Debt * * * is shared, which is limited to the debts that are legal and used for the husband and wife to live together. Of course, you can help him to bear personal debts voluntarily. To sign an agreement, that is, the "agreed property system" in law, you should not only rename the house, but also agree that the house belongs to you alone. If the man cares about the feelings of husband and wife and the family, considering that you have made such a big concession for this family, he should be able to agree. Just to see how big his own personal debt is. Second, the related issues of "now divorced, he pays his own debts". It is feasible in theory, but it should be reminded that in practice, creditors may require both husband and wife (even divorce) to bear the responsibility, which may not necessarily make you actually bear it in the end, but it is likely to lead you into disputes. Third, "Is our second house bought in someone else's name a husband and wife * * * with property?" The second house was actually bought by your * * * with property (in fact, it is mainly your property), which actually belongs to your * * * with property. Moreover, this house is still very safe in your cousin's name. You should not let your husband grasp the evidence that "this apartment is actually your property", so it will be good for you in the future. Whether it is a divorce by agreement or a lawsuit in the future, it is difficult for others to directly demand that this house be used to pay debts; When dividing property in divorce, you also have the initiative. If you want to take it out, you can take it out. If the man is sorry for you, you can not take it out, because your cousin is completely obedient to you. Fourth, divorce, whether to sign the child. Divorce is a matter between husband and wife. The key is whether the two parties believe that the relationship has broken down and they must divorce, not the child's signature. But if it has a great influence on children, we have to consider their feelings. At least remember to do a good job in persuading and explaining children, so as not to adversely affect their weak hearts. The Marriage Law clearly stipulates that children and women can be properly taken care of when divorce property is divided. Therefore, when the court finds out that the other party has lost his family's savings by gambling all the year round, he will be more biased and sympathetic to the woman. If there is a legal basis to support the woman, it is natural to find a woman. Therefore, it is entirely possible to be financially inclined to you. 6. Suggestions on minimizing the losses caused by divorce. 2. Seize the reason why the other party lost his fortune by gambling and agree to divorce. On the one hand, it can encourage the other party to make concessions in the division of property, on the other hand, it can avoid litigation divorce, and naturally avoid the expenses of litigation fees, appraisal fees and lawyer fees, which is also a kind of saving. 3. If it is an agreed divorce, it must be stated in the "Property and Debt" section that the man's debts are all borne by the man himself and have nothing to do with the woman. 4. If it is really necessary to dissolve the marriage through litigation, please remember that you must do everything possible to win the custody of the children, because the custody of the children is on your side, and the court will generally take care of the side with the children. When the court finds out that the other party often gambles and loses the family property, consider that you are the woman and will take care of you when sharing the property. 5, the relationship with the cousin should be handled well, and the cousin should absolutely obey your command (it should be your cousin, not the man's cousin), so that you can firmly control the second suite. 6. Generally, stocks will not be completely lost. The remaining value of the stocks bought by the other party still belongs to your property. Don't ignore it. You can generally check your husband's account with his ID card and the relationship between husband and wife in the household registration book. Of course, if you have his account, it is better to inquire directly. 7. Pay attention to whether your husband has other investments in insurance, funds, futures, etc., whether he has an account in other banks, and try not to slip through the net. These are all the same for you. 7. If you have any questions, please ask them. Follow-up: I paid for the second house with a bank card. If this can be found from the bank, it means that * * * is the same property. Will it participate in the distribution? If my cousin insists on calling it her own house, can she not be divided? I don't want to be divided, because I want to leave some protection for me and my children. In addition, my husband used the house as a mortgage loan of 52, yuan, and at the same time owed another 17, yuan. Answer: Just because you pay part of the money doesn't mean that the house is yours, and it won't be included in the distribution of the property between husband and wife. . Your cousin insists that it is her own house, and it is really unnecessary to divide it. It is difficult for the man to prove it.