If you don't solve some problems now, you'll be out of luck if you delay them later. It will not only harm you, but also harm the children. It doesn't matter if a woman is ignorant, but ignorance will show off her wealth and treat herself as a futures, so she is not a person worth pursuing. The more you care about her, the higher the value of her material desires, and the more she demands of you. When you couldn't give it to her, she ran away. Or confront you every day.