If you have an argument with your neighbor's old lady, you should calm down your mind first, and then try to reason with her. If it really doesn't work, you can ask the police for mediation.
There will always be contradictions between people, especially between neighbors. If neighbors fight over property or other things, it requires us to have certain persuasion ability, roll with the punches and settle disputes between relatives and neighbors.
We know that people are angry when they quarrel and don't listen to other people's advice. Therefore, if there is a quarrel, don't dwell on some extreme words of the parties, but use euphemistic language and be careful not to touch the taboos of the parties.
When the two sides quarrel, they blush and have thick necks, and the atmosphere is tense. At this time, if you can use one or two humorous words, such as cool oil and lubricant, you can cool down and relax. Generally speaking, there are always differences between the two sides in quarreling, so we should also aim at it. We should focus on the party with fierce wording and the main responsibility, so that it is easier to calm down the dispute and achieve the purpose of persuasion.
If we just quarrel with each other instead of solving the root cause of the problem, it will cause some worse consequences. For quarrels with complicated reasons, we should find solutions from the front and side, and try our best to put the words into each other's hearts.
People often say that "good medicine tastes bitter and is good for illness, but advice when most unpleasant is good for action". With the rapid development of science and technology, the medicine is also coated with sugar and becomes sweet. Since good medicine is not necessarily bitter and bad words are not necessarily unpleasant, then advice is the way to speak. When resolving the dispute again, we should seize the other party's self-esteem, proceed from maintaining the reputation of both parties, be reasonable and emotional, and make the expression of the suggestion profound and appropriate, so that the suggestion will become easy to follow.