Professor Xue Zhaofeng, a famous economist, discussed the issue of marriage from the perspective of economics in "On Chipa". He believes that marriage, like running a family business, is a life-long wholesale futures contract. He believes that the relationship between men and women begins with feelings, trapped in money and loyal to human nature. The broadcast of this issue directly triggered a heated discussion.

Marriage is an eternal topic. Whether it is ancient or modern, it can be said that marriage is something that everyone must experience. In the past, many people thought that marriage was just two people living together. The human mind has not developed gradually. Now everyone has different ideas about marriage, and some people even think that marriage is not a necessary process.

As far as I know, marriage is actually cohabitation. Perhaps many people will think that the premise of marriage is to have love, and marriage with love can be happy. It is true. But now many people get married for the sake of marriage, and even some people have no feelings at all, so they really live together. Some people will think that I think you are right, you think I am right, we will be together, and then slowly cultivate our feelings. But in my opinion, this is a very unrealistic behavior. After all, you never know whether you two can really live together after marriage.

For me personally, marriage must be based on feelings. We can first understand each other from the perspective of friends, then get to know each other, know each other, fall in love, and then get together again. We enjoy the process from acquaintance to being together, not just for an ending. Marriage is no joke. In a big way, it is a matter for two families. The happiness of marriage is also related to the happiness of two families, so the process is very important, rather than ignoring the process and going straight to the end.

Marriage must be based on a solid emotional foundation, not just for certain things or certain interests. Only a marriage with emotional foundation can we talk about and deal with daily necessities, soy sauce and vinegar tea, and all kinds of secular things together. This kind of love is actually called equal love in spirit. At the same time, it can make the relationship between husband and wife longer and more stable.

In the past, marriage generally needed to be suitable and similar in age, but now in this society, as long as there is feeling, suitability is not important, and age does not need to be similar, as long as the gap is not very big. After all, marriage is a communication between two mature adults. (The picture comes from the Internet. If there is any infringement, please contact to delete it. )