When choosing a boyfriend, you should choose a man with development potential. Three factors must be considered in choosing such a man: 1. His nature is honest and kind. Honesty and kindness, this condition sounds a bit corny, but it is fatal. Fluttershy's boyfriend has no job. When living together, he always said to Fluttershy: "When I find a job, you don't want to work, I will support you for life." Fluttershy also considered it for a moment, so he turned in his passbook and worked overtime desperately. As soon as he got home, he did all the housework. Her explanation is: "He has a heavy study task, and he has to take a lawyer's license and study for an online distance MBA." Two years later, Fluttershy's boyfriend found a good job and sent an email to ask for a breakup on his first day at work. Fluttershy just found out that her boyfriend met a beautiful female classmate when he was studying MBA. The female classmate said that she didn't want to go to work, so she gave Fluttershy's money as living expenses. Now, he is going to marry his female classmate, and of course he is going to say goodbye to Fluttershy. Although Fluttershy's boyfriend has potential in ability, his nature is bad and unreliable, and he belongs to "modern Chen Shimei". So understand the nature of men. You chose the wrong one with a bad nature. Even if he has more potential, his future success has nothing to do with you. You are just a "Mr. Dong Guo" who met a baiwenhang. He should have real "potential value". Xiaomi knows a boy, and the boy always speaks proudly. Xiaomi thinks this is a talent. So she confessed to the boy and the boy accepted her. But slowly, Xiaomi felt that the boy was talking big. Seeing that his friend made a lot of money in rice business, the boy also wanted to engage in this business. His friend also promised to take him with him, saying that the two partners each invested100000. When the boy ran out of money, he went to Xiaomi and asked her to lend him some money. He described the prospect of making money to Xiaomi, and he was very heroic, without any worries and concerns about the status quo. It seems that borrowing100000 will soon become1000000 or100000. Xiaomi asked him, "How much do you know about this business? Your friend knows the market. What about you? Do it if you don't understand it at all. " The boy said, "You can learn if you don't understand." Xiaomi said: "Learning is right, but it is not impossible to start from scratch, such as working for others, and learning while doing." 100000 is not a small sum for us. Can we use it to pay tuition? "The two were quarrelling as a bee. Her boyfriend said that Xiaomi had no brain and short eyes and could not see the status quo clearly. However, I see that this boy is a man with desire, but he has no corresponding smart mind and down-to-earth spirit. As a result, as Xiaomi expected, the business of boy friends not only didn't make money, but also lost a little capital. It is necessary for you to distinguish whether he is sober-minded, down-to-earth and enterprising, or just vain and boastful. A person's enterprise determines his success or failure. Although the enterprise is often not clear at a glance, we can first look at his auxiliary conditions-smart mind, optimistic spirit, down-to-earth attitude, enterprising spirit and friendly way to treat others. One of the conditions is often its "potential value". 3. Grasp the appreciation cycle of "potential stocks". Jingjing and her boyfriend worked hard together from the county seat to the provincial capital. She has always liked her boyfriend because he has an unspeakable effort, and she is also very optimistic about her boyfriend. But the survival of the city is far more complicated than they think. My boyfriend started as a part-time job and later started a small company. His career is booming, but he is deceived by credulity. All the company's property was confiscated by the bank to pay off debts ... Later, after several twists and turns, they failed to make a comeback, which made them very tired. Jingjing feels tired. She threw herself into the arms of a rich man and an innocent girl threw herself into the arms of the rich man. The rich man is married and has children. Jingjing became a mistress and was dumped a few years later. Jingjing's boyfriend, who started from scratch and worked hard, is now the chairman of an industrial company with assets of nearly 10 million. Jingjing regretted it. For vanity and enjoyment, she gave up an authentic "futures trader". She knew that her boyfriend was capable and courageous, but she let go before he "appreciated". His "appreciation" cycle is difficult to predict, it depends on yourself. A good woman is a good school. Some women are very clever. They choose potential men, cultivate and wait for their appreciation. And some women only pay attention to the immediate material and define the "future" with great potential value, then she will have to wait for the harvest of regret.