2. 1. Like sleeping late, many people have this problem. I was so nervous in the third grade that I reminded, warned and even "threatened" myself to get up early to review. As a result, I only get up at six o'clock once a year and stay in bed late. . . I forgot everything as soon as I lay in bed. . . Why do you get up so early? Think clearly. Review is free, and you can do whatever you want, but going to school is different. It's difficult, so I'll only stay until I'm not late. So sleeping late is not a psychological problem at all, otherwise everyone will get sick.
2.2. If you can't find excitement when you do something, then you don't really want to do it. Only when you want to do it enough can you arouse your enthusiasm for it. As for me, I am usually like a sober person, wandering around, but I will be very passionate in front of the guitar, and I can play quietly for a long time. . . If it is me, thinking about the person I love is enough to make me passionate.
2.3. You said you felt inferior. Believe me, there are many people who feel inferior. I dare say that everyone will feel this way, but many people feel this way slightly, just for a moment. No one is perfect, everyone has defects, and not everyone has a craft that can be the best in the world. Take a look at it with a normal heart. Maybe you can turn a lot of inferiority into motivation, work hard and make others admire you. When inferiority reaches a certain level, it will be a good way, instead of always suppressing and torturing yourself.
2.4 & amp3. Regarding self-blame, didn't Confucius also say that self-blame is inevitable in the process of self-reflection, so it's not a bad thing to blame yourself often, just don't go too far, don't blame yourself, just blame yourself. Think about your own strengths and characteristics, and know yourself correctly, completely and objectively, so that you will know what you want to do, what you should do, what you can do, what you want, what you want to get ... think it over, think it over, think it over, and understand it, and then you will know what to do next, and then devote yourself wholeheartedly. There will always be many setbacks, sadness, sadness and unwillingness in the process of hard work, but don't lose heart. The failure at this time is short-lived, vague and insignificant. Don't give up, giving may not be rewarded, but constant giving will definitely be rewarded. Learn to affirm yourself correctly. Everything you do has results, and you don't need to be too one-sided or too extreme. Even if what you get is different from what you thought at first, don't be too sad, don't break the jar, think on the bright side, this is a comfort to yourself. An old frontiersman loses his horse—a blessing in disguise. If you can't grow watermelon, it's not bad to get an apple. Not sweet, but also nutritious.
It's nothing to think about 5 million yuan, and it's nothing to think about it often. I believe many people will have this idea. How cool. Just don't think about it all day, take it lightly, and don't worry about it. Because mathematically, the probability of 5 million in the calculation is 0, so really don't think about it. This kind of thing can't be met. I can only think about my girlfriend from morning till night. Isn't she as important as your 5 million?
5. 1. Rapid change is the characteristic of this era (so to speak. . . ), things change quickly, there is nothing to make a fuss about. Not surprisingly, what is planned today will not work tomorrow. Have you seen Prison Break? In the third season, Michael's painstaking and protracted escape plan ran aground because of a cloud! Just because an unexpected cloud floated in and blocked the sun! This plan failed, and this method will never be used again. So there's nothing wrong with unexpected things happening. Have fun and accept it. Because no matter how sad you are, it won't change anything. In the end, Michael escaped from prison again by other means. )
5.2. It's no big deal to doubt. Shit, who hasn't doubted it? If I told you not to doubt, it was only a few words. Everybody's fine. Look on the bright side and wait. Personally, I think paranoia is a character, as long as it doesn't develop into obsessive-compulsive disorder.
This must be your most important question about your girlfriend. First of all, I want to praise you because you used "anonymity". If I were your girlfriend, I would be very sad to know how you feel about yourself. I can only say that you are too weak. You said you had no money and nothing, but she was excellent. You say you don't know why she is nice to you, so I'll tell you because she loves you. I think even you don't think you deserve her, and you don't have a car or a house. What will her family and friends think? She gave up so much for you, was under so much pressure and talked so much, but only got you to break up? As an outsider, I can see her love for you and her carefulness-secretly giving you money. How much is a woman who loves you so much and is so considerate? You said you didn't want her to suffer a little injustice, but now, breaking up with him and being passive with Nuo Nuo is the biggest injustice to her. She loves you, which means she is not a material woman. I believe she will not covet material comforts. As long as she can follow you, as long as you are kind to her, as long as she can struggle and work together with you, it is great happiness for her. She loves you so much, you must have something extraordinary. Maybe you don't even realize it. Therefore, as long as you work hard, seriously and wholeheartedly, as I said above, you, not only the rich can have happiness, nor can the poor share the pain. There is a saying that must "inspire" you-poor couples always fail, but this is not objective and comprehensive. As long as both of you can put your mind right, love each other deeply enough and be together wholeheartedly, you will be happy. Even worse, if you don't win 5 million yuan as you think, you will be happy if you earn 2000 yuan a day.
As long as your love is deep enough, you can give her happiness. This will be your motivation, driving you to work hard and become excellent. As long as you make him feel happy and it is worthwhile to be with you, how could he leave you?
What you have to do now, what you have to do now, is not to think about your unhappiness all day, but to cheer up, put it down and start a career. For her and for yourself.
P.S., do you think it's worth it to collapse now?