For one thing, 100 people may have 100 ideas. Forget it. Everyone else thinks so, because everyone has different levels and different ways of thinking. When the Woods are big, there are all kinds of birds. Maybe some people can't see the good of others and the bad of others. Envy, jealousy and hatred may all be among them. Look carefully. Because the current real society is very realistic, there are really not many girls like you. For a girl, if the other person has no house or car, it may not be considered at all. Some people may think that your boyfriend makes a lot of money and attack you, but what they may not expect is that you just want to buy a second-hand house, which is already very low, and you can still see the family situation of your boyfriend's family.
For example, if you want to buy a nice property in a first-tier and second-tier city, your boyfriend's income may really be nothing. It will take ten or twenty years to own your own property, to get married and have children, and then to consider personal problems? Isn't it nice to have a girl who doesn't mind these things and is willing to create a new life with each other from scratch? In your hometown, I believe many parents will mind bride price, banquet and ostentation and extravagance, because these things involve the face of the woman's parents, and these things are money! ! How much does your boyfriend earn?
I advise you not to think too much, live your own life, follow your own rhythm and follow your own plan. There is no need to listen to what others say. As long as you think it's right, do it resolutely. Marriage is your own and has nothing to do with anyone. As a middle-aged person, I support you more, not because you raised this question, but because I think you are a kind-hearted girl. I like you! A little personal understanding and opinion, I hope I can help you!