1, find your own field before the age of 30 and work hard in this field. As the saying goes, "men are afraid of choosing the wrong line, and women are afraid of marrying the wrong person." Men should achieve something, strive for mediocrity, and live to learn.

2, you can get married first, but the hostess of a family is too important. If you want to learn how to choose the right one, you must first know yourself, then know each other clearly, and know whether you can affirm each other's advantages and tolerate each other's shortcomings before you get married. She should not only be a little woman, but also be sensible and steady, and will "hit" you when you are complacent, and encourage and spur you when you enter the trough ... too much. Of course, it is the best match, because you are looking for a lifelong partner.

After marriage, you should have a sense of responsibility, which includes work, marriage, family and other aspects. They are like a castle, which are interrelated and inseparable.

4. To love yourself, only by taking care of yourself can you take better care of others. No matter how busy the work is, no matter how good the money is, it is not worth exchanging your body. Maybe you will get the sad face of your loved ones and your own pain and embarrassment.

5, Chinese traditional virtues, filial piety first, first let them rest assured, and then try to make them feel warm and proud.

6. Spend more time with your family, especially your children. When people are alive, love words are still valuable. People are not afraid of money and debt, but they are afraid of love debt. Besides, for children, educating them well will be their greatest achievement.

7. Many relationships have become extremely complicated and difficult for many people. The so-called happy people are all the same. Unfortunately, people have their own misfortunes, such as the relationship between husband and wife, parents, children, generation gap, suspicion ... all exist in reality, and they can't help but turn it into a science. So learn slowly and practice slowly, don't run away, and it's best not to be negative. Endless.

8. It is very important for a man to be open-minded. It's too important to be broad-minded There are too many things to care about, but it is so boring to care about. Don't be timid in big events, don't think too much about small things, and you can really lose your temper at critical moments. Once you lose your temper, you will be remembered.

9. When you are old, try to mix a nest, have a group of old friends and take your wife to do meaningful things that you really want to do.

Finally, I really appreciate the word "management" used by the landlord. This word is too critical. Career, love and family don't need to be in charge ... it's not enough to choose the right person in the right line. This is only the first step. The key is management. Nothing is static, experience is a kind of growth. So if you are a big operator, you should first pay attention to yourself and have a good attitude.