First, if you like being alone, you choose to work alone; If you like being alone, your job is to deal with people often. For example, your major is writing, and you are an editor or a writer. This match is perfect. Your major is writing. You like being alone, but you got a sales job. Is this a bad thing? Not necessarily. We can practice and make up for each other. Busy when you need to be busy, is it not good to be alone when you need someone? You don't have to stay indoors and work alone all your life.
Second, the workplace is generally divided into conservative workplace, business workplace and creative workplace. There are jobs that need to be social, jobs that need to be alone, and jobs that take care of both. Although the market economy is deepening, the work done by one person and independently is actually decreasing, and the trend of resource sharing and resource cooperation has taken shape. For example, in the past, craftsmen could make their own handicrafts, but now they inevitably need Internet promotion, sales, mobile phone payment and other means to deal with people. If you are alone, there will be less and less work that you don't associate with others. This is the progress of the times. People are social people, so don't lock yourself up. Do not advocate the so-called otaku otaku.
Third, there are still many people who are alone in the workplace. In fact, anyone who needs to finish a task independently can be alone. Such as painters, designers, writers, programmers, long-distance drivers, doormen, repairmen, hunters, farmers, guardians and so on. These tasks can be completed by yourself or one of them can be completed without frequent communication with others.
However, if you don't like talking and like being alone, do you have to find a job that you can do independently without talking? Being alone is your choice, but being alone doesn't mean refusing to communicate with others. On the contrary, in this society, cooperation is the main theme, not going it alone. Proper selection of some jobs that require cooperation and communication will help to make up for my lack of speaking and give play to my unique advantages. How to deal with the contradiction between life and work? You communicate and cooperate with people at work, and you can enjoy your quiet time after work, isn't it?
According to the character of "don't like to talk, like to be alone", the subject is obviously setting limits for himself.
First, liking solitude does not mean rejecting communication with others. If you don't like talking and like being alone, do you have to find a job that you can do independently without talking? On the contrary, in this society, cooperation is the main theme, not going it alone.
Proper selection of some jobs that require cooperation and communication will help make up for your reticence and give play to your unique advantages. You communicate and cooperate with people at work, and you can enjoy your quiet time after work, isn't it?
Second, if you are alone, there will be less and less work that you don't associate with others. With the deepening of the market economy, there are actually fewer and fewer jobs that are completely done independently, and the trend of resource sharing and cooperation has taken shape.
For example, in the past, craftsmen could make their own handicrafts, but now they need Internet promotion, sales, mobile payment and other means, and it is inevitable to deal with people. This is the progress of the times. Don't lock yourself up.
A person doesn't have to match the job he is looking for. For example, your major is writing, and you are an editor or a writer. This job fits your personality perfectly.
If your major is writing, you like being alone, but it may not be a bad thing if you find a sales job. You can exercise yourself through this job and make up for your lack of personality.
Busy when you need to be busy, isn't it good to be alone when you need someone?
Fourth, how do people who like to be alone integrate into the workplace and get along better with colleagues? 1. Change the adaptive environment.
A person is a personal matter outside of work, but at work, you have to deal with people, so you must learn to change yourself, try to actively communicate with colleagues and integrate into the group as much as possible.
It is not difficult to get along with colleagues. As long as you are sincere and friendly, you will find that everyone is eager to be accepted and understood by others, and is eager for their love and help.
2. Dare to try new ways of doing things
You are afraid of interpersonal relationships. Although it is difficult to change in a short time, you should get up the courage and face your colleagues with a positive attitude. Usually observe how they communicate, then learn from their appearance and talk about some topics that everyone thinks are both relaxed and interesting.
Being helpful is also a way to win the favor of others. Within the scope of your own power, solve some small difficulties for your colleagues around you, and you will unconsciously integrate into everyone.
Generally speaking, people who like to be alone don't have to deliberately create interpersonal relationships if they want to integrate into the workplace. First, do your job well and improve your working ability. Many times, interpersonal relationships are not that difficult.
I hope the above will be helpful to the subject.
It's not a bad thing that a person doesn't like to talk and likes to be alone.
