It is considered that stock is a kind of science, a noble profession and the best place for a person to display his talents. ........
The most important thing is to think that the transaction is bright.
I was less than twenty years old when I first started trading, so I said that my life and the growth of trading are synchronized.
Hegel believes that human growth must go through three stages: positive, negative and harmonious.
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A friend wanted to enter the stock market the other day. I wish I could teach him how to make stocks.
I know very well in my heart that if the skills of love can't be taught to people who have never been in love, then the skills of trading can't be taught to people who have never traded.
It will take him several major setbacks to mature.
Besides, trading is not a science, at least it can't have a fixed answer like natural science.
No matter how to trade or fall in love, there is no best answer. At least the same skill will produce different results for different people or different stocks.
I have been trading for more than 20 years, and I know the sorrow of traders:
Maybe he can succeed, maybe he will fail,
But in any case, he will lose many of the most precious things,
In any case, he will experience mental torture from which no one can escape. .......
So I didn't talk to him directly about the technology of trading, but explained the disadvantages and costs of trading to him.
I said, "Even if you are smart, you can't enjoy the pleasure of real" rather than fake "trading in the first five years, not to mention" making money and keeping it ". 」
At the same time, I also pointed out: "The maturity of the transaction will inevitably make you a freak and lose or lose your position in the real society." You will become lonely and isolated, and may even be marginalized by society. 」
His answer is really cute and reminds me of my lovely time.
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First of all, he doesn't think trading can make him farther away from society. On the contrary, he thinks it will bring him closer to society. Because transaction is the frontier of financial industry, and financial industry is the frontier of information industry.
I understand his thoughts, because I understand the psychological and ideological situation at this stage better than he does.
What does this mean?
This shows that he thinks:
If he can plan and analyze all the reasons, then he can get the inevitable result, and then he can find the best answer in the future.
If his answer is wrong, then he must have overlooked some useful information, or his analysis is incorrect.
what can I say?
Tell him that trading is similar to gambling.
Not only the transaction, but even the whole world we live in. .......
I know that he will face a stage of learning, learning and re-learning, and think that learning more trading skills will make him invincible.
I know very well that he will not accept the "loss and failure" he has to accept, and he will not learn to keep a flexible and nonlinear way of thinking unless he tries all methods and fails.
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Secondly, he thinks the transaction is aboveboard!
Just like the first lover, they think love is beautiful;
Sincere efforts are bound to have good returns;
Love does not lie;
Even love will not change. .......
The most important thing is that two people who love each other are destined to come together.
Yes, love is an important factor in determining whether two people come together.
But whether two people can be together is not determined by this simple reason. Besides, love is the most difficult to calculate, a variable rather than eternity.
For a novice trader,
They believe that the transaction is beautiful and fair.
Even proud of being a trader,
Trading is an enviable industry,
If you really study hard, you will certainly enjoy huge amounts of money and a sense of accomplishment in return.
Performance will not lie, and even performance will not change. ........
Most importantly, whether the stock can go up or not depends entirely on the performance.
This problem is far from simple.
I have seen stocks that have gone up several times are realized without any change in fundamentals, and I have also seen really good stocks ruthlessly suppressed by the market for several years.
The problem is that performance is also a variable, and we are trading future variables. Of course, the premise of these is that the performance must be true. Who can guarantee this alone?
I really can't bear to look at the ruthless market and ruin this innocent and lovely heart. After all, innocence and simplicity are synonymous with beauty. I really can't bear to tell him the cruelty and darkness of the market.
Besides, what can I do to convince him?
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Finally, his psychological understanding of profit and loss is wrong.
At this time, traders usually pursue certainty and certain results, and will not plan the possibility of failure by themselves, let alone accept the possibility and reality of failure psychologically.
Asking for a certain result is simply synonymous with immaturity.
I haven't done statistics, but everyone knows that the success rate of love is far below 50%.
I'm telling the truth, but who will believe people in love?
To tell the truth, my happiest transaction was my first transaction, because I never thought about failure, let alone how to protect my money.
Why is first love the best?
I think it is because people at that time will be immersed in the yearning for a better life and will not protect themselves because of possible lovelorn!
Sun Tzu's art of war pointed out that the good, the defeated, never die. It's only a matter of time before those who can't fail at all perish.
I suddenly remembered an interesting thing about me.
A long time ago, although my "big account" was still losing money, one day I made a profit of more than 2,000 yuan. I couldn't restrain my inner excitement at that time.
I stood up, pointed to my mother outside the window and told her, "It's gone up 1.4 yuan! ! 」
It's really ridiculous to think about it now, but I remember it clearly.
In the next few years, I can't even lose140,000.
What does this mean?
At that time, I thought trading was about getting something for nothing. I earned a few months' salary a day, but I thought there was no cost. Can I not get excited This is the novice's true spiritual feeling of profit.
It's hard for me to imagine, can such a psychological state be profitable? Now I understand that there will be no pie in the sky.
I took a huge risk for profit, but the same reason produced different results, and that day was not the day when the risk was released.
If you are still excited about profit, then I'm sure you are not mature yet.
I earn six figures in two days now, and I won't feel the slightest excitement if I earn hundreds of thousands a month, because I know I deserve it, and even I deserve more!
Why?
As far as efforts are concerned, my efforts are far worthy of my income; Financially speaking, wealth is not a pie falling from the sky, and even this profit has little to do with my level.
I mean, I rely on possible losses, even the accumulated profits from previous risks.
I have to admit now:
Any beauty, excitement and passion come from an unrealistic understanding of reality!
At least you haven't seen the whole thing.
If you see that one side of things is so bright and beautiful, please turn around and look at the other side of things.
Needless to say, he must be very dirty!
The above is the "positive" side of the transaction. It doesn't matter if you don't want to see what the negative is. Reality will actively tell you what the "negative" side is.
Good times always pass too fast, and whether you like it or not, you will feel the most cruel side of the market.
This is the first stage of a trader's growth-nine times out of ten I'm determined to learn.
Five tenths, determined to learn, standing at 30, not confused at 40, knowing destiny at 50, obeying at 60 and obeying at 70.
-Confucius
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