Middle-aged women in marriage have no right to be melodramatic. Her husband already knows your character. As soon as you open your mouth, he will know what you want to do, either pretending not to understand or avoiding people's eyes and ears, making women live in an island, and loneliness is inseparable.
When I am busy, I really want to be lonely, but in the dead of night, I also want someone to talk to me about my confidence. My husband around me is either playing games or brushing beautiful women on some software. He has no time to listen to what you say, and he doesn't even pretend to be perfunctory.
WeChat chat gives lonely women an outlet. As long as you want to chat, you can talk to someone, provided you are willing.
People, all have dependence. If you talk too much, something will happen. If you don't know how to avoid suspicion, you may misunderstand men and get yourself into trouble.
Late at night is like a hotbed of ambiguity, which makes some people tear off their masks, expose their desires and give them black camouflage.
No matter how good the heterosexual relationship is, we must abide by some boundaries. Middle-aged women, if they don't want to get involved with other opposite sex, don't talk to other men in the middle of the night, because relationships tend to deteriorate.
Middle-aged women, don't send this to the opposite sex late at night? Information? Can't afford the consequences.
One: Talk to a married man about his loneliness.
Whether married or not, women should stay away from married men. Late at night is a relatively private personal time. If you talk to a married man, it will inevitably make him think you are implying something.
Shu's daughter-in-law chats with her mobile phone every night and laughs when she is happy. When she was happy, she attracted the attention of sighing. Only by reading the chat records can she know that her daughter-in-law is chatting with a married man, and the way of speaking has already surpassed the ordinary relationship between men and women, which makes him very unhappy.
Although the daughter-in-law later admitted that she was just chatting and didn't do anything special, in his view, the daughter-in-law just didn't look like a woman. He said that she would divorce if she was found again.
A woman may think that chatting is nothing, so put yourself in the other person's shoes. If a woman always chats with your husband in the middle of the night, can you accept it?
Middle-aged women should not talk to married men, they are other people's husbands. If you don't do it well, it will make each other's families unsafe, their marriages unstable and prone to problems.
Two: Don't talk about family privacy with strangers casually.
The friends I met online, commonly known as netizens, were all facilitated by WeChat chat tools. If you want to talk to someone, you can always find them.
Some women, if they are not taken care of at home, will seek sustenance online, perhaps to find a way to relieve their depression or to prove their charm, which is often unclear.
When a woman tells her grievances, it is inevitable that she will reveal all her husband's problems. In addition to making strangers laugh and laugh, it will also reveal family privacy.
In case you are unlucky enough to meet a liar, you will be cheated of money in addition to being cheated. Anything you say may be used as a handle for him to blackmail you.
A smart woman, even if she wants to talk to another person, won't go to a stranger. If you want to chat, you can go to the sisters you know, and let's spit together. There is no need to take it to heart, and there is no need to worry about being cheated.
Three: Don't chat with your ex.
When people reach middle age, if they are unhappy, women will inevitably regret it a little. They think that the predecessor they missed at the beginning has many advantages, and they will want to know how he is doing now, and whether he will be in the same situation as himself.
In fact, this is a kind of psychology that you will be sour if you don't eat grapes. If you get married, you may not be as good as you are now. I feel good about my ex and want to chat with him because I am unhappy. Comparing the advantages of my predecessor with the disadvantages of my husband, I think my predecessor is better.
When you contact and talk with your predecessor, you will find that some things have been missed, and it is impossible to go back to the original point and there is no chance to start again.
Chatting with the ex is unfair to the incumbent. After being discovered, no man can love you. Even if there is really nothing between you, men will think that you have not let go of your ex.
Besides, your ex is doing well, and you will be even more unhappy. Will I tell you easily when I have met something bad before, and I will cater to you deliberately unless I want to have something to do with you.
Don't chat with your ex late at night, it will make your marriage in crisis, and smart people won't do this.
At night, it is the loneliest time for a person. If you have something to say, you can go to your close friends, and don't get in touch with other members of the opposite sex, which will leave a bad impression on others. In addition to belittling you and pandering to you, others can't give you the comfort you want, nor can they solve your real inner needs.
When you become dependent on another opposite sex, you may talk about your feelings and create a crisis for your marriage.
In this world, there are no fairy tales, no princes and no Cinderella. What kind of life do you want? You have to work hard on your own. You can't get what you want just by chatting with other men.