You can only know if you have experienced it in fate.

Man's fate is like a feather! Feathers fall where the wind blows them!

Destiny takes a hand, or floating in the wind, I think, both.

Different destinies have different experiences, and people have different understandings of what is happiness in life.

There is nothing wrong with me, there is nothing wrong with my heart, and there is a book on the pillow.

Bacon said: people can do many stupid things in their life, but the stupidest thing is to ignore health.

Physical health has a great influence on life, and of course it also has a great influence on happiness. When there is a health problem, all we can do is accept the result.

But the result of health reasons is often unhappy.

The best response is to keep healthy.

I went to the hospital to accompany my bed last year. There are three people in a room. The other two people in the same ward are young people in their thirties, but the disease is cerebral hemorrhage. Although my life is saved now, I am paralyzed and can't take care of myself.

Cerebral hemorrhage used to be a disease of the elderly. How did they get it when they were young?

There is only one reason, staying up late for a long time.

One is a programmer and the other is a futures investor.

Everyone thinks they are young, so they are willing to work overtime voluntarily. They want to earn more money while they are young, so that they can live a happier life. I didn't expect to make much money, so I fell down first, recovered slowly, and couldn't work for a while, making myself more passive.

Now, they think that the three happiest things in life are not getting sick, having nothing to do with their hearts, and having books beside their beds.

Everyone has different birth conditions and different choices.

When people compare health and money together, their economic situation is generally not ideal.

But trading health for money is never the best choice.

Otherwise, not only will the problem not be solved, but it will also make yourself and your family more passive.

Therefore, when there is nothing wrong with your body and mind, and there is a book on your pillow, you are happy.

One is to sleep in your own bed. The second is to eat meals cooked by parents. The third is to listen to your lover's sweet words to you. The fourth is to play games with children. (Lin Yutang)

Some people, after solving the family economic problems, will have a better understanding of happiness. At this time, happiness is not a person's business.

Family happiness is true happiness.

I don't know from which year, it has become a social trend for people to go out to work. Every year in Spring Festival travel rush, people who have been wandering for a year, no matter how difficult the road is, how difficult it is to buy tickets and how bad the weather is, drag their bodies for a year and rush to their hometown.

People who work hard outside for a year have gone through hardships. As long as they get home, sleep in their own beds, eat the meals cooked by their parents, listen to what their relatives say and hold their children tightly, they will feel happy.

The work pressure and workplace anxiety of the past year have vanished in an instant. As long as I am with my family, I feel happy. After working hard for a year, I feel less hard.

Moreover, this feeling of happiness is particularly fascinating and full of hope for life.

At this time, sleeping in their own beds, eating the meals cooked by their parents, listening to the sweet words of their loved ones and playing games with their children are their happiest things.

Don't think about the past, don't live up to the present, and don't be afraid of the future (Xu Zhimo).

This view is quite Buddhist.

Buddhism believes that the root of pain is persistence. If you let it go, you will be free from the pain. You should strive to live in the present, do what you want to do, and bravely go to the other side of wisdom.

1949 The news of the founding of New China reached Qian Xuesen's ears, and he immediately made up his mind to return to China, which was resolutely opposed by the US military.

At that time, Dani King Bull, the undersecretary of the US Navy, had a very good personal relationship with Qian Xuesen, so he talked to Qian Xuesen privately and asked him not to leave the United States.

Daniel and Qian Xuesen said that you have made great achievements in America. Back in China, you have to start from scratch.

Now China has just been established, and it is pitifully poor. After returning to China, the scientific research conditions will drop a lot, which will have a great impact on your scientific research projects.

If the United States and the Soviet Union are not at peace, war may break out at any time in the future. Once the war broke out and returned to China, all the research could not go on.

From the past, present and future, it is very unfavorable for your research.

Qian Xuesen was unmoved by this. He told Dani King Bull that he came from China and should return to China. His attitude towards fate is: don't think about the past, don't live up to the present, and don't fear the future.

Qian Xuesen said so and did the same. Later, he worked hard to return to China and made great contributions to China's missile industry. Until today, the theoretical basis of Dongfeng-17 is still Qian Xuesen's ballistics, which is still ahead of the world.

There is no uniform answer to what to do in life to be happy.

Because life is like a feather, where the wind blows, it will fall.

The problems that need to be faced are also different.

No matter whether you value health or family more, you still have hope in your heart and are not afraid of the future.

As long as it suits you, it is the best.

Text/Lao Xia analyst

If I write an article, say everything and do something,

Once there are ripples in your heart, at least it means that in the past years,

At some point, we are experiencing the same feeling.

Sometimes, even though we have never met.

But I have known each other for a long time, which is subtle and satisfying.