If I guess correctly, you are probably an Aquarius, and I am an Aquarius, which has some similar characteristics with you. The appearance looks cold and maverick, and many ideas are novel and unique, which often gives people a feeling of being inaccessible and arrogant; In fact, the inner heat is never revealed, very easy to contact, and has great curiosity about things around. Sometimes, just like children, they will invest 200% or more in things they are interested in ... Once they understand the essence, they will quickly cool down to freezing point; I am intolerant of the secular world, tired of the same things, and have unique opinions, so sometimes I feel that people around me are vulgar and unreasonable, and often feel unsociable. It is precisely because thoughts have wings that people really live in reality, so they are often surrounded by confusion and contradictions. In fact, you already have the answer: there is no need to change yourself for other people's different views, just let nature take its course. Don't worry about your girlfriend. Sooner or later, there will be something suitable for you. Let me give you some advice: don't be too picky. Once both sides feel suitable, I suggest getting married early and being realistic. Never shake your mind. Don't imagine that there is something better waiting for you. Because women always compare the men they love, the first woman a man really loves is always the best. Remember!