1. About the husband's low income
In the past two years, the global economy has been in a downturn. Coupled with the impact of the epidemic, many factories shut down and many people lost their jobs. Your husband still has a job, at least in the state of income. This is a comfort at the moment. Of course, it's a bit of a Q spirit. On the other hand, there are only 3,000 jobs with a monthly income, and the requirements for skills are not high, which is a relatively low-level job. A job with a monthly income of 30,000 to 40,000-50,000 needs a lot of ability improvement, but it should be relatively easy to improve the ability from 3,000 to 4,000. So, have you ever considered helping your husband make a career plan to see what skills he needs to improve in order to improve his position? Instead of investing in stocks and futures, it is better to invest in yourself first and then pursue further studies.
About children, nobody cares.
Our society is still in a state of prejudice, and we always feel that children should be taken care of by their mothers. If your family status quo is that your income is much higher than your husband's, then why not consider letting your husband be mainly responsible for taking care of the children, and then use this stage of taking care of the children at home to further improve yourself. After all, the child is yours, and neither parent has the obligation to take care of it for you. Helping is mutual affection, and not helping is also my duty.
3. About your emotions
You said: I was played by love rat before, which led to depression. I'm afraid of having a daughter and meeting bad people. I think the world is unfair to girls. I want a son, but I only have one daughter! What shall we do? "Since it's love rat, there must be something remarkable about coaxing girls, so don't blame yourself too much for being fooled. What you want to see is that you have the courage to leave him and get a husband who loves you and your children. You're amazing!
The world is diverse. Girls will meet love rat and boys will meet green tea. If you think the world is unfair to girls, you should accompany and care for your daughter. In the process of accompanying your daughter to grow up, maybe your inner child will be cured. Because of your past experience, you know how to better identify love rat. These experiences can help your children avoid stepping on the pit in the future. Although you are in trouble, you are not alone. Good family background; Husband has a sense of responsibility, loves home and is handsome in the sunshine; Can get the support of parents. These are your very advantageous resources. As long as you make good use of these resources, it will be enough to resist the predicament you are in now.