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Some people define the relationship between classmates as follows: you are not from the same world, but the school arranges you in the same place for a period of time.

Becoming a classmate is only accidental, but entering a different world is inevitable.

Some time ago, I attended a class reunion, and a female classmate laughed at me for using a domestic mobile phone.

Because people now have the habit of leaving their mobile phones at home, everyone puts their mobile phones on the table when eating, for fear of missing calls and messages.

I also took out a domestic mobile phone that cost more than 1400 last year.

Like discovering a new continent, Lily picked up my mobile phone and studied it again and again. "God, are you really using this kind of mobile phone?" It's too economical. Isn't your husband very profitable? Why didn't he buy you a better one? "

Then she took out her latest apple. "Look at this. My boyfriend went to Hong Kong to buy it for me last month. This is a limited edition. "

Lily, who said this, used to sleep in my upper bunk. She is a simple girl. I heard that I went to Guangzhou after graduation, got married once, then divorced, and now I'm hanging out with an older boss.

I don't agree with her sarcasm. Are people who use limited edition mobile phones necessarily happier than those who use domestic mobile phones?

Sweep away, the mobile phones on the dining table are all apples. Do you want to hit your face like this?

I thought the purpose of class reunion was to enhance students' feelings and contact classmates' friendship, but the content of our chat has completely changed.

MengMeng said that he went to Europe last month and bought a bag of what brand. I haven't heard the brand she said, and I don't remember what she said. I feel that she is so ignorant.

Then Xiaoqing said that her husband bought her three bags when he was on a business trip last year. "The man's eyes just can't. The style he chose died, so I threw it directly to my mother. "

Some students asked the monitor why he didn't come. Informed classmates said that the squad leader had speculated in futures some time ago and lost everything. His wife ran away with the children. He didn't attend because he was in too much pain.

The communist youth league secretary didn't come and went to perform abroad. It is said that her entertainment circle is developing well now and she is considering going to Italy for further study.

I remember reading an evaluation of the reunion in Zhihu before: "The reunion screened out people who flew too high, walked too far, mixed too badly and had too strong personality ... and a group of students in the same coordinate system were left to confirm each other every year,' So you are still living like this'."

Don't try to think that those partners are still school partners after many years, and the differences in experience and knowledge have narrowed the distance between them.

Homecoming can show off wealth, looks, babies and alcohol, but not poverty. Everyone is afraid of being looked down upon by others, as if all efforts are just to make people look up when they see their old classmates again.

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Last year, several high school students encouraged the monitor to have a class reunion. Fifteen years after graduation, it's time to get together.

The monitor set up a WeChat group, and all the students who could be contacted were brought into the group.

There are several female students who use their own photos as headshots. I didn't recognize it after watching it for a long time. Who are these? I don't know if it's the beauty camera. In short, everyone has changed a lot.

There were less than 20 people at that party, and the people who had the most fun began to cut to the chase after greeting everyone.

Does anyone need a used car? Some of them are doing WeChat business now, instilling in everyone that women should be hard on themselves, take diet pills and apply hydrating masks. We are all old classmates, so we can get the lowest discount from her. When three female classmates transferred money to her at the dinner table.

After the reunion, I found that the relationship between classmates was not brought closer because of this reunion. Who I was close to at school, and who I only associate with now. Those students who added WeChat to each other when they met again still didn't communicate afterwards. Occasionally, a circle of friends likes it, indicating that they care about each other.

Classmates became the most familiar strangers.

The recently popular Beijing Women's Picture Book has a passage about reunion.

Chen Ke attended a class reunion after returning to his hometown. Only five years after graduation, she found herself out of place with her classmates. She kept silent all the time, watching her classmates pose there.

In her view, homecoming is just a stimulant for adult students. People who mix well try to brush their sense of existence; People who don't mix well find a sense of existence.

The movie "Later Us" also has a scene about returning home. Lin Jianqing took Fang Xiaoxiao to a class reunion, for fear that his classmates would look down on him, he beautified his life in Beijing. But I heard two classmates talking about him in the bathroom and laughing at his bragging.

It seems that the drama about reunion in film and television dramas is not positive energy, but full of irony.

I really can't figure out why those who cried their eyes out at the graduation party are so disgusting when they meet again after many years.

Once a warm-blooded young man was turned into an old fox, polite, cautious and full of hypocrisy.

Where to find the innocence of that year? I'm afraid it only exists in memory.

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I have a male classmate who doesn't attend every class reunion on the pretext of working overtime.

An informed classmate revealed that his daughter-in-law wouldn't let him attend. Because this male student is the man of the hour in our school, all the girls in our class like him.

His daughter-in-law is worried that the reunion will cause unnecessary trouble again. Isn't there a saying called "reunion, broken family"?

First love is probably the most unforgettable, which basically happens on campus, which means that you may see your first love again at the class reunion.

If we just talk about the recent situation of the classmates you know at the dinner table and talk about the old things, it's nothing. It is a great sin to be afraid of affecting each other's family unity. Don't let the once beautiful feelings go bad.

In fact, I met that male classmate later, and the time was to feed the pigs. He has become a greasy uncle in the crowd, weighing nearly 200, and can't get in touch with handsome guys.

Let us remember the people of the past. Goodbye is easy to forget.

Most of them are curious to attend class reunion, just to see what happened to their former classmates.

I also tried to find that lush years, eager to meet myself when I was young, but found that I wanted to buy osmanthus with wine, but I didn't like it.

Time passed and the old man didn't reply.

About the author: Pinocchio, an honest, frank, gentle and caring post-80 s aunt, is mainly engaged in clothing stores and sideline writing, one is to decorate people's appearance, the other is to enrich people's hearts.