This is the first article I wrote. I have experienced many things and met many people, but I don't know where to start. First of all, I want to talk about a recent annoyance: a friend broke up with him.
I come from a remote village. I have a cousin and high school classmate, temporarily named A, who used to be very good friends. I used to be a computer idiot. He taught me how to use it. Of course, he plays games on the computer and I watch TV on the computer. After graduating from high school and going to college, he repeated his studies for a year. By the time he goes to college, I will be a sophomore in the same city. I admit, we usually have little contact. He has never seen me in the future. I said I was going to see him, but he said he didn't have time. I met him online occasionally. Time slowly arrived in June of the second semester of my sophomore year. I went out as an intern and stayed at school for nine months. At this time, I am a junior. This year's work is busy, the work is not smooth, and I usually neglect to contact. Until the beginning of this year, I visited his school once, which was the first time after I graduated from high school. We talked about our experiences and plans, and then went to work.
The income from a job I did this year was ok, and I also saved some money. A hasn't graduated yet, but he owes a lot of debts. In the second half of this year, he became a senior. He borrowed money from me three times this year, which really disappointed me three times. So far, my friends are exhausted. The first time was in July, he came to me on WeChat and said he had no money. I transferred it to him without asking anything 1000. He said he would pay me back next month. There have been some problems in the past two months during the summer vacation. I lent money to a colleague who resigned, and most of the money I promised has not been paid back yet. In August, I asked A on WeChat a few days in advance and said it was 15, so I can pay back the money this month. As a result, he paid so little money in one sentence that relatives should not pay back the money before the time. I mentioned it then. As a result, he got paid, and I asked if I could pay back the money. He was angry with me. Say how stingy and desperate I am, just a few hundred dollars. At that time, I said it was a question of honesty, but he insisted that we were relatives and should not keep paying back the money like this. If we do, we will pay it back. But I only asked twice if I could pay back the money, which made me very uncomfortable. But I always feel that, after all, they are relatives and classmates. If I don't want to break up, I don't care. He returned the last thousand dollars to me in September. Time is up to165438+1October, he borrowed money from me on wechat, 3000 yuan, and I transferred it to him the next morning. However, he agreed to pay back the money again, until our second meeting. During this time, he said he was poor, and I also told him my job and salary, and he wanted to do it. The problem is that I don't want to do my present job and want to change companies. If I bring him to my present company and he complains about me if he doesn't do well, or I resign, it will be boring. Finally, I introduced him to a job at the end of the month, that is, the company that lent me money before and didn't pay it back. Two days before the end of the month, I lent him 1500 again, and he said to pay me back next Monday. As a result, in February 1, he entered the company I introduced and didn't pay back the money. Later, I met him once in mid-June+February, 5438, and I didn't urge him to pay back the money. I just talked about the situation. I found that he lent me money to buy futures, and there were only a few hundred dollars left in the total of 5000. As a result, my money has not been paid for the time being. I can't say anything about him. I got to know his company and his former colleague who lent me money like him and didn't pay me back. In February, 65438, he settled the bill in that company and paid me back several hundred dollars.
However, what I didn't expect was that what he said in the message sent by his circle of friends was really chilling. He advised everyone not to believe what their friends said easily, and to enter the other party's industry, saying that there was a pit, and the other party listed itself as one of the sales targets. When I saw it, I left a message asking him if he meant me, but he didn't reply. So I don't pay much attention to him. As a result, I didn't urge him to pay back the money until 17/month. He sent me a message that I didn't pay much attention to him. Finally, he came again, saying that it was only for a few hundred dollars. As for me being stingy or something. I have no choice. I cut out the picture of the message he sent and sent it to him to explain who he was talking about. He said that people who understand him don't need to explain, so I'm not too entangled. But my mind has changed, my friends have changed, and I am still myself. Later, on the first day of the company holiday, I chatted with him on WeChat. I thought the atmosphere was good, so I mentioned this matter and said who he said on WeChat? You mean me? He called me petty for a few hundred dollars. But actually, I didn't even ask him to pay back the money. This time, I really survived. I don't want such a friend! Damn it, I lent him money. Is it hard to find? He said he wanted to make money, so I introduced him to a job. 17 years 1 month, the company was the first in the second month of employment, but he actually said that this was a pit in the WeChat circle of friends, and he did not make it clear. I asked him if he was talking about me, but he didn't answer, saying I couldn't talk and told me not to talk! I don't even have the fucking right to speak, do I? Where did he get the sense of superiority? I lent him money, but I haven't paid it back yet. He called me stingy, and I fucking lent him money to get angry! I've never seen anyone borrow money with confidence! It is true that we are relatives and classmates, but shouldn't you be honest when I lend you money? Time and time again, I was accused of being stingy and petty. It's been a fucking long time. I haven't said a bad word about him for so long. I have few friends, but I don't need him. It is because I have few friends that I know how to cherish tolerance, but does he take me seriously as a friend? If you don't contact me at ordinary times, you will think of me when you borrow money. I am not a fucking ATM! He told me about his family, which I still remember. I told him my experience, but he didn't take it to heart and couldn't remember it clearly. A person's endurance is limited, and I also have a temper. Don't be such a friend It's better to be sincere between friends. If you don't cherish it, don't expect others to treat you as a treasure!
I finally finished what I wanted to say today!