The spot price difference of futures is outrageous.
Futures is just a trading market. There is speculation in the market. Asymmetry will lead to arbitrage opportunities. It's not a question of who goes with whom. These two markets are linked together. Futures is only a guide to the spot, and spot traders use futures to avoid risks. Price changes, human factors, supply and demand, policies, weather ... are all related. Who do you think will go with whom?