For some fields or positions, they have inherent advantages.
Because I don't like to talk and I'm not disturbed, it's easier to keep my thinking careful and continuous;
I like being alone and enjoying the quiet atmosphere. Such a quiet environment makes it easier for people to calm down and get inspiration, and some works full of imagination and creativity are born.
Nowadays, the society is developing rapidly and changing with each passing day, which also provides more choices for people who don't like to talk and like to be alone.
For example: work related to writing and copywriting planning.
Another example: painting Art editor, design and scientific research.
Another example: creativity and program development.
For example, start your own business, do what you like and leave the rest to others.
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Look, are there many such jobs?
I hope I don't like talking, but I like being alone. It's just your personality, not your weird label.
But in fact, you don't refuse to communicate at work.
In short, be optimistic and confident.
20 18, I will pass soon, and I don't want to stay.
20 19, it will arrive soon, but it hasn't been done yet.
Either some posts with thresholds, such as:
2. Research category. In the research room of colleges and universities, some scientific research institutions have higher requirements for professional knowledge and scientific research ability, and their interpersonal relationships are relatively simple. You don't have to deal with people in Dachuan.
3. Technical posts. Of course, it is not a technical post that requires people to talk less. It is only because many technical employees are technical houses, write code statically and like to be alone, so the technical post as a whole presents such a state.
These positions have certain skills and technical barriers, which need professional accumulation.
Or some relatively low-tech jobs, such as:
1. Data collation, archives, librarians, etc. You face more information than people every day.
2. Warehouse management. The main object of work is goods, and I have more time alone, needless to say.
These positions are not high in technical content and can be chosen, but many people disdain to choose.
So have you found that for most of us ordinary people, we are neither sophisticated nor bottom-level, and those ordinary people in the middle are destined to talk a lot and deal with many people every day.
What's more, the work you may have listed above is only relative. As a social person, it is inevitable to contact with others. And no matter what you do, the ultimate goal is to spread your own ideas, that is, to sell your own products. This purpose requires communication with others, recognition and income. It is unrealistic to always ask for solitude, but it can only be achieved within a certain range.
For example, if you are a writer, you always want others to recognize your work and you want to publish it, so you need to deal with publishers and editors; You are a painter and calligrapher. If you want to hold an exhibition, you must deal with professional organizations and individuals who run such activities. As a technician, you should report to the leader and solve technical problems for the product department of the operation department. Even if you are a researcher in a research institution, you need many people to cooperate to complete the research; The warehouse manager must also contact the logistics personnel.
In this kind of social survival work, it is actually very difficult to be alone for a long time, so we can only create our own conditions to be alone. This is the helplessness of adults. If you really don't like talking, cherish your time alone!
There is a unit that is very suitable for you to go, that is, to work in a crematorium. There is no place to chat with you, even if you want to chat, no one will talk to you. Very quiet. Do whatever you want! There is another advantage that no one will interfere with you. Whether they used to be singers, movie stars or even big officials, as long as they come to you, they have to listen to your command.
Haha, my job is not suitable for talking. My friend asked me what my job was. I have to tell you myself, but I can't tell anyone. I am a sanitation worker. When sweeping the road, I was the only one cleaning my own lot. I won't chat with passers-by, and no one will help me sweep!
I don't like to talk, but I like to be alone. This is my personal character. Every job in society has interactive communication. It's just that some industries need more language communication and more activities.
A teacher, when he steps onto the platform, must have a careful plan to impart subject knowledge in vivid and simple teaching language. If you are still considering your own personality, you are not good at words and like to be alone, this teacher can't do it. In real life, there are indeed some teachers who are usually taciturn, but once they enter the classroom, they can talk endlessly and the classroom teaching is orderly. This is trying to adapt myself to the work, rather than overemphasizing any personality problems.
Social competition is becoming more and more fierce. No matter what kind of work you are engaged in, it is a struggle. It is necessary to have both personal talent and the spirit of collective cooperation and coordination, which are inseparable from the expression of language and the exchange of ideas. Those who are in front of computers in the Internet industry seem to be working independently in the face of boring data. In fact, this is an extremely complicated and huge system engineering. How does an overly withdrawn person fit into the research team?
