Narrator: Anonymous record: Xiao Yan comments: sour lemon.

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My name is Zhou Chang. I used to speculate in futures with my friends. I made some money and left in time.

Now open a rabbit farm.

Men become bad when they have money, and I am no exception. Eat, drink and be merry. I didn't miss anything.

Until I met Xiao Wan.

At first, I stayed in a hotel at night. I was bored, so I called someone else. It's Xiao Wan.

As soon as she entered the room, I felt something was wrong. The arms and legs are slender and the waist is not fully developed.

This girl is too young.

I didn't trust her, so I asked her to show me my ID card and calculated the date. I just turned eighteen.

"So young, don't you go to school?" I asked her.

"I don't like reading at all." She looked at me Gherardini, "what? Uncle, are you still sitting? "

I gave her 200 yuan more after the first time.

Later, because I often went to Y county on business, I had to look for her every time I went. At first, I just took care of her business, until one time, she called me at night and said that she was ill and couldn't find anyone, begging me to come over.

I want to refuse. My wife and children are in the living room. It's too troublesome to go out at this time.

At that time, somehow, I felt pity and told my wife that I was in a hurry at the moment, so I got on the bus and ran to Y County Hospital overnight.

My wife also told me to drive carefully when I go out.

When I rushed to Y county hospital to see little H, she hugged me and cried for a long time. At that moment, I suddenly felt really sorry for her.

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Later, knowing her life experience, I felt even more distressed for her.

Her parents divorced when she was very young.

Started living with her mother.

When she was five, her mother wanted to remarry. She was sent to her father and lived with her grandmother.

Later, her father got married again and only came back on holidays. Every time I come back, I give her a symbolic money, which is cold and indifferent.

She dropped out of junior high school and mingled with a group of young people in society.

Later, I came out and started my present career.

At that time, in the hospital, she hugged me and cried for a long time: "Brother Zhou, you are the first person to reassure me in so many years."

I didn't speak, but my heart was still very distressed. I decided to love her well in the future.

After she was discharged from the hospital, I found her a house again, so that she could concentrate on accompanying me and not go outside to meet those filthy guests.

She said yes.

Since then, I also have a permanent residence in Y County.

The first day is always beautiful. As a little girl, she has a lot of energy and passion, and often surprises me, which makes me feel the long-lost passion and taste the sweetness of youth.

In love, we travel abroad together.

In the Ebony Museum, she took a fancy to a comb.

The seller of the comb said that lettering could be done for free.

Xiaowan looked at me with a smile and said, please give me more advice at this moment and in the days to come.

My heart twitched again, and I felt hit by love.

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Half a year later, she suddenly said that she wanted to break up with me.

On the question, she said that she found a boyfriend of similar age.

I was anxious as soon as I heard it, and immediately asked, "Have you slept?"

"Not yet," she said. "We are in a pure love, the kind that wants to get married."

"Does he know you are a chicken?" I asked her again.

"Yes, he doesn't mind my past, as long as I get along well with him in the future." She said.

"Are you unhappy with me?" I asked her for the third time, but she still cried.

"Happiness, but we have no future." She said, she also said that I have a son and a daughter, a lover and a son in M county, and she has nothing.

"You can have children at any time if you want."

I tried my best to keep it, thinking that with my financial strength, it would not be a problem to raise another family.

Xiao declined. She said that no one had hurt her since she was a child, and the children she didn't want would have no father in the future.

It suddenly dawned on me that the theory of boyfriends should be false, and women are like that. At first, I said I didn't care about my birthright, and I always wanted to be a frequent visitor after a long time.

It's a trick with my former lover in M County.

So I said, "Wait, I'll come back to you after I deal with my family affairs."

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I deliberately didn't contact Xiaowan for a long time.

Unexpectedly, if I don't contact her, she really won't contact me.

After a while, the more I can't get it, the more I itch. I couldn't help looking for her in Y county, but she went without a trace. I finally found her grandmother's house in the country. The old man took me to a grave behind the house and said, "She's inside."

I don't even know how I got home.

After I got home, I didn't have the energy to do anything. My mind is full of time with Xiaowan, her youthful body, lively and lovely smiling face.

I think I fell down this time.

During that time, I invited my friends to drink every day. My mouth was small and I was very graceful. Later, my friends got bored.

One night, I received a phone call from a strange number. It turned out to be Xiaowan.

She said, "I am in Shenzhen. Can you pick me up? "

This time, I hung up the phone and rushed to Shenzhen without saying hello to my wife.

I went to Shenzhen and took Xiaowan back to Y County.

Since then, I have never left Xiaowan, fearing that she would leave without saying goodbye again.

