Kai Zi replied: Hello, girl, judging from your letter, your financial situation should be very good. You can get married without a bride price. Prepare your own dowry. You have to pay this fee since you gave birth to two children. She also sold her car to pay off her husband's debts. These are enough to show that you have enough economic ability. Can raise two children. Since you have the ability to raise two children, the burden may be less after divorce. At least as long as you raise children and don't take care of older children, can you do something? Do this through legal means? Fighting for two children.
According to the law, the other party's economic income is limited, especially if the woman can prove that her economic income, living environment, education level and even living habits are better than the other party, then the possibility of obtaining child custody will be greater. I don't know how old your son is. Besides, if that person can't even afford the living expenses, will he definitely raise his son, or will he threaten his wife with his son? I suggest you seek professional legal help and strive for the custody of two children according to the advice of professionals. Of course, what is more important than seeking legal aid is your determination, that is, whether you are really determined to divorce. A lawyer friend of mine once said that you can't break up without getting married, only people who really don't want to divorce can. Although you think children are the reason why you don't give up your marriage, at the age of 6, from the age of 26 to 32, you actually know exactly what kind of person you are marrying. I think you may have thought about divorce during those six years, but why didn't you get divorced? I think this is a question that you need to consider more.
02。 My husband and I met on a blind date and got married soon. My friends were surprised and suddenly asked them to get married. Yes, I also asked. Are you sure you want to get married Am I married? The answer in my mind is the latter. I like my husband, too, but I will never achieve it. Love is also a voluntary choice, so it should ignore the once self-righteous principle. But I'm still not used to it I don't think marriage is what I imagined. Newlyweds have no sense of ceremony. Communicating directly with my husband seems to be less successful. I feel very wronged. When I am not single and live according to my own wishes, I feel that I have a good life. Is it because you have been single for a long time and are not adapted to marriage, or because you don't have deep feelings with your husband, so you are unhappy and depressed for a while.
Hello, you got married soon after you met. As far as efficiency is concerned, it can be defined as getting married soon, but getting married can't be said to be efficient. In my opinion, the three necessary conditions for both parties to conclude a marriage are: 1. Both sides are willing to be together; 2。 Attraction; 3。 Mutual commitment; Although flash marriage also has these three conditions, it is not mature enough. For example, the first point, both sides want to be together, and neither of them knows each other. Deciding to be together in a hurry, and both of them have not been tested, means that you may not know both sides. How long are you willing to walk?
The second point is mutual attraction. As long as two people are not ugly, it is easy to see each other from the beginning, but they can always meet and maintain their charm. This is not determined by appearance. But depends on personality, preferences, three views and so on. Third, promise each other. Commitment is too easy, but commitment is just talk after all. No time, promises are just cheers, not to mention. So in my opinion, getting married soon is actually a decision made without knowing life or even human nature. Of course, we can't deny all short marriages. Then back to your question, do you think the present marriage is different from what you imagined? Newlyweds should have no love and affection, no attention and love, and even no sense of bondage in marriage. Is the joy that comes with it because you are not used to marriage? I don't think it's appropriate to use the word "adaptation", because marriage is not a fixed state of life. You don't need to adapt, but you need both sides to adjust, according to everyone's feelings. Feel comfortable on the channel. I'm sad because you didn't try to make this adjustment.
After all, adjustment is the work of both sides. Both you and he need to work hard and make changes, but if all the driving forces are only on one person, she may find it difficult or even impossible. Tune the marriage to a comfortable channel. You said that you communicated with your husband, because I don't know your communication method, so I'm not sure whether your husband refused to adjust with you or your husband couldn't adjust your requirements according to your requirements. This requires you to evaluate according to the actual situation. If your husband is willing to adapt, but you are not satisfied with the way he adapts, then you can try to improve your communication. This may be because your communication with him is incorrect, and he can't accept or understand your true intentions and thoughts. On the contrary, if your husband refuses to make adjustments and you hear the wind, I can only tell you that this may be the risk of marriage breakdown.