Therefore, don't fantasize that you can have a job without talking, and you can meditate silently like a temple practice. Unless you are really a monk and nun.
Chef: The chef's cooking environment is also not suitable for chatting. As long as the technology is good, no problem. Just work hard.
Taxi driver: Good driving skills are more important than anything else.
Bus driver: Send it safely, keep it clean, and don't use communication more.
Hugh: As long as the technology is good.
All these skills require some learning. If you say you won't and don't want to learn from scratch, I tell you, wait, there will be a good job for you.
To tell the truth, I'm just a person who doesn't like to talk very much. I can sit there and read for a long time alone.
Six months before my second child was going to kindergarten, I began to look for a job. I came across a children's book editor who mentioned in a chat in Weibo that he had just resigned, and completed a series of interviews and employment procedures within two days. I searched the recruitment conditions of this industry and felt that I had the hope of getting an interview, so I began to collect information and organize my resume.
I like reading books myself, so before that, I thought that being an editor was just sitting there reading manuscripts and revising them in batches without dealing with people. But a closer look at this industry shows that it is not what I thought. For example, as a children's book editor, because many books are imported, you should contact the author of the translation and reading guide. After you get the manuscript, you have to communicate with the teacher, revise and improve it. This is just a manuscript, with covers and illustrations. We need to communicate with Art editor to find the best solution. Printing, typesetting, distribution ... all need to deal with people.
In order to understand the editing industry, I bought a copy of Dear Genius, and I was quite shocked to find the above fact. But at that time, I was riding a tiger, because I had got an interview opportunity for an editor and passed it smoothly, which was very rare for me who had been full-time for many years and was unwilling to give up, so I had to give it a try anyway.
Thanks to the Internet age, most contacts are made through qq or WeChat. Moreover, my language organization ability is ok, and I am not nervous about such communication, and my language is appropriate. I have successfully invited some famous teachers to translate and write instructions.
So I think editing work can be considered for people who don't like to talk and like to be alone. My biggest headache at that time was that the company often had dinner. Although this is also a benefit from the boss, I don't want to participate. By the way, I get along well with my colleagues, and I still have contact after I quit my job.
Comparatively speaking, the freelance writer I am doing now is more suitable for me. The whole process is online communication, there is no such entertainment.
Programmers deserve it. Do not like to talk, indicating that you are introverted; Being alone means that you are withdrawn or indifferent. In short, you don't like dealing with people.
First: Programmers
Then programmers are suitable for this kind of people. Programming itself is a very boring job. However, because of its strong professionalism and technicality, the person who does this job must put 12 points of energy into it. Working wholeheartedly makes programmers forget themselves. In addition to eating and sleeping, occasionally taking a dip with colleagues and friends, the last thing you need is to talk to people.
Second: professional traders
For a trader who is ready to manipulate hundreds of millions, caution and concentration are the only things he has to do at work.
Generally refers to the person designated by this plan to buy and sell products in the financial securities and futures market. They use their accurate grasp of the disk to help customers control the disk and use their own financial advantages to operate assets. Therefore, when they are working, they need to pay attention to the trend of each K line and find the best time to enter the warehouse. So they have no time to care about others at work, and they have no spare time to talk and deal with others.
Third: Archives &; librarian
Because of their own working environment, librarians don't need too many languages to work in the library. Most of them just need to do things quietly and occasionally guide readers in the positioning of books.
The archivist only needs to deal with all kinds of files, and his job is to sort out and file the documents. No need to talk, no need to deal with people.
Fourth: website editing
Website editors should concentrate on writing and uploading articles every day, and rarely communicate with people, so they don't need to talk to people or deal with them.
Fifth: Designers
Designers are often immersed in their own thinking fields, only need to design well, and rarely need to communicate with others.
Sixth: experts in data statistics
Statisticians talk with data, not chat. They are immersed in spreadsheets and formulas every day, which is very suitable for people who don't like to talk and like to be alone.
The above work is more professional, but it is more suitable for people who don't like to talk and like to be alone.