You're not dull or stupid, but you have an inferiority complex

You've had two girlfriends and failed

This is normal. You'd better be careful when you first set foot in the society

There will be many excellent girls behind a 28-year-old man

. At that time, you can't even push it off

You always think that you are a successful man with knowledge and money

But in real society, you have to learn all kinds of skills well

and improve your interpersonal skills

You feel that what people talk about is useless

. You make people feel monotonous.

For example, talking about sports, cars, houses, which restaurants are delicious, drinking, etc.

You can choose several kinds that you are interested in without spending a lot of money.

You said that you should let your family be free from the burden and make them happy because of me.

You should know that happiness is based on happiness.

Just like Chen Jingrun, the emperor of mathematics, Illiteracy in life

The following is my life experience. For reference:

I'm a woman. I grew up very introverted. People called me dumb.

I lost my father when I was 9 years old, so I felt more inferior. I was afraid of being looked down upon by others.

So I was afraid of looking at others. I didn't even twist my head when I walked.

People said behind my back: It seems that I owe her 32 silver for walking without looking at people

. My face will turn red when I think about it.

I'm introverted. I'm timid. I won't ask for directions when I'm 23 years old. Because I make people blush

even people with me ask for directions. I'll hide aside. I'm afraid of blushing

After taking part in work, I like to work hard alone. I'm silent. I'm afraid of looking at others

, so I'm happy. Because I don't want others to ignore me.

He sent me to Shanghai to study technology.

At that time, I was 25 years old, and I didn't know what a workshop was and what a craft was because I didn't care about anything at ordinary times. What do you mean by process?

I'm a hard worker. At this time, I really want to change my personality

and go back to work. The leader asked me to speak on stage. I almost fainted.

The leader saw that I was so timid. He said,

We'll talk about it next time. Later, I was mentally prepared, but I went on stage.

After I came on stage, my hands and feet were shaking

. My courage has improved

Now I have been to more than 2 cities

So don't lose confidence in yourself just because you are an introverted person with poor eloquence

In fact, if you don't work hard, it will be difficult to learn other things well

At that time, I read newspapers in front of the mirror every day for my poor eloquence and memorized good sentences

Now I learn everything, such as singing and dancing. Learning five strokes of typing

also learning Chinese painting and cooking, your personality has become very extroverted

I think you should also learn all aspects. Only when you have all kinds of skills

have accumulated all kinds of words

will you have confidence, and if you have confidence, you will naturally talk more

Even if you make a few mistakes, it doesn't matter, because you have practical experience, others will naturally convince you. Inspector,

Sinter, when I am familiar with the technological process of each process

I was promoted to vice director of technology, and I also led college students.

Later, I was rated as advanced at the municipal level, and I was still in the process of changing my personality with the municipal people's congress.

I always advised my friends not to take part in dancing, thinking that my style of thinking would deteriorate.

Later, I felt it would be of great help to my health after dancing.

It seems very pretentious.

Later, I learned it by myself, and I was praised by others, and I felt a sense of accomplishment.

Previously, influenced by my mother's old ideas, it was indecent for girls to go swimming.

Now my wife and I are taking our daughter swimming.