Until my wife came to y county.

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This time, I decided to give Xiaowan a birthright without hesitation.

Put the things on the table and tell your wife at once.

The negotiations with my wife are going well. She didn't cry or make trouble. After sharing the house and car, my daughter has been with her and followed her after the divorce.

My wife simply took the money I gave and divorced my daughter happily.

However, I didn't expect that when I put the divorce certificate in front of Xiaowan, there was no scene of "she hugged me happily and we were passionate again" that I expected.

Xiaowan offered to break up with me.

Before I finished digesting the news, Xiaowan's next words directly burned my insides.

She said, "Brother Zhou, I'm sorry I lied to you. I don't really want to marry you, but my nephew wants to divorce you. "

Then I realized that in the whole thing, I thought I was the king of two women, but it turned out to be the bronze of "man of iron Korea".

From beginning to end, my wife, no, my ex-wife knows everything about me. Xiaowan's real boss is my ex-wife.

"You mean my wife hired you to break up my marriage with her?" I asked her.

"Why?" I asked again, but I didn't fully respond.

Xiaowan said: After so many years, my sister-in-law has long been tired of your betrayal.

At this point, I still don't give up and try my best to stay, which shows that I don't care if my ex-wife gives me a chance. I just begged Xiaowan to give me another chance, but she shook her head: "I really don't love you."

Since then, I have never seen Xiao Wan again.

Now I have opened a farmhouse in the suburb of C, and I live with a girl who looks like Xiaowan.

She is just eighteen and full of energy. She plays poker or fights with me every night.

This is a real battle. She often digs out blood stains on my head.

She kept Xiaowan's wooden comb and didn't use it herself, just to humiliate me: "Please give me more advice in the future. It's so old-fashioned You actually like this green tea. "

Comments on sour lemon

The antecedent of this story is that the man has several ex-lovers, one of whom went abroad after giving birth to a child, and the other gave birth to a son to take care of himself at home, and he paid the monthly living expenses. His wife was silent, and he thought he could enjoy the happiness of others.

Before the divorce, the man was very busy, either cheating or on the road.

There is a follow-up to this story: the story of divorce is spread out on the table. His parents don't support him, but they all favor the man's ex-wife. The old couple said: take all the money from home, don't leave it to him, you can raise more money for your granddaughter.

Now his ex-wife has left her to take care of the children, and she has won the love of her ex-husband and is no longer worried about her husband's hooking up.

Jia Mu, the anchor in A Dream of Red Mansions, said: No man is unfaithful.

In the 1990s, Jackie Chan said: I just made a mistake that all men make.

For men's infidelity, society often gives more tolerance and understanding, while relatively weak women often appear as "victims", either swallowing up, or crying and hanging themselves, tossing and turning, and the sound of the waves at home remains the same.

The ex-wife of the man provided us with another sample of cheating, which brought three inspirations to the wives who were troubled by the man's cheating:

First, calm down. Know your husband better than your wife, understand his attributes, don't have illusions, be calm and restrained, and prescribe the right medicine. It can be seen that divorcing the man's ex-wife can still win the approval of the former in-laws. Then find out the nature of her husband, find the exact match of Xiaowan, and start to act.

Second, rationality. Overcome the woman's soft-hearted, emotional nature, hit the snake seven inches without making a move, decisively gain the advantage of divorce, don't hesitate, don't hesitate, don't be soft-hearted, and use the divorce income to get rid of the mess of the original marriage cleanly.

Third, implementation. Emotion and personality are independent, and there is no "victim" obsessive-compulsive disorder, so we can't extricate ourselves from emotions. I use other people's mistakes to punish myself, fully grasp my sense of strength and have super execution.

In the whole incident, Xiaowan's performance is also remarkable. It's completely different from the drama of trying to catch a man in junior year. Xiaowan, like his ex-wife, deeply realized the man's playboy and selfishness. Girls help girls, women help women, and the man's ex-wife designed a play to make the man divorce and run away from home. And let him fully experience the taste of betrayal. It is really the strongest revenge for the two to jointly educate the man to be a man.

The cooperation and execution of the two people are great.

However, sour lemon still thinks that if there is not enough time and grasp, there is really no need to spend more energy and time on the man, and after mastering the evidence, he still resolutely withdraws.

Finally, sour lemon admires the man's parents, helps them and supports the man's ex-wife. Morally speaking, it is reasonable to leave a retreat for the man, so that his ex-wife will not kill him and leave opportunities for getting along with him or even remarrying in the future. This is also the wisdom of the two old people. Unfortunately, they have raised a "affectionate" son.

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