, I also feel ashamed. As the saying goes, "How can you get the fragrance of plum blossoms without being chilled to the bone?" Oh, what an interesting sleepless night!

Self-reliance

There is a child whose parents dote on him in every possible way. He is the lifeblood of his father, his mother's treasure, and the little emperor of the whole family. He stretched out his hand from the robe and opened his mouth from the meal. He didn't know what it was and didn't pay attention to it.

In fact, when he was a child, he was taught by his teacher. When he came home, he often took the initiative to "apply" to his parents for help with cleaning. Unfortunately, his parents always answered him with the same words: "I know you are a good boy, but doing housework has always been difficult." It's done by adults. The most important thing for children is to study hard. You don't have to worry about these things!" As time goes by, the child no longer has the enthusiasm to help with housework, and becomes more and more dependent on his parents, even where his pants are. He didn't know that, of course, when he was little, he couldn't tie his shoelaces, so his mother gave her a pair of shoes without laces. When he grew up and went to work, his father used his prestige to pave the way for the child. He never wanted to rely on his father to find a job, but he didn't dare because he had no self-confidence. Therefore, he always relied on his parents and lacked sex. The so-called dependence is a stumbling block in cultivating self-esteem and self-confidence. How could he get out of his own bed? a path?

On the contrary, some parents cultivate their children to be independent from an early age, to do their own things by themselves, to help fetch the dishes and chopsticks before eating, and to help clear the dishes and chopsticks after the meal. They are strong-willed, independent-minded, perseverant, and willful. Strength cannot be cultivated overnight. When he was learning to walk as a child, he was swaying here and there. He accidentally fell down and was in terrible pain. Of course, he ignored "Three Seven Twenty One" and cried loudly. One game. However, the parents standing aside turned a blind eye and turned a deaf ear. They neither ran over to help him up or comforted him immediately nor said anything, but remained motionless. Don't think that they are indifferent. They are more nervous and distressed than anyone else. But they were waiting, waiting for their sweetheart to stand up again on his own strength. In this way, the child slowly stood up and moved forward step by step. When encountering setbacks, he remained unyielding and finally reached the pinnacle of success.

From the examples of these two children, we can see that people who are not independent will always suffer more than those who are independent. Because they are accustomed to relying on others, they completely lose their opinions, cannot make decisions on the spot, do not have the courage and confidence to seize the opportunity, and let the once-in-a-lifetime opportunities go to waste. How can they succeed? Only self-reliant people have the courage to go out on their own. Climb to the top of victory and see the sea beyond the mountain!

I can stand on my own

Everyone will encounter difficulties, but these difficulties will give us a good training, and after training, we will mature. , learn to be self-reliant.

My parents are working in other places, and I live with my elderly grandmother. Because my grandma is older, I always do what I can to reduce her burden. Now I can do many things, wash dishes, sweep the floor, cook, I can do everything.

In fact, we should all do what we can do and become self-reliant and self-reliant people.

Let us become self-reliant

I recently read "The Adventures of Hal Roger" and I couldn't calm down for a long time. This book tells the story of Hal and Roger who went to the sea to find pearls, but were abandoned on a treeless, grassless, and uninhabited island. But they did not despair. They took care of themselves on the uninhabited island and kept looking for ways to survive. Finally, they returned to land in a boat made of fish skin. They can work hard to survive on a small, uninhabited island. In comparison, our life is so perfect and happy. What would happen if we were abandoned on the island? I thought I would starve to death or die of thirst.

Now let me not talk about life and death, but in life, what will happen to us? Thinking of this, I felt a sense of shame in my heart. I remember one day when my parents were on a business trip, all I cooked for myself was egg fried rice, and I had to pour a lot of soy sauce on it to make it delicious! Compared with Hal and Roger, it can be said that they pale into insignificance.

As Mr. Tao Xingzhi said: "If you sweat your own sweat, eat your own food, do your own things, rely on people, heaven and ancestors, you are not considered a hero." The path of life is always It is full of twists and turns and will not be smooth sailing. When a person has the spirit of self-improvement and self-reliance, he will have the courage to overcome difficulties, keep the fire of his life burning, and be able to meet the challenges of life!

It is conceivable that if we do not seriously learn bottom-up skills when we are born now, what will happen if we encounter any accidents when we grow up? There are materials for you to learn now, but what will happen if there are no materials in the future?

In order for us not to lose the instinct of survival and to enable us to live on our own, let us develop the good habit of self-reliance from an early age!

Self-strengthening and self-reliance

“The heavens move vigorously, and a gentleman relies on self-improvement to continuously stand on his own. Be self-reliant and self-reliant.

When I was young, I always loved to act coquettishly in front of my parents, and often said to them: "Mom and dad, I will always be the little baby in your arms who will never grow up." At that time, no matter what little things in life, Dad didn't take care of it all. As time went on, I opened wider. You can’t rely entirely on your parents for the little things in your daily life. I should learn to take care of myself so that I can stand alone in society, adapt to society, and integrate into society.

In turn, Teachers’ Day is here. Teacher Xiao, the leader of the school brigade, emphasized: “Each class will complete the “Teachers’ Day” blackboard report as soon as possible and come to check it in the afternoon.

"I am the squadron leader of the class, and I am in charge of the blackboard newspaper. However, our "blackboard newspaper" - Lu Hongqiao, asked for leave. I was anxious after hearing the news. At this time, Teacher Zhang came over He said to me: "You will be in charge of the blackboard report this time, okay?" "I had no choice but to agree and said reluctantly: "Okay. ’ After school, I was alone in the teacher’s office making a blackboard newspaper. I couldn’t write anything or draw anything. I also asked to the blackboard: "What should I do?" Suddenly, my eyes lit up. "Yes." I was pleasantly surprised and wrote on the blackboard the words "Practical action to repay teacher's kindness". In the afternoon, the students read the blackboard newspaper I made and they all talked about it. At this time, Teacher Xiao also came to check my Blackboard newspaper. After reading the blackboard newspaper I ran, he called me out and said, "Why did you only write a few words?" "I said: "We must use practical actions to repay the teacher's training for us. Teacher Xiao listened to my words: "Be creative, be creative."

People should be self-reliant and never be contaminated by the dirt of society. People should strengthen themselves and never let themselves become the laughing stock of others. Only by self-reliance can we become truly perfect people.

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