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After reading it, do the fifth chapter.
The fifth chapter of the dry method is the feeling after reading. After reading the fifth chapter, the pursuit of "perfectionism" is a state that many people can't fully understand. The fifth chapter of the dry method is the feeling after reading. Because not everyone can understand the initial goal and the process of achieving "perfectionism". What is the starting point of pursuit? Target+action. 3% people have a clear long-term goal in society, and they have hardly changed their life goals for decades, and they have made unremitting efforts in the same direction. Almost all of them have become top successful people in all walks of life, including self-made entrepreneurs, industry leaders and social elites. 10% people with clear short-term goals mostly live in the upper and middle classes of society. Their common characteristics are: those short-term goals are constantly realized, their living conditions are steadily rising, and they become indispensable professionals in all walks of life. Such as doctors, lawyers, engineers, executives and so on. At the same time, they feel satisfied and gain more confidence in the process of achieving short-term goals. 60% people who are vague about their goals almost all live in the middle and lower classes of society. They can live and work in peace and contentment, but they have no special achievements. The remaining 27% are aimless people, almost all of whom live at the bottom of society. Their life is not satisfactory. They often lose their jobs and rely on social relief. They often complain about others, society and the world. But there are two kinds of people who set goals, one is practical and the other is theoretical. If you don't change yourself as the goal of reading this book, read it as "crazy" speech. Then, you will not change anything. You will still live a sleepwalking life in the longing and expectation for the future, and your goal will always be the goal. Excellent works come from "perfectionism". Hewitt, a psychologist at the University of British Columbia, once divided perfectionism into three types: the first type is "self-demanding", and he set high standards for himself. The motivation for pursuing perfection comes entirely from himself. The second is "asking others", setting high standards for others and not allowing others to make mistakes. The third type is the "requested" type. His motivation for pursuing perfection is to meet the expectations of others. He always feels that he is expected and always wants to be perfect. Perfectionism is a double-edged sword, which has both advantages and disadvantages. On the one hand, it is the driving force for people's continuous progress; On the other hand, this pursuit of perfection is also a heavy burden. Under the pressure of modern society, it makes perfectionists see their own reality.